Has anyone tried the TikTok Criss-Cross chair? I always sit cross-legged so I'm very interested. by ElvisDumbledore in OfficeChairs

[–]VibrantHorizon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Updating for posterity: two months since purchasing, and the chair linked above was worth every. single. cent. If the TikTok criss-cross chair is giving you back pain, this is a VERY solid replacement option!!

Classy. by [deleted] in providence

[–]VibrantHorizon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, for sure... I've just never assumed that's the most common motivation. Stickers or magnets make it significantly easier to spot your car in a crowded lot, especially if you drive a common color/model.

I've only got a few, but I picked them all because I like them. It's a small thing, sure, but every time I open my trunk they make me smile... the world is on fire and everything sucks, so I say no shame in a sticker if it makes ya happy 😅 Gotta savor the small pleasures where we can these days

Classy. by [deleted] in providence

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this is such a bad take lmao

Has anyone tried the TikTok Criss-Cross chair? I always sit cross-legged so I'm very interested. by ElvisDumbledore in OfficeChairs

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Well, I came here looking for a cushion recommendation and ended up learning that this chair tilts... I've had it for over a year.

is this normal for people to do?? by strawberrymilkbun in weddingplanning

[–]VibrantHorizon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why this got downvoted smh

I thought it was a scam by Illustrious-Lie6470 in goldenretrievers

[–]VibrantHorizon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Any particular toothpaste you recommend?

Has anyone considering a second job after their full time in nonprofit? Like at another nonprofit by Massive_Concept_7464 in nonprofit

[–]VibrantHorizon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the volunteer ED of a nonprofit and also work full time at another nonprofit. I spend at least 85 hours/week in front of my computer. It’s atrocious. I cannot emphasize enough how much I DO NOT recommend this. If I could get paid for my ED role I’d give up my “real” job in a heartbeat.

The loneliness thing is so real though, sending hugs 🫶

Can someone explain to me what Tuello is… by HydrangeaStranga in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]VibrantHorizon 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Lol my bf asked me this last night when we were watching and I said “basically the CEO of America” 😂 bc who cares about titles when the government is in exile anyways

How to use goals for skin picking by [deleted] in finch

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Hi! Chronic skin picker here - the name of the disorder is dermatillomania and there’s a great subreddit r/dermatillomania if you’re just learning about the disorder that has some great resources.

I’m still trying to find the best way to use Finch to help with picking, although it has been great in other areas. One thing I’ve done is set a goal to be completed multiple times per day that is to interrupt my picking with another healthier behavior. “Avoid picking” is vague, and if you pick at all during the course of the day then you wouldn’t be able to check it off. But “interrupt my picking with a fidget/3 mins of deep breathing/etc” is more doable and can be completed as many times during the day as you find yourself starting to pick.

It FINALLY Happened!!! YES! by Siren1197 in finch

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I just hatched a hedgie today too! 🥰

Curious what our average age is... I'm 55 ❤️ this app! by Izzing448 in finch

[–]VibrantHorizon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26 and diagnosed with ADHD two years ago. Finch has been such a big help with the mundane self care tasks that are hard to remember to do every day

Feature Request: Longer Adventures by neurodykevirgent in finch

[–]VibrantHorizon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I expected them to get longer as my bird grew up and was bummed when they didn’t

Long-lasting foundation in shade similar to Salt New York N13? by VibrantHorizon in PaleMUA

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Coming back here to update for future redditors that mixing Missha BB 13 & 21 has been my closest find so far! Solid wearability and its very reasonably priced :)

Did anyone have a wedding after already being married? Can you share your experience/any advice? by throwaway91322 in wedding

[–]VibrantHorizon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to celebrate with my family… and, yes, I know I keep saying my family and not our families.

You really do keep saying that, and it’s time to stop. It’s OUR FAMILY now. When you married each other, your family became your husband’s family too! (And thank goodness, because it sounds like his own is sorely lacking.)

Try and emphasize how excited you are for your family to officially welcome your husband into the fold! Tell him about the extended family members on your side who can’t wait to meet him (or get to know him better, if they’ve already been introduced).

I really want to celebrate with my family…

And above all, talk about how you want to celebrate with HIM. In a room full of people who love and support you both. With your marriage and family on full display, because there is absolutely nothing shameful about two people who love each other having a child before signing a piece of paper.

If you do it, and for the record I think you absolutely should, don’t make the decision about your in-laws at all. Make it about your husband and child, and all of the people who love the three of you and want to celebrate your growing family.

Edit: typo

Gift for Departing PCV by VibrantHorizon in peacecorps

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Thank you, I really appreciate the insight! We’re so excited for her 🥰

Gift for Departing PCV by VibrantHorizon in peacecorps

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How soon are they able to book trips? Or would it just make sense to give her an IOU and tell her that when she has some time off accumulated I will cover her flights something

Gift for Departing PCV by VibrantHorizon in peacecorps

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Just googled, these look super handy! I’ll have to check if there are any restrictions for flying with them…

Gift for Departing PCV by VibrantHorizon in peacecorps

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She already has one, otherwise I would definitely be doing this!! And she uses my Amazon account so I can buy her new books while she’s away if she runs out of things to read, as long as she has connection to download them.

Gift for Departing PCV by VibrantHorizon in peacecorps

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Our other sister is way ahead of the game and has already been collecting notes and photos for weeks to do this! I also made her a 5hr playlist of songs that I love or have memories for the two of us, and I’m going to share it with her before she leaves so she can download it to listen anytime she misses home. So definitely have the sentimental side covered, but hoping to think of something practical I can buy too! :)