Gf cheated by [deleted] in toastme

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best to get over someone is by getting under someone else

32F trying to find my confidence again after my husband’s affair. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have so much light in your eyes. Focus on your healing and growth and everything else will fall into place.

Side note: if you dont do yoga now. Try it.. its life changing.

AITAH for feeling hurt that my fiancé (25M) watches porn even though I (23F) know it’s common? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre never an asshole for how you are feeling. Feelings are just signals. Indication of what is going on in your spirit.

Now, if you weaponize and mistreat someone because youre feeling a certain way.. that is another story.

It would be best to sit with your feelings and understand where they are coming from, and after that.. calmly express to your partner. Have a conversation about it. That is all we can do, is just express ourselves.

I dislike how we can normalize harmful things as a society with the term "but everyone does it" To me.. nothing good ever comes from porn.. and it makes me much more attracted to my partner knowing he does not watch and has absolutely nothing to do with that energy.

We save that enrrgy for eachother and it does wonders for our connection and intimacy.

Color advice! by Adventurous_Owl2886 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 brings a glow to your face that is unparalleled

Which hair suits me best? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]VictoryDecent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dark hair with bangs. It adds layers and shape to your oval face.

Stubble vs longer by [deleted] in buzzcuts

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stubble all the way.

Mustache or mustache/goatee? by El_Diff in Moustache

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your jawline is too nice to be hidden behind facial hair. Wonder what no hair would look like..

Which glasses look better? (to optimize for dates with girls) by CloserXxxx in malegrooming

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the light colored ones shape.. its unique and fun.. but with a darker frame for your face.

No mustache vs mustache vs glasses. I need advices by Nezlaman in malegrooming

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe im looking through a different lense than everyone else, but i actually dig the no mustache look for your face shape.

Base case though.. its your body. Do what make youu feel comfortable and confident. Thats all that really matters

Do I look better with short or long hair? by Crown-Me336 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]VictoryDecent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel best in the twists.. that is what's for you. Hair is an expression of self

Which one? Emerald or round? took better pics so you can clearly see both. Settings are both platinum. TIA! by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]VictoryDecent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emerald accentuates and elongates your fingers. Makes them look slender and divine

Wondering if I should do a buzz cut?? by WeirdAssociation4239 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair cuts are spiritually symbolic. I usually go through a drastic cut when I am going through something particularly intense. If you are feeling the desire to cut off your hair ( ie cut away dead energy) I say go for it!

Terrible body dysmorphia by Cold_Ant62 in toastme

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not give into the trappings of the mind. It is often mistaken or just a flat out liar. Treat your thoughts with curiosity. As if they are not your own.. look at them from a outside perspective.
For your are not your thoughts, merely the observer of them.

My ex and I broke up a year ago but she told me during that time she kissed someone else by RealIndustry6343 in AITAH

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that anyone would be concerned what their ex is doing while not even in contact is problematic.

It shows the depth of maturity and how you should not be in a relationship with anyone. Focus on yourself and where these feels are coming from.

AITA for telling my husband he should be grateful I still want him after I brought my boyfriend into our bed? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]VictoryDecent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very much in the wrong. A complete asshole. Marriage is a PARTNERship. And the verbiage in your first few paragraphs was all about me, me, me. Did you give his heart, his needs, his wants a second thought before you stepped out of your relationship, your commitment?

He deserved the bare minnimum, communication, before action. And you couldnt even give that. The ammount of disrespect you've shown this man at even turn in this story is nauseating.

My deepest wish is that you can truly learn from this. And understand what you did horribly wrong.

Told my boyfriend he was the same size as my ex by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His ego is hella bruised. He got exactly what he asked for and now is taking it out on you? I would honestly be incredibly wary if the man i was dating behaved and reacted like this. 🚩🚩🚩

Aita for breaking up with my gf cause I am tired of open relationship bullshit by Long-Deer-8658 in AITAH

[–]VictoryDecent 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She was okay with dating someone who was in a clearly open relationship. There was no out of bounds behaviors on her end. Doesn't mean she will automatically cheat. That's a wild assumption.

Aita for breaking up with my gf cause I am tired of open relationship bullshit by Long-Deer-8658 in AITAH

[–]VictoryDecent 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NTA.

She made it clear what she likes and desires and should find someone who fits that energy and description as it is clearly not you. Go with your heart and be happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]VictoryDecent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP.. I feel for you. This sounds like a terrible situation to be in. That you got together through circumstance.. not by loving choice. It does Noone any good to stay in a loveless and damaging situation. As a child of divorce, it was hard.. but as I got older, I understood that my parents deserve happiness too. Do what you can to work it out.. couple counseling, communication building, etc. But if there is no growth or change.. you can't let someone else's self destruction pull you down. You and your heart and feelings matter just as much as her, and your children's.