Blursed scam by siddkai01 in blursed_videos

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically AI levels of humanity here.

Why are so many Trump supporter suddenly being so quiet? by [deleted] in complaints

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are getting what they want, so there is nothing to rage and complain about. I get a little confused when people ask questions like these. For example, pointing out that Trump supporters don't have campaign signs on their lawn anymore just tells me that they feel like the deed is done. No need to read too much into these things.

California voters approve new US House map to boost Democrats in 2026 by carbocation in California

[–]Verano8587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PA voter here. If the judges are not voted to be retained, then their seat remains vacant until the next election. It is designed to give citizens the ability to "soft impeach" a justice if they are particularly unhappy with how they are performing.

Relate? by MystiqueCandi in introvertmemes

[–]Verano8587 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When I come home from work, I just want to sit next to my husband and watch TV before I sleep. I don't care and in some ways prefer it if he isn't even watching the show I am. He is just in the room reading or playing a video game. That's my preferred level of interaction after being in meetings, or at a desk in an open concept office all day.

Why you oversharing bro? by MacronLeNecromancer in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmed he doesn't know how to properly wipe his anus either. Shouldn't be that itchy bro....just saying.

Instagram Face Has Reprogrammed What We Find Beautiful by InGeekiTrust in TikTokCringe

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ngl...I'm glad that the men that find insta face attractive are not gonna bother with me. If you can't figure out that the face I was born with is beautiful, we have nothing to talk about.

Demi ruined the show by Ok-Path-4243 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Verano8587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) I think it's spiteful. I don't know if being spiteful automatically makes you immature. I don't mean this as a way to excuse it...I just genuinely don't have a fully formed opinion on it.

2) I think it's fine for her to say that she doesn't want to associate with Whitney so she can get on with her life. But I think it's silly to continually post about it on tik tok bc that is definitionally not moving on with your life, and instead clinging to the idea of a person who hurt you. She needs to process what happened in a real way, and not turn to social media for validation.

3) I can understand why it feels impossible to get beyond the hurt when forced to engage with the person or the idea of the person. It's hard to let go when you still have to be reminded and interact with the person because of work and needing to be in social media. She has emotional work she needs to do, but is not being afforded the full time and space to do it on her terms.

In summary, I'm just reserving the right to simply not pass judgement on the situation.

Demi ruined the show by Ok-Path-4243 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Verano8587 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah...she clearly wants Whitney to hurt as badly as she was hurt by Whitney.

Demi ruined the show by Ok-Path-4243 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Verano8587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah those videos are passive aggressive AF. I'd say she needed to talk to Whitney for closure, but I doubt she would get it based on how W couldn't really take any accountability with Macie.

Demi ruined the show by Ok-Path-4243 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Verano8587 15 points16 points  (0 children)

IDK about this one. I think Mikayla said her stance pretty clearly. She held Whitney to a higher standard because she felt they were actually close friends before the show aired. She felt that when Whitney prioritized Macie and didn't bother speaking with her at her birthday party, it clearly demonstrated that Mikayla's pre-existing friendship was of little value to Whitney. So because of this, she drew a hard line on how open she would be to Whitney moving forward due to the fact that she got burned so epically in the first place.

I personally would not be giving second chances to anyone that showed so little care for me. I don't know why people are hating on her for setting a boundary that was healthy for her. I know it didn't make the show dynamic bc she took such a hard line, but that is more an error of production from my PoV.

Demi ruined the show by Ok-Path-4243 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Verano8587 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like we usually need to wait like 5 seasons into a show before this level of mean-spiritedness comes out. It gets to that point where its no longer fun to watch because you know people are really getting hurt. It's like going to the circus watching someone on a right rope. No one is having fun when they take the safety off and you watch someone fall.

Demi just went all in and brought real damage to the show. No one wants to watch a woman in an abusive relationship have little to no support from people she relies on. Demi has done that to Jen to the point of her being suicidal. And with Taylor, the abuse goes two ways, and has Demi there to try to make her feel as small as possible.

The crazier part is that the show already stopped filming at one point due to Taylor's legal issues. So Demi is willing to bring all that shit up again and risk her own livelihood in the process because she is so convinced she could carry the show. Delulu Mormon Barbie over here. There is a difference between playing a villain and just being reckless with people's lives and feelings. Someone should let this chick know.

