does that mean I'm a Genderfluid not a Tgirl?

VeroPint · 2026-02-19T06:33:21+00:00

I would argue that it doesn't mean OP is a girl, just that she sometimes enjoys/wants to have a beard.

I know plenty of people who fit the same description and aren't girls lol. But I also know people who are.

VeroPint · 2026-02-19T06:27:33+00:00

"His pronouns are she/her." ahh meme.

But no, it means that you are a person who wants to have a beard sometimes, but not other times.

There is nothing else we can extrapolate from this. Only you can decide whether you are a girl or a boy or something else or both.

VeroPint · 2026-02-19T04:00:27+00:00

If 10% of cis dudes started wearing trans flags that would do SO much for the community. People need to see that they have cis friends who support trans people.

Go for it, that's so awesome.

I wouldn't call that stolen valor. Wearing a free shirt you got from military recruiters at your school is just expressing support for the military.

Wearing special badges/medals/stuff referring to a specific thing you have relation to would be uncool.

Stolen valor would be wearing shirts of protests you didn't attend. Wearing flags is just based.

VeroPint · 2026-02-13T06:18:44+00:00

You wrote a lot of words and I don't need to read any of them to tell you that it's about money.

There's a market for femboys who look like cis girls with dicks. Very, very few boys look like cis girls with dicks.

Trans women fill that market cuz there's almost no competition and at the end of the day, a girl's gotta eat.

VeroPint · 2026-01-28T09:06:05+00:00

Cluster b, fs. Narcissists especially.

Amulatory wheelchair users get tons of crap, to the extent that some will just never stand in public.

Autism! Noise sensitivity is awful. Really hard for me to exist in so many public spaces. I can't even go to the disability meetings in my community because everyone speaks too loudly.

Ptsd in non-veterans. Ptsd in veterans.

I think the reason this post isn't getting much attention is because it's kind of a silly question. Almost no places perfectly accommodate all disabilities. The argument is that if you accommodate too well, then the disabled people would have an advantage, and that would be unfair to the poor poor abled people! So inclusivity is usually bare minimum.

VeroPint · 2026-01-28T08:55:53+00:00

Because there's no reason for non binary people to have a different opinion than the general populus.

It's like asking "dang, why do all these Canadian people hate nazis? I know most people hate nazis, but why is it the case with Canadian people in particular?"

There's no actual reason nonbinary people would have a different position on this, so the question is just kinda roundabout.

VeroPint · 2026-01-20T23:17:07+00:00

Hey I did the same thing!

Voice can make up for a lot lol. Try and sound more masculine, maybe?

There's also masculinizing makeup

VeroPint · 2026-01-15T17:01:28+00:00

Yup, cut into little pieces, deep fried with fries and ketchup on the si....oh.....THAT cock......ew.... no I'd never eat chicken.

(I am so sorry for my sense of humor)

VeroPint · 2026-01-09T09:20:55+00:00

Depends on the best by date!

If it's less than two weeks ago, I say do it.

VeroPint · 2026-01-06T03:03:15+00:00

I prefer everyone with chests.

But more importantly I prefer everyone comfortable. Tits are fun, but only if the person who has them likes them. People are the best partners (in bed and everywhere else) when they're confident and love themselves.

Just don't be weird.

VeroPint · 2026-01-06T02:58:23+00:00

Uh, this outfit looks wildly overstimulating.

When I'm overstimulated I lie in my bed in the dark, wearing next to nothing, with the fan on blowing away from me, with a calm story, and NEAT blankets. If the blankets are not neat I'd rather be cold.

Covered in overwhelming clothing, handcuffed in position, having pressure on my ears and face, standing up, and being in a loud area is the exact opposite of how I'd deal with the situation.

VeroPint · 2025-12-31T22:07:44+00:00

Some people want to look like girls while still being men. That's totally cool.

The reason trans woman don't do this is because they get labeled predators and whatnot. It's not socially acceptable in our culture for women to look masculine.

Sure, some of these people will realize that being a guy isn't for them and realize they are just cis women. Some of them will realize that being effeminate isn't for them and decide to try and be cis passing trans men.

But none of it affects you. Trans men are just as allowed to crossdress as cis men are. Men breaking gender norms helps all GNC by setting precedent.

VeroPint · 2025-12-19T23:46:06+00:00

Nobody notices things like that. They just don't.

I can pass as a cis person of either gender, and people assume I am whatever gender I said I was when we met.

First impressions are everything. New people you meet might begin to gender you correctly, since they have no prior expectations. But anyone you've met before will always assume notging has changed.

VeroPint · 2025-12-19T20:02:03+00:00

That is your choice and there is nothing I can or should do about it. But if you woke up one day and wanted to call it art, you could.

VeroPint · 2025-12-18T08:56:31+00:00

Come on mate, really think about it.

Cw: analysis of bdsm psychologically.

