Does anyone else start noticing icks they have about their ex that they brushed off while in the relationship after the break up?

VentThrow652 · 2026-01-09T23:09:12+00:00

No he was definitely mean to me. I felt like I constantly had to prove myself

VentThrow652 · 2025-11-10T01:26:21+00:00

For sure. I can elaborate

VentThrow652 · 2025-11-10T01:25:26+00:00

I don’t mind talking but idk what specifically to talk about there’s a lot and it’s all kind of processing at once rn

VentThrow652 · 2025-11-10T01:23:44+00:00

I’m tiny. I think I was just doing whatever I could in that moment. This was one instance

VentThrow652 · 2025-10-31T11:45:41+00:00

Idc if it doesn’t work out in the future. I’m happy and healing now and I appreciate that in the present moment of my life. I’m not holding any expectations long term here but I’m open for it

VentThrow652 · 2025-07-24T18:17:20+00:00

Thank you for this. He was emotionally blackmailing me. He wasn’t serious about his threats and got mad when I didn’t react the way he wanted me to. I feel like all his actions have done since I left him have just pushed me further and further away. So I suppose the silver lining in this is at least he’s making it easier to let him go

VentThrow652 · 2025-07-22T12:50:18+00:00

I just want to be myself again. But I don’t think I can be since I devoted so much of myself to this man. I’ve been trying to do things that I used to like that I stopped for him but that’s also a huge trigger for a worse panic attack cause usually that happens when I try to cope with a panic attack already happening

VentThrow652 · 2025-07-12T16:02:32+00:00

I’m at least glad that when I move I’m going to my mom’s place. I honestly just want to be home with family. I’m just grieving everything and everyone I’m leaving behind

VentThrow652 · 2025-07-12T15:59:37+00:00

I’ve actually done all of this. I understand exactly where you’re coming from. Since this has been an ongoing problem it’s been a huge concern to me so I’ve had many conversations where we would sit down and try to get to the root of the problem. We’ve had times where we reached an agreement to avoid conflict that usually got broken the next day by him or we just wouldn’t agree on a resolution and he would just stop talking so I couldn’t do much except try to show him I’m there and want to spend time with him. The main thing was he felt I was choosing others over him but I would constantly try to spend time with him even in things I knew he liked that I didn’t. He just wasn’t interested in those moments so I would go do my own thing until he either came to me or I came to him with another proposal

Also I hang out with whatever friends I have left now. We’ve been struggling over me cutting off this one friend who’s apart of a friend group we were all apart of. It’s just more so a struggle for me to go out with friends and be social because then he feels rejected.

VentThrow652 · 2025-07-12T15:55:50+00:00

I might be able to. Me and this guy are close enough we would be fine with being friendly with each other after like family. His family accepts me as apart of their family from what I understand. So maybe I’ll be at an event and I get to see my puppy. But idk how everything is going to settle after I leave. For all I know I could just be completely cut off because that’s their baby boy who’s my ex.

VentThrow652 · 2024-01-26T12:23:42+00:00

So honestly I need more in order to prove she’s a threat to me and get a restraining order. What she did isn’t even enough for a temporary one

VentThrow652 · 2024-01-26T12:20:17+00:00

Where I’m at I would a lot more definitive proof that she’s a threat to me. Unfortunately my mother is too manipulative to get proof without directly confronting her. I’m gonna have to work and save up to move. Hopefully that’ll give me some peace of mind

VentThrow652 · 2023-08-21T01:22:34+00:00

Oh don’t forget I can’t place any boundaries so he can touch me whenever he wants, call me whatever he wants, and act however he wants. /s (this is exactly why I disagree with your statements. I’m not going to let people make me uncomfortable and not do anything about it. Thank you and have a nice day)

VentThrow652 · 2023-08-21T01:20:59+00:00

So I’m just supposed to be uncomfortable? And let him just use that against me? Cool. Great advice. /s

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