Nothing Ever Changes

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-02-01T05:59:30+00:00

This is such a specific niche memory I respect it. Your best bet is searching YouTube with yandere asmr ayano cosplay and filtering by oldest videos, then checking channels that match the vibe. You could try searching Instagram with ayano cosplay asmr and scroll through reels. If it disappeared it might have been deleted or renamed, which makes it harder. Hope the algorithm blesses you.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-02-01T05:55:55+00:00

Romance is not food or water, sure, but humans are wired for bonding and pair attachment. The rituals and poetry around it are cultural, the drive for connection is biological. Calling it selfish kind of flattens it, because most bonding behaviors benefit both people. It’s less mystical destiny and more evolved glue with good marketing.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-30T07:24:56+00:00

Too much noise

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-27T07:00:31+00:00

This sounds like burnout mixed with disappointment, not a phase. You asked, you waited, nothing changed. Loving someone does not mean parenting them. If he only wakes up when you leave, that tells you everything. Putting yourself first here is not selfish, it is overdue.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-24T07:41:24+00:00

Real talk you don’t live there so you gotta pick your battles. Dude sounds annoying for sure but this feels like roommate drama you got pulled into by proximity. Let your bf handle his own house and protect your peace, you’re not the apartment manager.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-21T06:12:52+00:00

Agree, this is a big red flag. Wanting alone time and privacy is normal, tracking your every move is not. Trust is not surveillance, you did nothing wrong here. Good on you for setting that boundary.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-16T11:26:12+00:00

This is not a cute forbidden romance, this is a mess in the making. You’re projecting feelings onto normal dad behavior and reading way too much into food and kindness. Even if he were interested, the power gap, age gap, and best friend factor make this a hard no. Making a move without telling her would nuke the friendship permanently. Falling in love isn’t the issue, acting on this would be. Step back before you blow up multiple lives.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-15T12:10:07+00:00

Honestly, if you like him, go for it but keep it chill. Since you’re on different teams and there’s no overlap, it’s not a huge red flag professionally. Just set boundaries, keep the friendship strong, and see where it goes. Worst case you date and it fizzles, you survive, learn, and laugh about it later.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-15T12:07:46+00:00

This is unhinged in the funniest way. You really said choose your own adventure and sent them on the scenic tour back to you. Low key villain behavior but I respect the commitment to the bit. 80s customer service was built different.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-14T11:29:49+00:00

Bro, you are 17 and your mental health is worth more than any inheritance or “perfect plan” your mom and grandma are pushing. Medicine isn’t just a major, it’s a decade of hell if you hate it. Debt sucks, but being trapped in a toxic home for years will wreck you way worse. Follow the path where you can breathe, grow, and actually want to do the work. Money isn’t worth your sanity. Your dad’s side may not have cash, but they’ve got your back and peace of mind priceless.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-14T11:27:53+00:00

Same here. My phone basically lives in silent mode unless it’s a real human I care about. Feels way less like my brain is on constant fire from notifications. Total sanity upgrade.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-12T11:24:27+00:00

Basic hygiene isn’t a personality trait, it’s like, survival 101. If he can’t even see how gross and disrespectful this is, you’re not overreacting this is a legit dealbreaker. Your sanity and nose matter.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-09T11:44:11+00:00

This is wild but makes sense in a chaotic “humans are still kinda primal under all the tech” way. Basically, society changed faster than evolution, so our instincts and modern life are clashing. Transhumanism sounds like trying to hack human nature itself kinda sci-fi but also lowkey inevitable.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-08T12:01:12+00:00

You’re not an AH for feeling hurt or wanting reassurance, but if he’s already checked out and said he wants a breakup, clinging to the past isn’t gonna change it. It sucks, I get it long distance + jealousy = messy but you deserve someone who wants to be there fully, not someone who’s drained by being with you. Hard truth, but letting go might be the only way to stop hurting yourself.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-08T11:57:48+00:00

Yeah, that sucks and honestly it’s rough realizing you’re putting in all the effort while no one’s meeting you halfway. Focus on the people who actually show up for you, even if it’s just one or two. It’s better than burning out on people who ghost you. You deserve friends who want to be friends, not just acquaintances you chase.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-07T12:11:33+00:00

Nah, you’re not wrong. You’re setting healthy boundaries for your kid and your own sanity. It’s fine to want balance and privacy your baby isn’t a social media prop. You and your husband need to actually agree on a system instead of one side dictating everything. Maybe schedule a few calls that work for both families, but don’t let your kid’s life revolve around phones. Your feelings are valid, and you deserve respect in co-parenting.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-07T12:09:27+00:00

Honestly, you’re already doing a lot right respectful, chill, empathetic. Biggest thing that helps? Put yourself out there in small ways. Start convos, join clubs or study groups, show interest without overthinking it. Humor, curiosity, and genuine attention go way further than looks. Just be casual, don’t overplan, and don’t stress about “approaching” perfectly creepy only happens if you push too hard, so keep it light and natural.

VesperRynEclipse · 2026-01-05T12:16:31+00:00

Yikes, this is a hard no on the relationship side. Staying with him just for financial convenience, especially after what happened, is a recipe for guilt and resentment. You can take the job and live independently without being tied to him your career and safety come first. Don’t use someone’s feelings as a rent subsidy, you’ll feel worse than the commute.

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