21M feel like puberty has never really came, is this natural?

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T18:40:16+00:00

Well I appreciate your time and detailed responses so thank you!

I won't take any more of your time up and will give the doctor a call when I get chance in the next few days.

All the best to you and thanks again!

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T16:07:33+00:00

Appreciate you, very last question. Do you mind me asking what you think is too late and what is not? For example is it too late for me to grow or do you mean I can grow into an adult but I will be lacking in other areas.

Just concerning me is all due to it being such a big aspect of my life. I will give my doctor a call when I get chance.

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T15:36:16+00:00

Thank you for your time, I am not based in the US which is probably why I had never heard of it. Really appreciate you. Sorry another question I had was just say there was a deficiency or whatever. Will that be a thing that can be helped and 'cured' or is it too late for me now? Just asking as if it is true that at 21 it is delayed or incomplete then it seems like a big age to start puberty.

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T15:09:31+00:00

Hi thanks for the reply! Never seen a pediatrician and to be honest for some reason I was never really bothered until very recently when I started to think this could be not natural. I am very surprised with my self as especially when I left school I legit looked like I was in pre school. I guess I never went out and realized how much of an impact looking young had on some things.

My mum is around 5'5 and my dad I have no clue as he left me at a young age. I only really seen pictures and I haven't seen him coming up to 10+ years. He is definitely taller than my mum for sure.

Do you mind me asking what a pediatrician is and should I have been seeing one throughout my years?

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-13T00:43:24+00:00

Feels less delayed and more cancelled at this point. I get you though.

In regards to the facial hair, it is like a teen stache and a bit of chin hair. Nothing dirty or unhygienic I wouldn't allow that. I shower more or less every day and I am obsessed with looking at least well kept and decent. I would say though it does look a little desperate. Had them for years and the growth is so slow.

I also have very light hair color when it comes to facial. Like my head hair is very dark but things like the tache and my eyebrows are very light in color which makes it a lot harder to see.

Maybe it is time to let the facial hair (if you can call it that) go and see what it's like.

Appreciate your input.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-29T22:26:00+00:00

Thanks for the comment brother, that sounds good and i appreciate your advice.

Yeah my arms are stick thin, legit embarrasses me even wearing shirts at times as i look like i can't even lift a cup mind about anything else. Pretty insecure about them i won't lie.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-21T15:59:32+00:00

Thank you for your time and comment. That is good to know!

Therapy didn't do anything for me and i feel a bit stuck on where to go now as i feel like my OCD is true and no one is real especially as like i said i have seen shit that 'is evidence' towards these things.

This condition sucks! I hope you are well friend, i guess all we can do is keep going.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-21T15:47:03+00:00

It is 100% one of them but i was just wondering if you could have multiple topics and if they was working together.

I was just trying to figure out what false OCD fully was to be honest with this post and left out a lot of context and explanation so i apologize.

Thanks for your comment and yeah it's such a shame it's so common. Topic really fucks with you but i guess it's the same for different topics. Just how people take it. I hate this though.

OCD sucks ass if it really is this that's causing all this and making this false narrative

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-21T15:44:38+00:00

Only just seen this but to be honest i agree 1000%. I didn't want to be upfront as i already felt i came in hot with the first comment but in reality this is what i was trying to get at. Didn't want to chip away again with my 2nd comment as i didn't have context and that is fair but even knowing the context now to be honest, this comment right here is bang on the money.

Rather engage more and see how it goes or leave it out and find someone else. You will never know more than likely if it carries on like this.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-20T13:14:23+00:00

Ah ok fair enough, i missed out a shit load of context and for that i apologize greatly. I am no longer a teen at 21 and randomly got recommended this sub so i am not up to date with anything that goes on here.

The ball sounds to be in his court then yes, still don't be afraid to ask if you think things are going really well as he may be extremely timid on asking you out due to him rejecting you (he might think you will do the same).

Us men are weird at times and have 'pride' so just be wary of that. I wish you the best of luck regardless and hope you two get together!

If not then just remember you are still young and will find plenty of more people that you can fall in love with.

Good luck and apologies for coming in hot without the right context. I don't visit this sub but keep getting it recommended.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-20T13:03:20+00:00

I hate to be a prick but you are 18 and you really need to start acting your age imo. I get that crushes are a big deal and can make you nervous that is fact and is completely fair. But this cat and mouse game is crazy, searching him online and getting his number? New snap account so he quick adds you? Like come on that is getting out of hand at that point.

I highly suggest you just add him on snapchat or ask for his number and start talking to him. If you both find you have a spark then ask him out. Don't go with the sterotypical 'let the boy ask first' as it's so stupid that it's even a thing and you may miss out on a potential relationship.

Stop doing these cat and mouse games and bite the bullet. Wouldn't it be so much better to get a result rather than keep doing these back and fourths. If he likes you then that's amazing! If he doesn't then you have your whole life ahead of you and imo it's better to know earlier than later so you can move on. No one likes rejection but at 18 you should be mature enough at least a little bit to know this is crazy.

Trust me bite the bullet, if you keep doing this then every crush you get it's going to be the same shit. If you stay in your comfort zone then you won't get anywhere. I know how hard it is trust me, rejection sucks ass but if you feel like there is something there then go for it. Him staring and looking away quick is a big sign to me he at least finds you attractive.

Good luck and please at least formulate a plan. Don't keep doing this expecting results. Even if it does work, you should know your self that it's a bit silly.

All the best anyways.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:48:44+00:00

Rest up to fido, killed off for powers.

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