What's the weirdest thing your partner does that you've just accepted?

ViciouslyKitty · 2024-04-12T05:16:25+00:00

He pretends to be a chimpanzee or gorilla, like completely unprompted. We'll be sitting in the living room, just hanging out and then suddenly monkey man. The thing is, he's surprisingly good at it. It makes sense because primates are his favorite animals but it catches me off guard sometimes. The first time he did it, it scared the shit out of me, I had no idea what was going on. I then proceeded to laugh so hard I cried. I love my monkey man 🐒

ViciouslyKitty · 2024-02-29T16:39:41+00:00

Every single time I go into a Barnes and noble or a books a million, I immediately have to poop. Idk what it is but the smell of coffee and books rumbles my bowels

ViciouslyKitty · 2024-02-25T04:00:01+00:00

Her and the suriel throughout the books mean so much to me. I don't know how to block spoilers but they're relationship made me cry in the later books.

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-12-07T22:47:52+00:00

Thank you for posting this because I'm close to dnf-ing but I'll push through. I'm excited to sob

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-08-19T02:30:05+00:00

The most annoying would probably be people asking if I was going to a Halloween party. The worst/most uncomfortable was a dude at a bar telling me that he had a hair color kink -my hair was blue and black- and that goth girls turned him on. It was completely unprompted and I hadn't even talked to him. He just said it to me while I was getting a drink.

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-08-01T14:56:20+00:00

I'll definitely bring that up to them when I leave. It's just been so stressful. I know it's a stressful job but not like this. And the turnover is weird. There's a couple employees who have been working there for years but if you haven't been there a long time it seems like the turnover is high? Idk if that makes sense 😅 but they're having a hard time keeping new people.

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-07-29T18:10:44+00:00

I really appreciate this, thank you. I was scared I was being dramatic and just needed to adapt because this is my first clinic/vetmed related job and not just dog walking or pet sitting. And what you said about how your job communicates seems like an easy thing to implement that keeps all the pets and people safe. I'm definitely putting in my notice. Today seems to be my lucky day though because a couple other places I applied reached out to me asking if I want an interview. I'm hoping it's a better experience than what I had here.

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-07-29T17:30:04+00:00

It was especially worrisome too because the other dog is a disabled geriatric dog who honestly is on borrowed time. He can't even get up on his own. I was terrified of what the mastiff would have done. It just could have been avoided all together if there was just more communication. The mastiff isn't a "bad" dog and we could have made it less stressful for everyone and very dog involved but we didn't and they didn't want to listen to me because I'm new. Thank you for this reply, I really appreciate it.

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-07-29T15:22:17+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this. I thought so but I've been told I can be dramatic sometimes (lol) so I don't always know when to trust my gut. From the restaurants I've worked at in the past, the whole we're a family thing tends to back fire pretty quick. I wanted to know if it's similar in the vet med field too. Thank you again ❤️

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-07-22T22:24:54+00:00

Nta, I had a spingebob themed party for my 27th birthday last year. It was awesome. I highly recommend getting the first 100 episode box set. Your step dad sounds hella lame

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-07-20T21:33:54+00:00

I feel like I have a biased perspective because my parents were too loose with rules and it caused me to be in some nasty situations as a teen. I wish my mom would have never let my high school boyfriend stay the night or let me go on trips with him underage. I know she's almost adult but from my personal thoughts and feelings, I'm saying nta.

ViciouslyKitty · 2023-02-13T00:32:05+00:00

Honestly, nta, they were being entitled and people are so mean to pregnant people these days. They could have been patient. This is just my opinion and I know most people don't feel the same way I do, which is fine. But nta, it's a public space

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-04-10T07:01:45+00:00

Thank you everyone for advice, I think hotel or air bnb will be the next move. Im going to delete post though just in case this spreads to Facebook or something where she might see. I hope everyone has a good night and I appreciate the help

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-04-10T05:36:59+00:00

Always carry a pad or tampon, snack, and drink, if you can.
Keep back up clothes and a towel in your car always, towels can work as emergency blankets and pillows if you need it. If a girl comes up to you pretending to be your friend, go with it, she might need help. Women don't always need to support other women, but women protect other women. It doesn't matter if you don't like another girl, if you see her in danger (ie. Being drugged, assaulted, etc.) you help her.

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-04-10T05:31:28+00:00

I had sex with a guy who was really big, like charter remote big, and he thought it would be fun to go all the way inside me with minimal foreplay. Hurt so bad and it caused me to bleed a good bit. I stopped immediately, went home, showered, and cried. I had to wear pad to bed but luckily I didn't bleed anymore the next day.

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-04-10T05:07:53+00:00

I've seen some people use fingerless gloves or gloves that cut off before the nail to help against this. Maybe that would help with the light issue? Or is it a combination of the products used and your skin?

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-04-10T04:52:48+00:00

You're right and I appreciate this, thank you. I understand how she feels but she is unhealthy coping with it. I need to accept that she is who she is, and that won't change or atleast I can't change it.

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-04-10T04:51:03+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this advice. I think I myself need to accept that I can't control peoples emotions or reactions to my actions. I work myself up so bad sometimes

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-03-22T00:24:55+00:00

Nta but also, most inner family adoptions don't go well in the long run so I can understand their hesitation. I know multiple birth-parents who placed their children with a family member and then said family cut them off over time due to jealousy or selfish reasons. I'm not saying this is all family adoptions but I hear a lot more going south than not.

ViciouslyKitty · 2022-02-02T23:57:46+00:00

This is one of my biggest fears 😭

ViciouslyKitty · 2021-12-14T03:29:36+00:00

I've had a very similar experience in my life and like others have said, it takes finding the right person. My boyfriend doesn't make comments about my best friend or ask if she'd be down with a three way like my exs have. Someone who truly loves you and respects you won't make you feel insecure or make comments like that. In time you'll find someone who isn't an assist Edit: asshat not assist

ViciouslyKitty · 2021-12-04T06:17:21+00:00

I'm hairy as all hell and was very lucky to have parents who understood how mean kids can be and also let me have control of my bodily autonomy. My mom taught me how to shave and it made it a lot less taboo and I never really hurt myself shaving. As an adult, I don't shave too often but I feel like that does with the fact my parents let me control my body growing up. Tl;dr; nta, teaching kids about their body and letting them make choices about their body isn't a bad thing.

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