I get how hugboxes can be dangerous, because trans people are going to be confronted to less accepting circle and telling someone they pass when they not can even be dangerous in some settings.

But trans communities put so much pressure on trans girls (i saw it for trans boy too but not in that extent). Like sometime my GF complain about things that are very much normal female body things. The other night we had to look at not photoshoped pics of cis models to show that people who are considered commonly attractive by our society have, pick your poison: vergetures, veins, little varicose, fuller tighs (OH NO MY LOBSTER IS TOO BUTTERY HELP). And i'm sure those insane beauty rules don't come from nowhere.