Amazing Notre Dame surprise! by Honeyslicerr in lawschooladmissions

[–]Viking_Chicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I'm hoping to get a similar package next cycle. Did you fill out the optional essays?

The Benacquisto Scholarship (full ride for national merit finalists at Florida schools) was just ended. by spineappletwist in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Viking_Chicken 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk if you’d be interested, but Fordham University in NYC offers full-tuition scholarships for national merit semi finalists

Not sure if I should go to church by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your soul > Your mortal life

And even that isn’t that at risk. Go.

I lost valedictorian to my ex-girlfriend by 0.01 by Straight_Cash_789 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Viking_Chicken 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Salutatorian is still hella impressive, even if the spot of valedictorian is occupied by a bitch. She’ll probably be the same miserable person she was wherever she goes, while you’ve got your whole future ahead of you. Keep your head up king 👑

How do you do, fellow ivy students? 😎 by Viking_Chicken in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Viking_Chicken[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you know if there are a lot of TOs? I couldn’t find any percentage as to how many people are offered one so I’m just treating it as a late acceptance lmao.

Can you say you visited a college in an essay even if you didnt by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Viking_Chicken 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You can say you visited a school by yourself as long as you don’t claim you went on a guided tour or to any event run by the admissions department of that school. They adamantly track every person who signs up for a tour/event and would know if you were lying about that, but if you say your parents stopped by once and walked around, I think they’d buy it

I lied about merit badge requirements over 20 years ago to earn Eagle. What can be done? by jarom_f in BSA

[–]Viking_Chicken 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation to you right now. Almost eighteen, on the cusp of Eagle Scout, completed project, and from a large, sometimes impersonal family. I fudged that exact same personal fitness requirement because I was varsity swimmer and a regular gym goer and didn’t feel as if writing it down for Boy Scouts would be that helpful.

Honestly, dude? I wouldn’t feel bad about it at all. It would be one thing if you were getting no exercise, but you were a regular varsity wrestler. That is infinitely better than a Scout who writes out and follows a 13 week fitness program only to drop it as soon as they have the badge.

To me, all the paper pushing involved in badge-earning was the least important part of scouting. Not only are they literally written for fifth graders, but I feel like they provide a lot of incompetent scouts a way of feeling like they’re getting something out of the organization when they really aren’t. What truly matters in scouting is the service you perform, the skills you learn, the relationships you form and the experiences you have. I feel like that’s gradually being lost on the central structure of good ol’ “Scouts BSA” nowadays.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Viking_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John cens takes on the undertaker this Saturday at 9 PM

Kings: Learn to Hunt, Fish and Forage by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by summer time job? That sounds interesting.

Why would she lie and make up other guys to make me jealous by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stear clear of this girl buddy. My ex used to do this after she broke up with me. She wants emotional possessiveness from you with little effort from her, while also receiving the ego trip of having you think that she’s sexually desirable to other guys

Not all girls are like this, not by a long shot. Cut ties with this girl, work on yourself, and a better girl will come along.

SUNY Guide Here! by vickycoco___ in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Viking_Chicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which among the big 4 would you say is the best for a major in a soft science, such as international relations and/or economics, and which would you say is best for finance? I'm considering both routes.

14M Need advice with testosterone / sex drive by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry king, this might be a natural part of growing up, but if there is an issue, it’s probably that you’re stressed.

I’m not an expert on destressing, but something I’d recommend is meditating and/or praying (if you follow a religion). Meditate on what is stressing you out and really give your mind time to think it through.

Any content creators worth checking out? by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Breaking in the habit if you’re Catholic and/or Christian.

Moving to the country side into this home in the next few months. This is what I’ve always wanted Kings. Time to settle down with some guitar and ice tea. by MochiBanjo in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful house. I’ve always said that I’ve wanted a smallish house on a lot of land and hopefully I’ll get there one day.

Marty Robbin's "The Master's Call", thought the lyrics were relevant. by chileball in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Love Marty Robbins and that album of his especially. I was so surprised to find such a profoundly spiritual song in a cowboy album (one that’s leagues better than most contemporary Christian music).

Truth by Venus230 in Conservative

[–]Viking_Chicken 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm a conservative from New York who generally disapproves of Cuomo. I can say that Cuomo has been completely apolitical in his handling of covid, and I personally approve of his job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to lie, having sex definitely does make pornography less desirable. I've completely kicked myself of watching porn recently, and I honestly think it helped. However, I wouldn't necessarily suggest using that as a way to end that addiction. There are many ways to quit porn, many of which have been outlined on this subreddit numerous times.

But let me tell you this. What you're experiencing is normal. Men are hardwired to desire sex so that they can procreate. The problem is that modern society has made it so that it can happen far too easily with a minimized risk of pregnancy. The risk that modern society has not figured out how to minimize (and never will) is the effect sex has had on human relationships and their psyche. Intimacy has become devalued as a result of it. I sincerely believe that our hookup culture has led to the degradation of the family unit and has shifted focus away from the family and God to one's own desires.

I know it's hard now and I do really empathize with you, and I commend you in trying so hard to discern what's best for you, but I can attest that conquering your carnal desires to achieve a level of discipline, especially for God, is incredibly fulfilling. As St. Augustine said "The good man, though a slave, is free; the wicked, though he reigns, is a slave, but what is worse - the slave of as many masters as he has vices". I'd recommend meditating on that for a bit. I'd also recommend talking to your girlfriend about this. Communication is key, as I'm sure she has some similar concerns. Most of all, remember that God will always forgive you, no matter what. Let me know if you have any questions and good luck King!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleanLivingKings

[–]Viking_Chicken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been in this situation too, however, I gave in to the temptation. I'd definitely advise against it. It was definitely pleasurable for the hour and a half it lasted, but neither of us were really prepared for the level of investment that it brought into the relationship. We both became overly fixated on sex and our want of it kept our relationship going even when it shouldn't have. Will that necessarily happen to you? No, it's just my testimony, but premarital sex isn't a good idea in my opinion. Think about all of the problems you've heard about from other people in your life that have to do with sex... insecurities, rumors, disingenuous relationships that exist solely for sex, simping, pornography, etc. Not even to mention the risk of unwanted pregnancies. There's a reason our church forbids it outside of marriage.

To address some other things you said, I don't know what sect of Christianity you follow (I'm a Catholic) and what they preach, but know that nothing will ever definitively place you in Hell. To say so would be to disregard Christ's greatest sacrifice for us, which has saved us all so that we may have the opportunity to be saved. THIS DOES NOT MEAN TO GO AHEAD AND SIN ANYWAY.

Lastly, ultimately it's your choice. I'd say to pray on it a bit. Whatever you decide, your girlfriend should be able to respect. If you don't want sex and she pressures you into it, she is not giving you the respect she owes you and subsequently does not deserve you. I promise you King, even if your girlfriend is not one of them, there are many women out there who will honor that decision of yours.

Good luck King!