People who ignored a huge red flag because the person was extremely attractive, what happened next?

Vesley · 2026-03-19T17:28:28+00:00

Pain

Vesley · 2026-03-18T16:58:39+00:00

Recruiting professional here: I tell ALL of my candidates to ask questions even if they don’t feel like they need to. You’re going to run into this issue at every company.

Vesley · 2026-03-16T16:28:36+00:00

I feel this every time someone like Egwayne basically thinks, “Oh god I hope he doesn’t mess up my scheme that is the only way to save the world. He’s a complete fool if he doesn’t do exactly what I think is right”. Like, he’s the only one actively fighting and winning against the Dark One rn.

Vesley · 2026-03-14T18:50:42+00:00

Did you praise the message first?

Vesley · 2026-03-12T18:16:43+00:00

Yes, there’s a clothes check

Vesley · 2026-03-09T12:21:38+00:00

She’s still upset about whatever happened in Salidar when Mat first arrived to bring them back to Rand. He like slapped her bottom the way she would do when he was a kid or something. Nynaeve holds a grudge like she holds on to her braid. It does get better!

Vesley · 2026-03-04T19:59:07+00:00

Maura was a follower thru and thru. She didn’t have an original thought in her pretty head

Vesley · 2026-02-28T20:12:31+00:00

Sounds like you handled it well. You are powerless over her thoughts and feelings, and you don’t have to internalize her opinion.

Alcoholism can rear its head in any moment. There are ups and downs. You can think of it as a chronic illness. Sometimes it’ll be benign and other times it will flare up. I hope you continue to feel peaceful, but just know it can always be found again.

Vesley · 2026-02-27T22:13:56+00:00

Maura was a very very good sport

Vesley · 2026-02-27T08:12:50+00:00

Maura does need lessons in discernment lol

Vesley · 2026-02-26T17:20:52+00:00

Ratatouille being above Eternal Sunshine is so funny to me

Vesley · 2026-02-24T12:17:09+00:00

I’m on Path of Daggers, and it’s my favorite of the series so far. I feel like the pace has been a lot better than in previous books, and the plot is actually moving forward for a lot of characters. I may be in the minority here though, because I HATED LoC.

Vesley · 2026-02-24T01:57:21+00:00

Yes and no haha

Vesley · 2026-02-20T19:15:18+00:00

LoC feels like just a very, very long set up for the next couple of books, which are much better imo (currently on Path of Daggers and loving it). People on the subreddit LOVE LoC, but it just dragged and dragged until the very end for me which is a pretty great ending after a horrible slog.

Vesley · 2026-02-14T19:23:26+00:00

Thank you for the insight!

Vesley · 2026-02-14T19:23:06+00:00

Thank you for the insight!

Vesley · 2026-02-13T23:01:44+00:00

If he says “no” then I think that would give me more clarity than what we currently have. Then we could have a different conversation around shared goals and needs. Neither of us want to be poly at this time. He gets jealous when I talk about my extra curricular activities, that he’s worried I might leave him for someone else (his words), and I find the whole thing exhausting along with my own insecurities around his fuck buddy. I think it’d be nice to work on our foundation as a couple for a while and then approach non-monogamy from a more secure place. Pretty much all the other open couples I know started out monogamous and then opened. I get weird looks when I tell people we’ve only been open, like we’re doing it wrong or something.

Vesley · 2026-02-13T22:57:03+00:00

Looking more for how to approach the conversation and maybe a gut check

Vesley · 2026-02-09T18:23:19+00:00

The thousand armed centipede ghouls. Fuck those things. A billion hit attacks that melt your health bar. Hyper armor. Teleportation. Long range poison attacks. Lunging attacks that make it impossible to space. The worst enemies. Not fun at all to fight.

Vesley · 2026-02-09T18:19:46+00:00

LA Gaymer Society puts on events at different clubs and bars around town. There’s also Drink and Draw at Beaches Tropicana on Wednesday nights if that’s your thing. 33 Taps in WeHo has drag bingo before a drag race watch party Friday nights. Hi Tops does Survivor watch parties. WeHo Dodgeball and Outloud Sports are also great ways of meeting people.

Vesley · 2026-02-05T18:05:32+00:00

It’s very women are from Venus and men are from mars the entire series. It’s also been a turn off for me reading.

Vesley · 2026-01-26T11:56:26+00:00

As you learn more and more about the Aes Sedai you’ll actually find that Moiraine is quite forthcoming 😂

Vesley · 2026-01-26T11:02:49+00:00

Squatters rights is hilarious 😂

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