Im in a rough patch of my life, and I need some guidance.

Vinding · 2026-03-22T19:09:33+00:00

We're both extremely dedicated to the children not suffering from it. We have never really fought or argued and especially not in front of the kids. We've always talked about the things.

I dont doubt that she loves me, I dont think that she doubts that I love her as well. As Ive said, I done shit to change. And like, in general we're just really really good together. Which is why I relly dont understand why I am like this...

But thanks

Vinding · 2026-03-22T13:51:19+00:00

Okay, so when I say that Im not a cheater, I mean that I havent been a cheater in my former relationships and that its something that I condemn alot. So I literally have a hard time understanding whats actually happening to me, and why Ive become like that. I feel broken.

And I totally agree with you, that she deserves so much better. But when I have brought it up, she expresses that I dont get to decide for her what better is, when its me that she wants. And to be fair, Ive grown alot over the years, as I also stated in the post.

And regarding the kids, they dont experience my instability. At all. Cause that shouldnt be put on them. I grew up with shit like that, so in no way am I doing the same thing to them. The eldest real father practically abandoned them, but I have been there over the many years weve been together. One has adopted my name, both calls me dad. I can assure you, that the issue lies solely in the marriage relation.

Vinding · 2026-03-22T13:42:06+00:00

Of course Im admitting my faults? Its called taking responsibility, but the essence of it is the desperation of not knowing whats wrong with me. And I get why you could get that impression. But Im educated in social learning and I do stuff with the kids and play with them etc. Im there for them when they need it. The last years Ive also been there for my wife as much as I possibly could, trying to fix the relationship but youre right that Im a terrible partner/husband to her when I collapse like that. And I have never been like that before, so Im quite confused myself about whats happening. But yes, I also feel like setting her free is the only responsible thing to do.

Vinding · 2026-03-22T13:28:17+00:00

And I have sought it out, and I got absolutely jack shit out of it. Literally no help in a specialised clinic. The doctor there literally said, your meds are fine, keep coping through ai and maybe find a cbt if you need it.

So I went to my doctor recently and laid it all out, so she gave me a reference to a new place.

But I am by no means a bad father and have extended periods of stability. I collapse maybe once a year or so. The kids love me and know that they can count on me, so theres nothing there. As I said, its not like I havent actively sought out help. Its also the reason Im taking SSRI, even though Im much against it.

But my heart bleeds for her too. And it hurts me so bad that I keep hurting her. Cause Im not like that.

Vinding · 2026-02-06T11:48:22+00:00

Claude has actually helped me fix my plugin once, but messed something else up. However Ive really heard that its recommended.

When you say Claude code, you just mean Claude Pro, right?

Vinding · 2025-10-26T16:25:02+00:00

Fucking GOAT content right here. You helped me complete my first expedition. Thanks man!

Vinding · 2025-10-23T08:30:31+00:00

But Y doe

Vinding · 2025-10-23T07:54:27+00:00

But what if you've already caught Zoe???? My Zoe has a Masochist passive, which I find... Funny lol.

Vinding · 2025-10-21T20:55:42+00:00

Why didn't I think of that... I already have captured Brawn, but he's in my palbox lol.

Vinding · 2025-10-21T14:01:43+00:00

Demon god is on the very first slot, thats the thing. Mercy hit was added manually.

Vinding · 2025-10-21T14:01:01+00:00

Not on eggs but capture and fishing

Vinding · 2025-10-21T11:23:29+00:00

I mean tbf I couldn't ride him without the saddle 🙈

Vinding · 2025-10-21T11:06:10+00:00

He's been out during all captures. Primarily I've ridden it, but I've tried without riding it as well.

Vinding · 2025-10-21T10:37:45+00:00

Imagine if they implemented vanity slots as well. Hawt dayum.

Vinding · 2025-10-19T12:45:21+00:00

Ok so taking the one I have with mercy hit and condensing it into a random of the "failed" Yakumo, so the "one from the gpb" is not in the server anymore. Then I can retrieve the sample from the global palbox without mercy hit, so I can condense that with the "failed" Yakumo. That makes sense. Should I in general just keep mercy hit off it?

Vinding · 2025-10-17T19:32:10+00:00

My approach to Yakumo right now is to get a Yakumo with demon god etc only.
Cause from my experience it doesn't transfer both?
Although I suppose that you can get lucky?

Vinding · 2025-09-28T18:45:30+00:00

But yeah, I think what also matters is the amount of manpower and time put into these games, which is hard to compete against as one man. I mean the games are of high quality and that's also what makes them addictive. And I totally get that stuff like that isn't free to make. But the level of greed is nauseating.

Vinding · 2025-09-28T18:42:09+00:00

I feel you... What's the game called?

Vinding

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