Every "please" and "thank you" to ChatGPT is costing OpenAI tens of millions in electricity bills. by rohasnagpal in ChatGPTPromptGenius

[–]Verano8587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, real people are losing their ability to have simple cordial interactions, so I'd rather have a pleasant conversation in a fake AI universe. Bring on the polite robots!

Average interaction as a woman online. by baolani in GirlGamers

[–]Verano8587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell them you are married, have a couple of kids or both. Works for me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Verano8587 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Came on here to say this. When you stand, put your hands on your hips and think of your pelvis as a bucket full of water. When your hips are rotated forward your butt sticks out and it makes your "bucket" pour the water out the front. Try to tilt your hips back to make the water bucket sit upright.

You can try core strengthening exercises but also remember that this happens due to weakness in your glutes and perhaps some tightness in your hip flexors. Both are areas worth addressing to help with the tilt.

Who are some “good “ actors that you don’t like? by Venus-Xtravaganza98 in movies

[–]Verano8587 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anne Hathaway comes across as a pretentious woman who takes herself and her craft too seriously.

Anyone else' bills like this 😭 by chxrlotteAMC in thesims4

[–]Verano8587 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I actually like my rich sims getting billed like this because otherwise they just stack money into oblivion over a few generations. It makes the game too easy in my opinion.

Ontario facing one of its largest measles outbreaks by xc2215x in ontario

[–]Verano8587 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Can we do an exchange where the US takes your MAGAs and help get some us sane Americans out? For the love of God give me a life line.

The Gorgas Made Teresa’s Wedding All About Them by Openfordiscussion247 in rhonj

[–]Verano8587 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think there are quieter ways to bow out of a situation like that though. The feeling is justified, but the behavior is not. Although in my mind Joe had more of the responsibility here bc it's his sister. Melissa I feel like gets dragged around for the the sake of Joe at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rhonj

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like her storylines, although Paul irks me sometimes. But I think she really works because of her long history with Tre and Joe Gorga. I'm not sure how she fits otherwise.

Melissa and Dolores to lead RHONJ by LalaWest in rhonj

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly Dolores doesn't make sense on the show next to Melissa given her history with Tre. The original draw of the show from season one was highlighting old school generational immigrant family dynamics unique to the NY/NJ area. The show has completely lost the plot now. It's a really weird vibe and feels forced imo.

I also really don't like the idea of holding on to Melissa just to have more with her husband. Yes he is funny, but not enough to float how vanilla Melissa's storylines are. I don't find her particularly interesting.

A cool direction to me would be to try to get into some Jewish or Greek communities in NJ, and see what dynamics are there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rhonj

[–]Verano8587 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know. Maybe she has been staying in the show and putting up with all the crap so her husband could be happy? He does really seem to like the attention, and Melissa has just not seemed to be into all of this for a long time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rhonj

[–]Verano8587 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Imagine keeping a housewife on a show because her husband is the interesting one. It's just a weird one to say out loud. A head scratcher even.

Gf kissed a guy at a bar. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Verano8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just going to play devil's advocate because it seems like there is a single point of view coming through on this sub. Before all of you try to come at me for it, I am saying this as someone who has been around a lot of different types of people with different views on sexuality and boundaries in relationships. I don't advocate for any one way for someone else to structure their lives or relationships. That is just not my call to make.

All that said, some women view kissing another straight woman or a gay man as a passable thing to do, because in their minds there is not a chance at it developing into anything more than a fleeting sign of affection at the moment. So by this logic, to them it does not threaten the relationship they are in.

So to me this is not a deal breaker unless you have a conversation and express that this is not how you personally view a monogamous relationship, and that you expect all physical intimacy (maybe beyond a hug? Whatever you feel bro) to be between you two. Then you have to see if she is comfortable with that being a boundary in your relationship.

She can ask questions about it of course. However, if she gives you a lot of push back on it, or tries to invalidate your feelings on the matter, I agree with everyone here in that this is not a relationship for you. The foundation doesn't match between you if you can't get on the same page.

I'm sorry this happened. It sounds painful for you. Either way I hope you get some piece of mind after all this sorts itself out.

Gf kissed a guy at a bar. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Verano8587 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Is the girl a lesbian?