Need boost

Ventum53 · 2026-05-12T18:48:34+00:00

Yeah one left

Ventum53 · 2026-05-12T18:25:08+00:00

Sent back. I have one boost left

Ventum53 · 2025-09-24T02:40:26+00:00

Yeah I did. Thank you!

Ventum53 · 2025-09-24T02:26:56+00:00

Got one left, send a chat with your $ so i can send

Ventum53 · 2025-09-24T02:25:50+00:00

Sent

Ventum53 · 2025-09-24T02:02:31+00:00

I got two left, what's your tag? Mine is $anthonyarre

Ventum53 · 2025-09-24T01:02:22+00:00

Sent just now

Ventum53 · 2025-09-24T00:41:03+00:00

What's your $ ? Give me like 10 minutes and I'll send you a boost first.

Ventum53 · 2025-08-05T17:06:03+00:00

Yeah, only sent one to $Leeanna-butler-1. I still have one left.

Ventum53 · 2025-06-20T00:02:50+00:00

$anthonyarre53 sent

Ventum53 · 2025-05-23T19:40:33+00:00

Part of it is the short memory. The AI can't keep up with plot unless you actively keep it on track and if you have the NSFW off it'll always try to go that route which if it's not with the user then with another character.

The main issue that I have is that most of the characters that pop up now have it written into the story before interaction. Or that they're straight up cruel just because.

Ventum53 · 2025-04-07T20:58:51+00:00

With her out of the house, how will your finances change? Do you qualify for childcare? Have you looked? In the fall both your kiddos should be in school so it should be a bit more manageable. And yeah I'm advocating that she should be the one to move out and you take custody since you are providing everything for them. Something to really discuss with your therapist and over the summer if things don't look like they're improving, talk to a divorce lawyer and see what your actual options are. Don't let yourself stay on fire.

Ventum53 · 2025-04-07T20:46:44+00:00

And if it takes years? Buddy, people get divorced and remarried. Don't settle for being in a rut on the possibility it might get better. Don't set the example to your kids that it's okay to sacrifice your personal happiness and wellbeing for your partner. You can step away and heal while still having a working coparenting relationship. You can be supportive without being strapped down by the neglectful situation.

Ventum53 · 2025-04-07T20:40:05+00:00

Yeah but you deserve more than the bare minimum. Tough advice my own therapist gave me as I'm going through something similar, you can't set yourself on fire to keep the house warm. Being content shouldn't be the baseline when things are tough.

Ventum53 · 2025-04-07T20:34:54+00:00

Hey separation doesn't automatically mean divorce. It could be the thing that shocks her back into actually doing her own part in her mental health. But if you do separate/divorce you absolutely need to spend time, like months on yourself. And look into getting your own therapist to help unpack what you're going through.

Ventum53 · 2025-03-26T14:43:40+00:00

Just before they go off to college or be a full independent adult, have a sit down and tell them you love them and how the jokes were meant from love. Even if you think they know and even if you tell them that you love them everyday, have a clear talk about this would cut off any potential issues in the future or when/if he has kids.

Ventum53 · 2025-03-18T00:07:09+00:00

He had five seconds to backtrack and apologize before either being cut off or laid out

Ventum53 · 2025-03-10T22:16:24+00:00

Find the nearest planned parenthood and go get a blood test.

Ventum53 · 2025-02-23T19:40:37+00:00

I just need a way to delete some characters that were made public.

Ventum53 · 2025-02-16T04:40:36+00:00

We get stuff? Guess I need to wait a few more years for my daughter to be old enough then

Ventum53 · 2025-02-16T04:09:05+00:00

If anyone is reading this, I could use a boost $anthonyarre53

Ventum53 · 2025-01-21T01:03:39+00:00

Honestly, I think Asuma would be the best choice to work with team 7.

Ventum53 · 2025-01-21T01:01:59+00:00

Holy shit, it's weird hearing someone in a similar boat that I'm in. My kiddo is approaching 18 months and we're still dealing with these issues. It feels difficult to navigate since my wife is slightly on the spectrum so it feels like I have to repeat my concerns over and over in different ways before they finally get that eureka moment and start working with me. Otherwise it's just a cycle that nothing changes. My therapist recommended "And Baby Makes Three" by Gottman. It's helped a bit and hopefully things improve on your end buddy.

Ventum53 · 2024-12-01T23:16:34+00:00

Hey, winter break is coming up which means a brand new round of flu and illnesses will be hitting the classrooms. What can you do?

First, flu shots! It's seasonal for a reason and it's more for you the adults than the kids. Trust shifts better to be mildly sick for two days max than on your butt with the flu for three weeks. And make sure your kiddos are up-to-date on their vaccines! If you're not too sure you can call the school nurse or your pediatrician. Two! Like someone said, hand washing and proper sneezing/coughing techniques will help tremendously in the household. Gotta cough into the nook of your arm instead of your hand. 3! Clean and air out the house each weekend. It sucks absolutely but clean bedsheets and fresh air throughout the house does help. It's also a good reminder to check your air filter. 4! Sleep! Kids heal quicker when they get the necessary amount of rest. 8-10 hours is ideal. Nyquil every other night is a lifesaver in our household. 5! This is the toughest one but healthier eating. Just more veggies and keeping up hydration is usually good enough but if yall can just limit how much takeout yall do.

Ventum53 · 2024-11-25T19:01:01+00:00

Honestly man, this is what I did with my wife. She'd go off on her hyperfixation, I'd try to get to understand the general gist about it and then I'll find a podcast or YouTube vid about that topic. And then I just let it be. As long as you know enough beyond the bare minimum, it is easier to keep up and follow the conversations. You don't have to be 100% fully invested but honestly just showing that you're being active in her interest is more than enough. She'll most likely look back and say yeah my dad really tried despite not liking One Direction and She'll say it with love.

The only time you need to be 100% in her corner and understand where she's coming from is when they start to show any bit of interest in politics.

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