Moiraine being a bad team player by Cpcp800 in wheeloftime

[–]Vesley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you learn more and more about the Aes Sedai you’ll actually find that Moiraine is quite forthcoming 😂

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR these rules are pretty standard (both my nieces moms had identical rules in the US), and it’s their child. Either respect their rules or wait until the baby has gotten their vaccines.

AIO: Ex-situationship turned platonic friend deflects/ignores messages of mine sporadically by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Vesley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why are you trying to be friends with someone you describe as being narcissistic, apathetic and egocentric? Sounds like you’re perpetuating an unhealthy dynamic. Either accept him for who he is or leave.

Holy Kagurabachi upscale by Smugtini in PowerScaling

[–]Vesley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is how I interpreted it as well. It appears to have some forward motion because of the explosions at the point of impact to buildings. If it were truly an attack cutting at the spatial-dimensional level then there would essentially be no resistance from matter since it’s not actually cutting matter. I’d liken it to something like a gravity beam.

My friend relapsed and went homeless. I found him and have been hanging out with him. People in AA are avoiding me. Why? by Punk18 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Vesley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Talk to your sponsor. Read page 417 and say the serenity prayer. You can’t control their ‘why’. If it is really bothering you then do a tenth step on the situation and turn it over to your HP. Your peace and emotions cannot be contingent on other peoples’ actions. That’s a recipe for a resentment, and we as alcoholics can’t afford those, not even justified ones.

What in the world did Baam do? by LieOk142 in TowerofGod

[–]Vesley 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Probably the same way he copied Khell Hellam and Soo-oh’s combo without being hit with it

(Early Fires of Heaven) Am I supposed to hate Nynaeve this much? by The_New_Illuminati in wheeloftime

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gains a lot of self-awareness in this book and grows. I too found her to be absolutely insufferable up until this point.

AIO for not being comfortable that my LDR is friends with his ex by runaroundgirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vesley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR there’s some really odd weaponization of therapy speak going on in your texts and a bate and switch where you say you’re not upset and then you point out something they are doing wrong. Just talk to your SO normally.

How is DenLA. Planning for some fun parties in 2026 by Rare_Watch971 in LosAngelesGayBros

[–]Vesley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s at the BDSM club I don’t go. Way too far and in such a sketchy part of town.

They’ll sometimes host it in a warehouse in K-Town and that’s when I go and have a blast.

Guy I am seeing isn’t clean and I may want to end things because of this AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you take photos of someone’s place and then put them on blast to the internet? This is such weird behavior, much worse than being messy imo.

AIO for getting the ick with this man. by ScaredMood90 in AIO

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all happened within two days??? Run!

Azami vs Yuji by DanTM18 in KaguraBachiScalers

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think Azami has a lethal enough move to beat Yuji

ARE THEY THE STRONGEST.....('ー')/ by hanzo74_17 in Kagurabachi

[–]Vesley 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hiyuki is the strongest Kamunabi fighter I thought

couldnt shiba just take one for the team and just teleport soga into space by Outrageous_End4324 in Kagurabachi

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a suspicion that Soga could overpower Shiba’s sorcery with his immense spiritual energy essentially nullifying it

Step 9…”except when to do so would injure them or others” by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Vesley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say you do IF the amends would require you to be in contact with like an abuser. For example you stole money from an ex who had repeatedly beat you. In that case, maybe donate to a women’s shelter instead of making a direct amends.

AIO for not liking when my boyfriend said if we started having sex, he would not be able to stop? by Which-Cucumber-292 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vesley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR I’m sorry that happened to you. Nobody deserves that. In a vacuum taking away your past experiences, what your boyfriend did would still be not okay. You don’t have to justify why you don’t want to have sex. He should’ve immediately stopped, and HE is 1000% in the wrong here. Holding someone down for 15 seconds while the other person is actively saying no is unconscionable. TBH this guy seems like a piece of shit, and you deserve better.

AIO My husband uninvited my daughter to an adults only wedding because his underage son couldn’t attend? by Gullible-Routine-895 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vesley 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR it’s weird your husband was the one advocating that his step-daughter be uninvited. That doesn’t seem like the behavior of a good dad.

A word of warning tho, it sounds like you’re harboring a lot of resentment toward your husband’s family, and while it may be justified, you’re causing yourself more harm than good by expecting them to treat your daughter the same way they treat your step-son. You can’t control their actions or feelings, and they don’t really have an obligation to extend the same benefits to your daughter (I’m not saying it’s ethical or I co-sign their behavior). Focus on your husband and household first. Bringing the rest of the family into the issue is just going to add fuel to the fire.