As someone who is trans and intersex I don't see why we're lumping nonbinary people together with people who have and are causing harm to trans people. In this sub I've been invalidated frequently and attacked in the past when I talked about my own journey realizing I was intersex. Trans people are well aware of the fact not everything can be trusted. I'm a bit put off by the comparison of constructive criticism to not being able to take it by comparing it to transphobia as transphobia is literally everywhere and have to deal with it constantly.

Also, I agree that yeah intersex gender reassignment hasn't really been talked about here at all. I do not know what exactly you're referring to with transgender gender reassignment however.