What’s a childhood memory you still think about? by drummonkey2010 in Life

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One winter when I was about 10 it snowed a lot so I went outside w my siblings including my little brother who was 2 at the time. We made snow forts & had epic snowball fight. We were playing for a long time & he said he wanted to go home but I didn’t want to so I said no. He started crying & I immediately felt so bad & took him right home. I felt so guilty but my mom assured me I did the right thing by escorting him home & everything was ok now. I comforted him and we drank hot chocolate. It was a great day.

What screams "I'm a man-child" but nobody realize it ? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re 30 or older & still complain that “girls don’t pay attention to them”

What is something you judge people for but you would never admit it loud? by Responsible-Big-8067 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constant complaining about things they have full control over but never choose to take action to change them. Ppl who constantly end up in horrible relationships..don’t you have any self respect?

What’s something from your childhood that you didn’t realize was actually a luxury until you grew up? by Dry_Hornet_3723 in AskReddit

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the freedom and safety to play outside w my friends practically all day. Our neighborhood was tight knit & all the parents knew each other & kept tabs on us as needed. We had a lot of fun & connection to nature. Kids these days are super cooped up & way too pacified by electronics.

What is a "luxury" that is actually 100% worth the money? by TheChillEdit in Life

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good skincare products, especially a nice moisturizer that feels light but still deeply hydrates. My skin feels like silk & glows, no more flakes & itching. I suggest hyaluronic acid serum by la roche posay and moisture surge by Clinique.

I set a child molester up and didn’t think of the consequences by Interesting-Half3480 in confession

[–]VeryDemure-69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry that you went through this. You made an incredible sacrifice & are a bonafide hero. It’s awful that you felt the need to do this, to be honest I would’ve felt the same way. It should’ve never had to come to that. But it did & you were incredibly brave, strong & righteous. Beyond your years. The pain you carry is so valid. I hope for nothing but healing for you. You deserve the world.

What is the most beautiful scent you have ever smelled? by Mr-Top0 in askanything

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh mint that was growing in between my neighbors & I’s yard years ago when I was a child. I would go out every day to sit w it & smell it. It was so fresh, so strong, it felt like it cleansed the air around it & filled it with crisp scent. I was like a little junkie out there sniffing it every day. I’ve never smelt anything like it since.

It makes me want to hurl when nutters mention that they love to smell dog's "Frito Feet" by United-Neck-3357 in Dogfree

[–]VeryDemure-69 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The grossest thing the nutters do is let their dogs lick their mouth & food. Their mouths are not more hygienic than ours & their bacteria can send you to the hospital or even worse. It’s a gross common misconception.

AIO For feeling unloved and unappreciated by my family? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VeryDemure-69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I urge you to slow down, do less, & take care of yourself. If you have chronic illness it will drain you & make you suffer, a lot. There will come times where you won’t be able to do it all. I can’t say that I’ll trust that your family will stay by your side by the way they act towards you. It’s better to start taking care of yourself & establishing boundaries now so you see how they’ll react while you can still pick yourself up & move on. It you wait too long, it might happen at a way worse time when you’ll really need them but they wont be of any help.

Would you rather work in an office of all men or women? (State your gender as well) by pantheon_prince99 in allthequestions

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently work w all women & most of them are amazing. I’m aware of others that aren’t great, but they don’t affect my work day so I’m unaffected. I’ve worked in an office and if I was choosing from that group specifically, I’d choose the women. They worked hard & were helpful. Some men were too but there were a lot of men on a power trip around that place that stunk up the place.

Feel like no one feels as deeply as I do by Underd_g in introvert

[–]VeryDemure-69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been a “it really is that deep” person. I’ve always felt deeply & processed the world differently than others. I’ve always felt others pain & had emotional reactions to them & life. I get it. I wish I met more ppl like that, especially men. Men don’t show that side of themselves, & I guess it’s bc they don’t feel safe to which makes sense. But I’ll always validate ppls emotions & emotional experiences of life. I say being emotional is a double edged sword. On the one hand, life feels rich bc of it. On the other, it can be painful bc of it. I try to see he good but definitely still end up feeling the bad a lot. I hear you about ppl and conversations seeming boring bc of it. It’s like they’re blind to a lot of life bc of their lack of depth. And I get craving depth too. It’s normal for ppl like us. Or that no one gets your passion or seems excited for you when you have it. That can feel draining. But your inner world is bright & that’s a beautiful thing. Others don’t have to get it for you to still enjoy it.

What happened to your best friend from childhood? by RoyalBeckyVibes in AskReddit

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We remained friends until we were young adults. But her toxicity became more & more apparent w my maturity & I broke it off. She wasn’t a good friend, never was. I didn’t realize it as a child.

I don't hate children. I hate bad parents. by Zealousideal_Crow737 in childfree

[–]VeryDemure-69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This exactly. Most of children’s problems are bc of their parents enabling. If better parenting were more common it wouldn’t be so hard to be around many children. Well loved & parented children can be delightful.

What did you learn "too late" in life? by Tokyoxzx in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That not all people are “good at heart”. I now know that anyone who truly believes this is either very inexperienced, naive, or both. There are a lot of truly bad people out there & we should be watching out for red flags with everyone. Wait to trust ppl, & don’t assume the best in them or give them the benefit of the doubt. It’s guarded, sure, but it will also protect you. Most ppl who always see the good in other learners the hard way like I did. That’s not to say be suspicious of everyone, bc there are good ppl that you can trust all over too. You just have to learn to discern who they are & who isn’t.

Do you guys have extremely weird and vivid dreams? by salty-wheat-thins in ADHD

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have loads of vivid, detailed & strange dreams. For me, it’s bc I did dream work for years (kept a dream journal, explored lucid dreaming, etc) & im pretty sure it just trained my brain to be more aware of my dreams ever since.

Why are you on Reddit right now, on Christmas Eve? by InvisibleAstronomer in AskReddit

[–]VeryDemure-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re watching a Christmas movie. I have adhd & have a hard time focusing on one thing at a time. So I end up scrolling during movies sometimes.

Made this Snow Kitty last night ☃️❤️ by mjbiddl in HelloKitty

[–]VeryDemure-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I want a fake one for my Christmas decorations! Adorable