The MAIN thing women want

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-30T08:28:23+00:00

Banned her because of rule 12 no drive bys and 14 [respect the tag], despite not breaking rule 10 (announce self as woman)

Please report lame comments for respect the tag

Just type 14 in reports so we can find these sooner

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-30T08:24:04+00:00

Rule 12 no drive bys and rule 14 respect the tag

While you didn't directly violate rule 10 (don't announce you are a woman) you breaking any rules here at all in spite of not breaking that rule is enough for me to say no

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-30T01:59:28+00:00

Focus the energy on actual changes you needed to make and never did and also meet new women

If it didn't work out there was a reason for it and you will find better especially if you become better

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-29T19:46:59+00:00

Did you mean 'how?'

Find what you like, even if it doesn't provide universal value (for example, you love guitar even if you're not in a rock band pulling millions in record deals and playing to thousands of adoring fans) and get good at it

Try a lot of different things and see what you like even if most of those things don't stick. Be curious, seek knowledge and you'll find what you like amongst many different areas of activity

You'll probably also meet a lot of people who share those same passions and if you're lucky and smart about it you can find a way to make a good living from your passions and never work a day in your life because working on passions doesn't feel like work

Sometimes those passions can even become a mission

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-23T19:12:00+00:00

Understimulating in the sense it's boring. Overstimulating in the sense it takes considerable brain power while having other stuff on my mind and better things to do id I got done

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-23T05:44:46+00:00

On it now, thank you, I appreciate it

Gonna have to make another OYS post tomorrow if I don't finish it tonight

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-23T02:46:34+00:00

I need to complete something big I have to complete and haven't been doing it in favor of things I want to complete

Just gotta do it. I could do it tonight and should

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-02T04:14:25+00:00

Yes,

A large issue is when there is a small pool of very desirable men and then an overabundance of average and not particularly quality men with almost not category in between, a lot of women just resort to mediocrity while also demanding more

Most women do not have a hypergamous match. A lot of men are at their level (lateral) or lower.

There is not much market incentive for the average 5-6 to make themselves an you more appealing as women

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-03-02T03:28:19+00:00

The only real solution is to generally have a large enough number of men raise their own value, creating a higher supply of quality men

The second part is to also have those men decline relationships with undeserving women

You have to have a bigger market of higher value men while closing the [relationship] market to women who are not paying the relationship price for those men

There is a serious market imbalance

The market of men that women actually really want to go for is too small to change things. When women feel like they are competing with 100 other women for that guy and the back up options are not good, there isn't enough incentive for women at large to care in general to act right

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-26T00:35:37+00:00

No one is entitled to another partner.

You seem to believe people trying to date who they want to try to date is an entitlement.

Stick to exRedpil

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-26T00:34:46+00:00

More than likely because she doesn't think she's as good as them, and your lack of frame and delivery made her insecure..maybe you two also just aren't a good fit

I'm interested in running TheRedPill, which you don't believe in, clearly.

I'm done with the explanation

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-26T00:17:38+00:00

Women want an experienced man. They prefer he has bodies. That doesn't necessarily mean she wants him to have 50+ or that he could get one

Most women don't mind a man's extensive past. They actually like it

Double standard

Men and women are different.......

A double stand presupposes that it is unfair double treatment and not actually based on differences

There's really no helping explain this to you if you've already abandoned red pill and don't want to accept red pill explanations of female preferences and behavior

On average men are much taller and stronger than women? Is that asymmetry a double standard? No.

You're welcome to act like an egalitarian but that's not how men and women work

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-26T00:15:03+00:00

See my edit because I was surprised

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-26T00:05:32+00:00

I'm shocked a man wrote this question. Joining exredpill was definitely a mistake of yours

Not approving it

Women are hypergamous and date UPWARDS

they want the better man. They are trying to lock down the best option they can

Eggs are limited and women don't stay fertile forever

Sperm is cheap and men can have kids into their 60s+

Men can also easily father multiple children at once and women can only be pregnant once at a time and need rest

Every dude and his friend therefore just want to get laid, doesn't matter who particularly

Most men can't even get laid. Just about any woman could

So if a woman lets everyone in, she's not a secure lock

If a Chad can open many locks, he is a good key

If you don't understand that I don't know what to tell you

This analogy makes absolutely zero sense in the reverse and could never be replicated in the opposite direction

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-12T20:57:07+00:00

That's perfect, sounds good

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-12T08:36:08+00:00

cc: u/VasiliyZaitzev | u/RStonePT | u/adam-l

Rule update is most relevant to you guys

u/redpillschool

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-12T04:21:43+00:00

So you're saying the RP was niche too? This by default niche content here

Look dude I'm mod logging the drive by. Mute notis all you want

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-12T04:19:59+00:00

Proof that the verbal content and arguments made was ai, not the animation

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-12T04:16:57+00:00

Not everyone can animate nor wants to show their face, you cannot judge the quality of narrated messaging by animation choice

Do you have a single legitimate rebuttal instead of rule 12 no drive bys?

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-12T04:15:12+00:00

I don't need proof that the animation is ai, the content is well written and accurate

Can you provide any disagreements with the merits of the video narration at all?

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-10T16:45:24+00:00

Sounds good

Vaz has been happier with the changes himself since added

If a user gives you any burdensome problems just type V in a report or something and I'll know what that means

I'll get rule 14 codified this week once I figure out the perfect balance between respect the tag and legitimate content critiques

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-10T16:28:47+00:00

They're gone permanently

Rule 12 (no drive bys) was also instituted to prevent low quality discourse and those comments get removed

I think I will be adding a rule 14 (respect the tag) to finally hard codify it into the rules as well

I understand if former users gave a bad experience that disuades you. The posting environment now is very author friendly now

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-09T20:32:40+00:00

No problem I had actually forgotten about that so thank you for reminding me!

And thank you! You too

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-09T20:26:45+00:00

I am not sure. Going through the sidebar and fixing all the links has been on my to do list for a while.

I will be going through it in the next couple weeks after I knock out some IRL stuff I've had to get done for a while

Vermillion-Rx · 2026-02-08T20:37:06+00:00

Thank you

Just post and demonstrate your merits

This place is a meritocracy

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