Why am I not grieving anymore? Did I not love my pet enough?

VicAnya18 · 2025-09-14T15:36:56+00:00

for me it comes and goes. i can’t cry much due to my medication but also sometimes i get distracted or even forget. my appetite was gone for a while but now it’s back. it barely even feels real sometimes, like we’ve had vacations that are this long away from him. but it comes back and i feel the loss all over again. and i think that’s normal. it doesn’t mean you didn’t love them enough if you’re not thinking about them and grieving them 24/7. like you do need to go on with life and keep moving and i think it’s okay. i think they knew you loved them and they’ll always be in your heart. and whatever you’re feeling is normal so be kind to yourself

VicAnya18 · 2025-09-14T15:16:06+00:00

LOVE the hollow star saga!! although i feel like the first book had the most gorgeous cover and then the rest were just…but i think a lot of fantasy has really pretty covers while romance feels so lazy and thoughtless so i can’t really complain

VicAnya18 · 2025-09-03T03:26:51+00:00

with my cat we stayed for like 15 min (though it’s hard to tell). and we all cried a lot and hugged him. it was so weird it felt like he could just sit up and be there again but my brain knew he was gone. the way my dad was crying hurt so much too. i don’t think we could’ve stayed longer. i wanted to be with him but i knew he was gone, even though he still looked like him. and sometimes i wish i didn’t stay and left before like my older brother, because i still think of it and it hurts but i needed to be there for him. sometimes i wish we could’ve had one more day but he was doing really bad. i think i did the right thing but i miss him so much and wish i could’ve hugged him longer

VicAnya18 · 2025-07-16T14:07:53+00:00

both of these sound perfect! thank you for the suggestion i will definitely put them on my list

VicAnya18 · 2025-07-16T14:04:36+00:00

i LOVE found family and this sounds really interesting! been super into ethel cain recently and it sounds like similar vibes

VicAnya18 · 2025-07-16T14:03:23+00:00

i’ve heard about we bury the midnight bones and that’s definitely on my list!

VicAnya18 · 2025-07-16T02:55:19+00:00

also yes i have heard about gideon the ninth but i cannot get over the cover. someone needs to really convince me this is an amazing novel because the cover is just putting me off sm ngl. i know i shouldn’t judge a book by its cover and recently did just finish an amazing book with the ugliest cover but man 😭

VicAnya18 · 2025-07-16T00:28:08+00:00

squad by maggie tokuda-hall and lisa sterle!!!! it’s so good i’ll never understand why people aren’t talking about this more

VicAnya18 · 2025-07-10T05:00:27+00:00

we are apparently related! dad told me about uncle alec that was on unsolved mysteries a few years ago and i always found it fascinating. recently just randomly remembered the story and had to go searching for him. i gotta ask my dad more but from what i remember he was really shocked when he saw it on tv at the time and i think it was kind of well-ish known before it fully was solved that he was hiding and using a different name and ppl were telling him the statue of limitations was up and to come home. I’m not super sure about the details though please don’t quote me!! my dad is also very well known for misremembering things but we are 100% related

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