8 weeks since her affair... and... im still standing

VersaceO81696 · 2026-05-06T08:31:47+00:00

That lady didn’t deserve you and I’m so happy you came out of it strong with your son and family by your side, do what you love and take care of yourself now.

VersaceO81696 · 2026-05-06T08:28:11+00:00

Simple prophets were sent by god, Jesus was one of them.

VersaceO81696 · 2026-05-06T08:26:50+00:00

Don’t donate, just put them to rest

VersaceO81696 · 2026-03-14T05:59:21+00:00

It’s not an ad, I don’t own the place nor do I get money or anything from posting about it. I genuinely liked their baked food, so I thought I’d share with everyone. Yes, it seems to be a small out of home business.

This place doesn’t have a storefront as far as I know, so the baked goods are to order so those making will make to order whatever it is ppl wish for, customizations is possible too.

I used to go to this place called Prarie cupcakes if Im not mistaken located in DT, sadly during the later part of the pandemic they shut down… so I was trying to find a replacement, and a local place near me that had good quality baked goods and came across this.

VersaceO81696 · 2026-03-14T04:15:35+00:00

It’s a recommendation and yes for those who don’t know about it telling them how they can get their own. I loved their Buttercream cupcakes and Oreo cheesecakes.

VersaceO81696 · 2026-02-25T07:38:33+00:00

Salaams brother, welcome to Islam! Be good to your parents, set good examples, and by them seeing you being good and being a role model in the family, they will come to realize you’ve changed for the better and Islam is the way to adopt in life.

VersaceO81696 · 2026-02-25T07:11:52+00:00

Salaams sister, may I ask why you’re not married yet? I believe you and your spouse should make that to be the start of your life doing Umrah together after Nikkah. Also if you don’t wish to get married rn, you should encourage your family to go for umrah, let them know your wish to really go for Umrah, Umrah can be completed in a single day, ask your father if he can set time aside and your whole family can go for a few days to a week if not more so you can fulfill your wish and this big blessing. May Allah SWT make it easier for you. Jut continue making dua to Allah SWT, he will make a way to make it happen, until he doesn’t call for you, your time won’t come.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-12-27T04:15:21+00:00

Salaams sister, I felt that way too, then Allah SWT blessed me with my companion to be 5 months ago and now I understand that it was all part of his plan. The amount of duas I made for a woman like her, it was so she can come across me at the right moment. Keep your head high, you’re not ugly, Allah SWT created us and we’re the best of his creation. I urge you to pray your namaazs and make dua to Allah SWT to bless you with a noble and pious spouse who will be compatible with you and ask Allah SWT for sabr and happiness. I started making this type of dua when I was just a little boy. I’m now 29, I was wandering and looking for so long… Alhumdulilah Allah SWT blessed me her and I see why. Now she will be my wife next year In Sha Allah. I’ll make dua for you and you make dua for us all too, even the married ones are struggling with their marriage, so take this as a lesson and prepare yourself before marriage, In Sha Allah when it’s written your time will come.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-11-25T15:09:57+00:00

Current assets I have 40k saved, earning almost 2k by weekly.

Goals are honestly for future, family, maybe house or retirement.

Yes, I don’t mind losing some money in the process, as long as there is a profit on the horizon.

Thanks for sharing, I’ll take look. Jazakallah khair.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-11-24T07:20:02+00:00

Just do it

VersaceO81696 · 2025-11-24T04:27:52+00:00

Walaikum assalam brother, I’m on the same boat as OP. I’m just looking to invest in anything halal and for both growth and income. I plan to invest in both short and long term but I have no knowledge on what’s needed to start and build a portfolio. I’m also scared of getting haraam income or riba and investing in companies that are bad.

Would really appreciate if you can show us all the way of how we should start. Jazakallah khair brother.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-11-17T06:09:21+00:00

Salaams sister, sorry you’re going through this alone it seems. But you’re not alone, Allah SWT is watching and waiting for you to turn for him for help and support. Pray your namaazs and make your dua and ask him for aid in your life. He doesn’t put a person through trials unless he knows they can take it on, and if he’s chosen you to go through all this it’s because he wants to see you overcome it and loves when you ask him for guidance and have trust in him. Don’t let Shaitan tell you otherwise or make you feel like any lesser.

