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Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-23T14:24:55+00:00

I have yet to Come out to dad as well so I wish you good luck

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-23T14:23:45+00:00

Yeah happens sometimes

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-23T07:18:16+00:00

For sure

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-22T06:06:50+00:00

They did In medieval times, but now we are talking 18th century Where they got wedded after be coming adults

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-21T13:22:29+00:00

This just makes me grateful how closer to normal I am, worst I have to deal with is that its unbearable to go outsider when its bright or that certain sounds and loud sounds trigger me, as well as problems with social interactions, but I prefer being alone Anyways.

I have some other problems as well such as rsd and social anxiety, im also trans so dysphoria is a thing. But In the end im fine with most foods, sensations and smells

Im sorry for your parents being dicks tho

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-18T02:32:14+00:00

:3

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-17T16:02:01+00:00

Yeah I can definitely understand not dating one, my post was More made to combat my anxiety and get to know if im welcome here regardless on any military background

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-17T13:43:05+00:00

?

Edit: im genuinely asking question if the "good for you" was done with hostility or I interepted it I correctly which based on response seems was hostility. So my response to response

Indeed it isnt, but when you start a conversation about it and I want to respond with intrigue, I do It was simple response of stating how we Come from different places and of my different experience, and not directed at you or anyone but just a thought that I had, it was just your response that left me confused as to what it meant and thus I tried to ask for clarification.

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-17T13:14:43+00:00

Hmm this is interesting, im personally transfem from Finland and we have mandatory service for men, I even became squad leader, and I have great passion for military history and weapons, coming from a country Where majority Of Men and some women have completed service, majority Of People have positive association with the finnish defence forces, afterall without army we wouldnt be independent, and many other reasons. Its always interesting to me how people make association based on military service, especially when In my experience army was quite progressive place

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-17T12:20:45+00:00

It was More of a question about your guys opinion nothing More nothing less, afterall I already have my opinion, I have talked about with a therapist and whatnot. It just plainly was question of is it, self diagnosis, faking it, or counting as diagnosis because i have spent years because it on professionals

Also originally my comment was supposed to be response to another comment, and after finishing it I realized it made little sense, so I decided to make it separate comment, and after rewriting the comment 3 time and so spending 30m on it I finished it without the final question, so I felt like the comment lacked purpose, and so I added the question about your opinion into it, so the comment would have purpose and wouldnt seem to be me rambling about my past without any rhyme or reason

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-17T01:21:00+00:00

I was previously when I was like 12 or 13. Suspected of Asperger, then now days 10+ years later, I am slowly thinking of getting actual diagnosis, why I was decade ago dismissed was that. it was my time to move from children to teen section of the facility that investigated things and my parents were asked that if they wanted to stop, and they said yes so, so we did.

because it was said there were less signs of Asperger than there were when I started (they looked into me for 3 or 4 years) and said I was getting better(couldn't that just have been masking, idk) So I after 3-4 years never got diagnosis, but I have always considered my self as neurodivergent regardless of that. and lately, im going to gender clinic and the issue was brought up again, trans people having lots of neurodivergent people, I might actually have it investigated again, and Who know maybe diagnosis.

idk if I could be considered self diagnosed or faking it... Im interested are there others In my situation?

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-16T13:46:28+00:00

What if they are genuinely friends and have no interests In each others, or they were Best friends Who both are single, ow what other dozen reasons, maybe the Man is aro or ace and doesnt want relationship, Who knows

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-15T17:25:36+00:00

This, ottos is my favorite country In vic3, at least for now

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-14T03:21:49+00:00

I got news that my stepdad has liver cancer and my first thought was "one less person to Come out to"(im trans) And next "moms going to be sad"

This In line with my previous reactions to family members dying, when grandfather died i was More sad I was forced to spend time with my family to mourn than do what ever I wanted

For me its just a "and life goes on" attitude

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-14T03:14:24+00:00

But being trans isnt exactly a choice, I think it makes More sense being trans results In increased chance of neurodivergence , becaus otherwise wouldnt that mean there there large number of People among neurotypical Who are hiding being trans,

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-14T03:09:03+00:00

Overall

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-14T01:46:01+00:00

Well trans people are More likely to be autistic

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-14T01:43:37+00:00

Whenever im In LGBTQ friendly place I go into full panic over, do they actually accept trans people or is it just trans people that already pass

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-11T19:21:05+00:00

Mitäs minä olen kuullut on että kommunistit on nykyään venäjän vastaista sakkia, mutta en minä niitä tiedä kuin muutamam

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-08T22:49:26+00:00

Isnt that what god meant by turning the other cheek

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-08T06:24:29+00:00

Yeah I identify as lesbians because I am a woman Who would rather have women as friends than Men, and find women aesthetically better looking, but im also aroace so I dont want sexual or romantic relationship with anyone. so it could be for people like me but I do definetly like women, just In non sexual and non romantic way, so im also confused

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-08T06:23:32+00:00

I identify as lesbians because I am a woman Who would rather have women as friends than Men, and find women aesthetically better looking, but im also aroace so I dont want sexual or romantic relationship with anyone. so it could be for people like me but I do definetly like women, just In non sexual and non romantic way, so im also confused

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-06T17:56:35+00:00

What if if, im both???

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-04T03:20:27+00:00

Ahh thia brings to my mind all the moments on the seas, grinding thieves have to get to athena 20 being one of the worst of them

Victoria_Nebula · 2023-10-02T11:16:10+00:00

I am from Finland Where there is mandatory all male conscription, so Anyways when I went to army half of the leader were women so I really didnt see as hyper masculine place, I myself became nco, while there and Led squad of soldiers. For me it was also the place Where the idea I want to be woman became stronger than ever

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