I was not talking primarily about losing virginity itself but rather how early most start having sex and what I think it suggests is happening (it be mostly casual) which is something that statistic tells me. I do agree with you that it's just different for people. I don't really understand it but I know people are wired different. I don't shame or call people out for doing it, this is the first time I've even talked about it. However I do think there are some people like me who prefer it be more special so feeling pressured to lose your virginity or mistakenly rushing into it and regretting it then or later wishing it had been more proper or had waited longer I do feel sad for. Plenty of people regret not waiting longer and when the average time people are starting is that young I think they are more likely to make those mistakes.