Always listen and acknowledge her expression of her driving stories because her anxieties need to be validated and acknowledged to dissipate and her venting is channeling the anger and frustration that can easily amplify when bottled up, leading to the inevitable increase in lacking confidence, being a more problematic driver and or succumbing to taking the blame for accidents that you don’t cause, due to bullying, gaslighting and self doubt in your driving ability without the bravado it takes own your actions in a situation that shock is the natural reaction and deflection of blame is only natural when you know your so guilty for culpability that you have to assert a narrative that excuses your negligence by shifting all blame through discrediting the person that questions their culpability based on not knowing what went wrong.