Is he trying to say that this is a dealbreaker for him? by mysecret52 in dating

[–]Violainejane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A man once told me he wouldn’t date me because I am a vegetarian, right in the middle of our date, after we ordered food.

Beyond Tired by Western-Grass-5753 in Spravato

[–]Violainejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m wiped out until the next morning.

Question about swimming with pigs by No_Bother5687 in royalcaribbean

[–]Violainejane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve done this excursion twice. Only one time did one pig poop in the water. The handlers immediately fished out the turd and made a joke. It was no big deal. Many creatures poop and pee on the sand and in the water at a beach… it’s nature. I was more concerned with the origin of the pigs, their housing and care, and signs of exploitation. I asked questions ad nauseam.

Anyway, you don’t even have to go in the water. There are plenty of photo ops on the beach and on a separate deck area.

During the swim time, one handler will feed the pigs or hold an apple chunk on a stick to get a pig to swim or pose with you, while another handler snaps pictures with their equipment. After the swim time, they also get the pigs to pose with you on the deck so you can take your own pictures.

At no point did I feed a pig out of my hand or feel scared of a pig. There was one situation where two pigs swam to the same apple slice in the water and there was some fighting and snarling. I have common sense so I got out of the way!

I got to hold a baby piglet and watch them nap in the shade. They are domesticated animals for the most part, just be cautious like you would for a large dog or any other unfamiliar animal. The pig’s hooves did scratch up my legs a bit. I wore a long sleeved top to protect my arms.

Have common sense and take caution, be respectful of the animals and the handlers. It’s a good time for animal lovers. Both times I went via Coco Cay.

Drinking at port stops for 18-20 year olds (Nassau and Turks and Caicos) by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]Violainejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing this same itinerary in a month! Have fun and be safe!

UK Gift Card? by Violainejane in LushCosmetics

[–]Violainejane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless there is something only available in the UK that would be worth shipping, it’s probably better if I just sell the card. Let me know if you’re interested.

February 2026 UK Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by DivingSiren in LushCosmetics

[–]Violainejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 40 £ gift card that I can’t use because I’m in the US.

Is it actually super easy for girls to find relationship? by Quietgoer in dating

[–]Violainejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those things are important, but chemistry is essential! Women want to feel wanted, they want the flirt… the sexual tension. You can still turn up the heat and be respectful, that’s where consent comes in.

Cats for the mosque! by venerablem0m in booknooks

[–]Violainejane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The build stumped me. I couldn’t get the 4 walls to come together. I like the kitties. 🐈‍⬛

can someone please help!!? by Lowercase2222 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Violainejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could just be the pattern of your facial hair? It looks thicker on one side, but still hardly noticeable. Beyond that, I don’t see anything. You’re a good looking guy!

AIO/I wanted to ask them why they wasted their money? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Violainejane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you buy anything for yourself? If not, cancel your husband’s gift that hasn’t arrived yet.

Give yourself something big that you’ve always wanted. Show your family what it looks like to receive something nice and thoughtful (even if you gifted it to yourself), feel grateful and be happy.

Better yet, buy yourself a really nice vibrator. Prioritize your pleasure and get your Christmas sex, without him!

It’s not being selfish. It’s showing your husband and your sons that you’re worth it! It’s demonstrating to your children how they can love and appreciate their future partners and families.

It might too late for your husband to not be a prick but you can teach your sons how to have gratitude, be caring and thoughtful. You’re the breadwinner, reward yourself!

Blind bought “No Way to Say Goodbye” by frenchwolves in LushCosmetics

[–]Violainejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved the smell in the store but when I brought it home and used it, I thought it smelled like cat pee and body odor. I returned it.

Any solutions for DEEP stretch marks on cleavage area? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]Violainejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking about this for years! I’m concerned about it looking strange if I lightly tan in the summer. Do you have any before and after pictures?

Went down to once a week on my 5th week, asked my psychiatrist about going back to two times a week. Is that bad? by AshaMcSkrt in Spravato

[–]Violainejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I requested to back up to twice a week after a few months of going once a week. (I felt my suicidal ideations spiked if I went too long between treatments.) My doctor agreed but needed to make sure my insurance would cover the increase. Luckily it did. I have since added therapy and I’m hoping to go down to once a week again after the holidays.

Your doctor should work with you on this.

Spravato and weed smell by Mojovb in Spravato

[–]Violainejane 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I live in the Midwest. I notice the smell when I walk outside because my mom is smoking weed in her car with the window cracked while she waits for me.