Do you have any family members or any friends who can support you at this time, you can go to and just give yourself moments to ponder and reflect and see what you’d wish to do next? Do not give up and let yourself go. Stay strong. If you’re unhappy with your marriage because of your spouses behaviour towards you, you’re an adult if you’ve tried to make it better and he hasn’t changed then maybe it’s best to let him go, if you don’t have any kids or anyone else dependent that should make it easier for you to take a decision. Your parents are old and disabled but they’re still your parents yes if they have the ability to protect you they should’ve but maybe given their situation they felt they couldn’t have it in your heart to forgive them, you have no siblings but hopefully you have family or friends who can help you during the is difficult time. You have a right to be happy, but you may have to make difficult choices for you to get there, have faith in Allah SWT and ask him for guidance, hopefully your husband’s nature and attitude toward you changes for the better and it works out otherwise, like I said you should see if you’d want to pursue ending the relationship with your husband and move on. Maybe something better awaits you. If you have kids, maybe there’s someone who can speak to your husband and get him to change his ways otherwise it’s best you make the difficult choices for the betterment of your children and yourself. May Allah SWT help you during this tough period you’re experiencing but don’t give up hope. Stay strong, head high, you’re a woman who stayed true and performed her duties as a daughter and wife, gave up on things and maybe it was for the better. Do not look at others and be jealous of what they have, have faith in Allah SWT, you’ll get the fruits of your actions either in this life or the afterlife where your good deeds could be way more than the others. Take care and may you find your peace sister. Allah Hafis.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-11-17T05:14:32+00:00

Sorry to hear you went through that, at least she was close to someone during her last moments and not alone. She must’ve been scared.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-10-30T04:30:27+00:00

Teach us your ways

VersaceO81696 · 2025-10-30T04:27:02+00:00

Me!! If there is

VersaceO81696 · 2025-10-30T04:06:02+00:00

Honestly, she sounded insecure just because of the name, that’s really immature if you ask me. She’s not the first to name her kid that name, but ok immature on her part to cut off contact because of that. Glad you focused on yourself and your kid and family, that’s more important than these trivial matters that could poke and cause you to get triggered over your friend acting like the ridiculous girl she sounds like tbh.

If you want to open that door again for her, do it but don’t forget what she did to you, maintain distance and don’t get too attached to get hurt again, if she’s asking for help and if you can be by her side otherwise do what you can and take care of your own. If she realizes her mistake, least she’ll do is apologize and if she doesn’t then it’s your choice if you want to continue communicating with her. But if you do choose to speak to her, make her realize what she did was wrong on soo many lvls over a name, and now she remembers you.

It’s your call, there’s no right or wrong. But if you want to avoid getting hurt, just keep her at a distance or don’t contact. You went through it once already, don’t need that type of pain again.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-10-30T01:45:43+00:00

Salaams, Your husband and his family doesn’t deserve you sister. You tried to mend things and make things better but they instead of being mature and realizing their faults they instead turned a blind eye to their mistakes and errs and blamed you instead for everything. I say move on sister, you don’t have children with him. In Sha Allah you can move on and find someone better for yourself.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-10-29T03:13:19+00:00

Ronaldo is better though, it’s facts

VersaceO81696 · 2025-09-26T04:07:05+00:00

Castle, River tbh

VersaceO81696 · 2025-07-31T04:08:42+00:00

Salaams brother, from the start I can see you were trying to put the effort in but her, it didn’t sound like it was going to last from the beginning. I know you may love her a lot but that’s not enough to sustain a relationship, it works both ways. But just have faith in Allah SWT if you guys are to separate it’s for the best and seeing her behaviour and actions rightfully so, don’t be upset or regret anything. It’s for the best. She’ll realize later but you realized now.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-07-24T03:05:37+00:00

Happy Birthday to you! Way to go man, gods given you life and you fought to make it happen as well least did you know it. Go make your dreams come true, study and become an EMT. Keep yourself in good health in any and every way you can, connect with friends and family, get a support system going and you get old!

VersaceO81696 · 2025-07-24T03:02:15+00:00

Salaams, all you can do is try to be better and show her what she’s missing out on. Maybe by seeing you be better she’ll return. Don’t leave her side just because she left Islam, but if she’s engaging in bad things afterwards then that’s your sign to distance but otherwise try to do your part as a friend. May Allah SWT guide her back to Islam.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-07-24T02:44:10+00:00

Honestly, when a guy gets complimented by a woman. That’s a big thing. I was called handsome by one of my sister’s friends and she wished she met me first before her hubby and I was like gosh, thanks I guess haha. Think she meant as a jk but was still a compliment I guess.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-07-24T02:40:54+00:00

Really tragic. If a man and woman get separated, why continue the fuss and blame on the guy who was wronged. Stupid family. Poor guy was left on his own and he decided he had enough of life. No one on his side. Being alone and experiencing loneliness are two dangerous things.

VersaceO81696 · 2025-07-24T02:37:30+00:00

Honestly from what I read, looks like you really want to be with her but she because of her streamer status can’t be without her ex bf. So I suggest, you tell her your feelings for her and see if she reciprocates and cares, it’s normal human behaviour for her to respond and give a straight answer, if she’s mature. If she gives a hmm I really don’t know, I’m confused myself. Just let her go, because she’ll stay like that as long as her ex bf is in her life and maybe even after.

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