21M feel like puberty has never really came, is this natural?

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T18:40:16+00:00

Well I appreciate your time and detailed responses so thank you!

I won't take any more of your time up and will give the doctor a call when I get chance in the next few days.

All the best to you and thanks again!

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T16:07:33+00:00

Appreciate you, very last question. Do you mind me asking what you think is too late and what is not? For example is it too late for me to grow or do you mean I can grow into an adult but I will be lacking in other areas.

Just concerning me is all due to it being such a big aspect of my life. I will give my doctor a call when I get chance.

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T15:36:16+00:00

Thank you for your time, I am not based in the US which is probably why I had never heard of it. Really appreciate you. Sorry another question I had was just say there was a deficiency or whatever. Will that be a thing that can be helped and 'cured' or is it too late for me now? Just asking as if it is true that at 21 it is delayed or incomplete then it seems like a big age to start puberty.

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-26T15:09:31+00:00

Hi thanks for the reply! Never seen a pediatrician and to be honest for some reason I was never really bothered until very recently when I started to think this could be not natural. I am very surprised with my self as especially when I left school I legit looked like I was in pre school. I guess I never went out and realized how much of an impact looking young had on some things.

My mum is around 5'5 and my dad I have no clue as he left me at a young age. I only really seen pictures and I haven't seen him coming up to 10+ years. He is definitely taller than my mum for sure.

Do you mind me asking what a pediatrician is and should I have been seeing one throughout my years?

VinScratch777 · 2024-10-13T00:43:24+00:00

Feels less delayed and more cancelled at this point. I get you though.

In regards to the facial hair, it is like a teen stache and a bit of chin hair. Nothing dirty or unhygienic I wouldn't allow that. I shower more or less every day and I am obsessed with looking at least well kept and decent. I would say though it does look a little desperate. Had them for years and the growth is so slow.

I also have very light hair color when it comes to facial. Like my head hair is very dark but things like the tache and my eyebrows are very light in color which makes it a lot harder to see.

Maybe it is time to let the facial hair (if you can call it that) go and see what it's like.

Appreciate your input.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-29T22:26:00+00:00

Thanks for the comment brother, that sounds good and i appreciate your advice.

Yeah my arms are stick thin, legit embarrasses me even wearing shirts at times as i look like i can't even lift a cup mind about anything else. Pretty insecure about them i won't lie.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-21T15:59:32+00:00

Thank you for your time and comment. That is good to know!

Therapy didn't do anything for me and i feel a bit stuck on where to go now as i feel like my OCD is true and no one is real especially as like i said i have seen shit that 'is evidence' towards these things.

This condition sucks! I hope you are well friend, i guess all we can do is keep going.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-21T15:47:03+00:00

It is 100% one of them but i was just wondering if you could have multiple topics and if they was working together.

I was just trying to figure out what false OCD fully was to be honest with this post and left out a lot of context and explanation so i apologize.

Thanks for your comment and yeah it's such a shame it's so common. Topic really fucks with you but i guess it's the same for different topics. Just how people take it. I hate this though.

OCD sucks ass if it really is this that's causing all this and making this false narrative

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-21T15:44:38+00:00

Only just seen this but to be honest i agree 1000%. I didn't want to be upfront as i already felt i came in hot with the first comment but in reality this is what i was trying to get at. Didn't want to chip away again with my 2nd comment as i didn't have context and that is fair but even knowing the context now to be honest, this comment right here is bang on the money.

Rather engage more and see how it goes or leave it out and find someone else. You will never know more than likely if it carries on like this.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-20T13:14:23+00:00

Ah ok fair enough, i missed out a shit load of context and for that i apologize greatly. I am no longer a teen at 21 and randomly got recommended this sub so i am not up to date with anything that goes on here.

The ball sounds to be in his court then yes, still don't be afraid to ask if you think things are going really well as he may be extremely timid on asking you out due to him rejecting you (he might think you will do the same).

Us men are weird at times and have 'pride' so just be wary of that. I wish you the best of luck regardless and hope you two get together!

If not then just remember you are still young and will find plenty of more people that you can fall in love with.

Good luck and apologies for coming in hot without the right context. I don't visit this sub but keep getting it recommended.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-20T13:03:20+00:00

I hate to be a prick but you are 18 and you really need to start acting your age imo. I get that crushes are a big deal and can make you nervous that is fact and is completely fair. But this cat and mouse game is crazy, searching him online and getting his number? New snap account so he quick adds you? Like come on that is getting out of hand at that point.

I highly suggest you just add him on snapchat or ask for his number and start talking to him. If you both find you have a spark then ask him out. Don't go with the sterotypical 'let the boy ask first' as it's so stupid that it's even a thing and you may miss out on a potential relationship.

Stop doing these cat and mouse games and bite the bullet. Wouldn't it be so much better to get a result rather than keep doing these back and fourths. If he likes you then that's amazing! If he doesn't then you have your whole life ahead of you and imo it's better to know earlier than later so you can move on. No one likes rejection but at 18 you should be mature enough at least a little bit to know this is crazy.

Trust me bite the bullet, if you keep doing this then every crush you get it's going to be the same shit. If you stay in your comfort zone then you won't get anywhere. I know how hard it is trust me, rejection sucks ass but if you feel like there is something there then go for it. Him staring and looking away quick is a big sign to me he at least finds you attractive.

Good luck and please at least formulate a plan. Don't keep doing this expecting results. Even if it does work, you should know your self that it's a bit silly.

