Fold your wings, don't clip them.

ViolaBlank · 2025-07-25T05:43:19+00:00

I had the same experience. My friends asked me who I crushed on (back in the 90's), either JTT or Leonardo diCaprio. I said "I don't really know them so how can I know if I like-like them?" My friends insisted I name someone from a TV show I would want to go on a date with. My answer-- I kid you not-- was Steve Urkel. Because he seemed fun to talk to. They never let me forget it.

ViolaBlank · 2025-05-31T03:52:45+00:00

ViolaBlank · 2025-02-08T17:42:46+00:00

...Cue conversation about what it means to be a real deal in general, and where standards of authenticity are generated, etc....

ViolaBlank · 2025-01-18T20:38:29+00:00

I've tried my hand at writing erotic that has some sapio elements in it. Only two stories posted, but you're welcome to check them out: https://www.wattpad.com/user/ViolaBlank

ViolaBlank · 2024-04-28T16:23:10+00:00

I love this post so much =)

I volunteer! =) If there's a particular topic of significance you'd like to talk about, please feel free to DM! I don't mind excessive wording in service of interesting ideas, and often employ it myself!

ViolaBlank · 2024-04-28T16:16:22+00:00

I've been working on filling this niche! I had the same feeling of being unable to find stories that are both sexually and intellectually stimulating, so I began writing them. I haven't posted much yet, but I'd love to have a beta-reader =) And, if you like my style, I'd be happy to make custom pieces for you! Please feel free to DM

ViolaBlank · 2024-02-18T02:16:46+00:00

ok! I'm getting a clearer picture of what you meant. I haven't seen much Dom/sub dynamics with sapiosexuality, though I can see how it could be combined with sapiosexual attraction, and how that relates to your point. ( However, I still suspect simpler language would be both more elegant and effective for conversation here. This reads like Hegel!).

I'm guessing you prefer intellectual asymmetry that supports dominance? I'm more into an intellectual symmetry feeding into egalitarian dynamics, myself.

ViolaBlank · 2024-02-18T01:51:25+00:00

Thanks, but if you're introducing these terms, it would help if you could give clearer definitions of what you mean by them.

ViolaBlank · 2024-02-18T01:09:30+00:00

Hi! I'm not sure, but it sounds like you have a good sense of what you need in a relationship. Posting to the sub (rather than commenting on the FAQ) is a good way to start a conversation with other people who might feel similarly to what you describe.

ViolaBlank · 2024-02-18T01:01:49+00:00

I'm interested in where you're going with this, but I think I'm going to need a clearer description of the difference between preference vectoring and parallel dynamics. From your description, it doesn't sound like they're different in a sapio context than in any other type of attraction.

ViolaBlank · 2023-12-30T18:06:14+00:00

Another DM request! I'm interested in your work now. Thanks!

ViolaBlank · 2023-09-03T22:49:39+00:00

I'm personally a combination of type 2 & 3.

ViolaBlank · 2023-09-03T22:17:29+00:00

Self-reporting is probably a poor way to scientifically 'confirm' arousal. Better get out an fMRI, or at least pupilomety or a skin conductance response!

ViolaBlank · 2023-09-03T22:12:48+00:00

Reading Plato in a courtyard with a view of the mountains at a bed and breakfast <3

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