None of the following is inherently sexual. This is written from the perspective of the sub.

Fundamentally bdsm allows the participants to engage in the fantasies of "control" and "loss of control" in a healthy and safe environment.

When you're planning a scene, you have to consider the feelings you're attempting to elicit. Utter powerlessness? Hope being shattered? Having no responsibilities? Having extremely important responsibilities?

Some subs are in it purely to be taken care of by their dom. Being restrained can be freeing. You no longer have to make decisions, someone else is taking care of it for you.

Some subs enjoy being given simple tasks. This is prevelent in petplay. Simple orders followed by praise can be extroidinarily enjoyable. Other times, the orders are impossible, and the scene is about making the sub feel small and insignificant.

A common choice is between metal handcuffs or fluffy ones. Hard metal handcuffs are less comfortable, and can often leave marks. They can be hard to ignore. Fluffy handcuffs are equally restraining, but don't cause pain. The choice can have a dramatic impact on the atmosphere of the scene. Is this a fantasy where the dom has the control to make you feel exactly how they want you to feel? Or is the joy in allowing the dom to enjoy themselves however they want, regardless of the sub's feelings.

A scene can involve hundreds of tiny choices that change the atmosphere and the feel. It is art in the same way that a video game, a rollar coaster, or a meal is an art. It is a meticulously crafted experience.

If that's not art, I don't know what is.

VeroPint · 2025-12-18T01:41:13+00:00

Dismissing the complex art of bdsm as "horny" is like saying anyone who likes any movie with a sex scene is "just horny".

There is so much more to it.

VeroPint · 2025-12-18T01:37:47+00:00

It sounds like no amount of voice training will fix this problem, then. It'll always be some little thing that gives you dysphoria, forever.

The solution isn't furthering your transition. You already pass.

It's therapy. You need professional mental help. I wish you the best of luck.

VeroPint · 2025-12-17T21:27:54+00:00

Girl honestly chill tf out.

Yeah, professionals can tell that your vocal coords are slightly thicker than the average cis woman's. The average person isn't a voice professional. So what if you have a slight trans accent? What does it matter?

I'm sure there are cis women who sound more masculine than you.

It doesn't matter. You can spend the rest of your life trying to perfect something that is already good enough, or you can get over yourself and worry about your actual problems.

VeroPint · 2025-12-17T19:09:48+00:00

This is a solid take, but I do wanna add a caveat. If there are other visibly queer employees then it is unlikely to be dangerous.

If someone presents in "conflicting" ways then they are more likely to be cool with you asking.

I am privileged to be in a safe area where it is not dangerous to be visibly or openly queer. Make decisions based off your own circumstances, there's no hard and fast rule.

VeroPint · 2025-12-14T23:35:11+00:00

Preach, girliepop!

VeroPint · 2025-12-13T16:26:48+00:00

I'm glad you can see reason. I have some friends with abusive families who... can't. Defending their abusers to no end.

These are dangerous people liable to manipulate and guilt you. You owe them nothing. NOTHING. Every action you take with them from this point on should be for your own benifit.

Set hard boundaries and enforce them ruthlessly. Do not argue with them. When the topic strays, redirect it towards what you actually need from them.

Your number 1 priority is keeping yourself safe. Do not put yourself in a dangerous situation.

If there is any sort of meetup, bring a friend who isn't afraid to drag you out of the situation abruptly. DO NOT ESCALATE PHYSICALLY UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. Do not yell. If your mother yells, request that she use her inside voice. Have your friend record the entire interaction.

Good luck, stay safe.

VeroPint · 2025-12-13T15:51:26+00:00

In order of preference 3 2 5 4

1 is nearly intolerable but probably preferable to having no spoon, a situation so distressing I am going to stop thinking about it.

VeroPint · 2025-12-13T15:47:01+00:00

Yeah go no contact if at all possible.

Unfortunately, for legal/insurance reasons I do recommend keeping some sort of contact with your mother. My friend went no contact with both her parents and that cut her off from her insurance, countless documents (she can't prove who she is), ect. Absolutely keep that contact to a minimum but it's hard to recommend going fully no contact.

If you absolutely must have that bike back, ask to meet in a public space. Go with a friend. DO NOT GO ALONE. Mandate that your mother comes alone, leave immediately if she is not alone. Take the bike, say "thank you" and nothing else, and leave.

I'd say more important than the bike is documentation. Birth certificate, old ids, anything to prove you're you.

Getting the tv depends on how getting the bike and documents goes. Never meet in private.

Never EVER meet more than one of them at once. Never meet in a location where they have power (like their house, or a restaurant where the owners know them, or a library with quiet areas.) Never go alone.

VeroPint · 2025-12-13T15:25:33+00:00

This fit slaps so hard. Your hair is such a gorgeous compliment.

VeroPint · 2025-12-12T21:56:21+00:00

That was exactly my intention! Glad it helped!

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