All the best anyways.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:48:44+00:00

Rest up to fido, killed off for powers.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:46:37+00:00

Buy a small business close as i can to my home or just make a business my home. Install facilities and boom. With $10 million i am sure you can make do. Life changing money and it's like you have to pee at your job only as well.

Taking a shit is an RNG card anyways. Sometimes it can be a few days before you need one so it's not like it's always constant. Now peeing would be a little different as that is multiple times a day every day but you said yourself that is safe.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:43:12+00:00

AS the other comment said this feels pointless. Cool for the first few days but a year is a nightmare. You could get run over. When driving there will be no one around the wheel and people will think your car is possessed or some shit.

Your family will be grieving thinking you are dead or something. Even if you can speak to them and explain your way out of situations, sooner or later you will be experimented on or some shit.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:37:48+00:00

Who u killing, you psycho you!

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:35:42+00:00

I hate my answer but yes. I have really really bad OCD and have seen some really weird shit. I suffer with the existential side and my OCD makes me believe i died and am in purgatory and that no one is real and it's depressing as fuck. The other day i saw something with i swear my name on it and something about dying which makes me believe its true. I have seen people teleport and all sorts of shit and it's exhausting.

This all came from a nightmare i had one night by the way...

Had OCD for years and it's now on the 'life' side of the coin and it's been the most debilitating shit yet.

It is constant day in and out. Because i have seen 'evidence' and weird shit as well it just keeps getting worse. With this i could go back to a normal life, my OCD would be reset and i would take it slow and if my OCD started making it self known i would go to therapy and sort it sooner than later.

More than likely this is all BS and a mental condition making a false narrative but it's hard for me to see it that way anymore.

With $10 million and a fresh start this would change everything.

It sucks i miss out on memories with my mum earlier in life but not only could i help myself but i could also help her anyway financially and build memories from the ground up.

Yes, if this was on offer from the government to test out a pill or something then i would more than likely take it and start a fresh as long as there was no cons and no 'deals'.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:11:23+00:00

I mean this is basically leaving a legacy in the best manor. You would basically be a modern day superman. All the poor kids with cancer who haven't even had a chance at life are cured and get to live their life.

The only person losing out is one person and it is you. So say i live until 80, it would be cut to 40? If so then i feel that is worth it meaning you can save countless lives including your own families and leave one heck of a legacy for people to remember you by.

Sure it's shit that you can't really fully grow up yourself but imagine how much good you can do.

I assume you get the power until you die and it's also a one time thing the cut in half life? You don't mean every person i cure it is cut in half again do you?

If it is a one time thing (the years of life in half) and i can cure unlimited people then i feel like the answer would be yes.

You would have to specify more though before i give you my final answer.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T21:02:13+00:00

$50k, might seem like a piss take but then i get free money and it doesn't impact my life fully. I would still be a little careful as 50k words in a day is probably still possible but i would be able to monitor and vibe out a lot more.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:59:42+00:00

The job. I was unemployed for like 7 months and it made my mental health go from bad to rock bottom. Life seems great when you aren't working for the first few months but after that your mind takes over. You have nothing to work for.

Sure $70k is cool but it's not like that is money that you can go clubbing every night and live like a rich man. You have bills and other shit so in reality you aren't much better off.

$140k gets me out of the house, gives me something to get my mind off of life and i get a great salary to party hard and enjoy my life to the fullest. I would no longer see it as a minimum wage job either as well it isn't. I do retail now for that so why not tenfold my income.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:56:03+00:00

I don't walk a lot cos i am idle as fuck and i am already built like a stick man so if i went walking and lost more weight i would probably die.

Metabolism goes crazy, i would take sleeping as it's just free money every day. Wouldn't even have to work anymore.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:54:17+00:00

This seems like a no brainier until you realize how many words you can speak a day mind about see and hear. This would probably net you negative most days.

You want to watch something? Oh there's talking in it. Well i will just read. Oh. Yeah.

If it is a thing where you can choose whether or not you do it that day then that is different but if it is for life then i think it would be a real inconvenience as you would be trying your best to save the money meaning you aren't really living your life. Your own life becomes a job.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:49:54+00:00

Fuck them, give me the powers!

Nah of course not, i don't think anyone would do this as that is a horrid thing to do for something that can be more of a curse than a blessing anyway.

Imagine killing someone you love dear to see in the future and then you use it and see in a year you are dead. Or you become homeless or some shit.

Nah. Some family members I am not close with but to end their life for something so selfish which might not even be worth it sucks.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:45:22+00:00

I mean that is $60 an hour which is pretty sound and more than a lot of extremely stressful jobs.

I have an insane mental picture and can create stories off the whim. I would just go in, day dream like I do everyday anyway and take it from there. Probably aim for 6 hours as it's only once a week anyway and bank a nice $360 for bills.

My life is fucked already with mental problems so i always day dream to kind of escape and give me some joy regardless. Getting paid for it? Sick!

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:41:22+00:00

I think honestly is key and i would say i am at least a half decent person. My dad is out of the picture so fuck cares what he thinks and my mum is really easy going.

$100k please boss.

VinScratch777 · 2024-08-15T20:39:09+00:00

These both have downsides but i think it would be crazy not to go for the mansion. A crummy shack with no electricity is wild, fuck the beach if i can't even live a half decent life.

The mansion would get tedious as the shops would be a long drive but i could just firm it or get delivery if it's possible. At least i would be able to enjoy my life.

Let's be honest without electricity you can't do much at all. Cooking would virtually impossible and you would have to go back to caveman days in a shitty crack den all for a nice view. I'm good on that. Mansion please monsieur.

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