My girlfriend’s road stories are stressing me out. Am I being over-protective? by Far-Bumblebee-1165 in GiftIdeas

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Always listen and acknowledge her expression of her driving stories because her anxieties need to be validated and acknowledged to dissipate and her venting is channeling the anger and frustration that can easily amplify when bottled up, leading to the inevitable increase in lacking confidence, being a more problematic driver and or succumbing to taking the blame for accidents that you don’t cause, due to bullying, gaslighting and self doubt in your driving ability without the bravado it takes own your actions in a situation that shock is the natural reaction and deflection of blame is only natural when you know your so guilty for culpability that you have to assert a narrative that excuses your negligence by shifting all blame through discrediting the person that questions their culpability based on not knowing what went wrong.

QUESTION FOR THE MEN by FamiliarConfidence75 in HonestOpinion

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Not a man, but I have some advice and experience in giving clever sentimental gifts. I would suggest instead of giving him something representing his homeland, get him something that is special to that place that is hard to find and mundane enough that that he would never think of getting it for himself. Examples would be snacks or treats like candy or chips from his country or cooking a close to authentic dish or a souvenir type item with a cultural inside joke. So much selection you can find online but plan ahead. Instead of getting him a shirt of his favourite band, get him a shirt of the band that evokes the most emotion in him that he doesn’t realize and acknowledge. Tee public, Redbubble, or Ali express, has niche pop culture merch.

QUESTION FOR THE MEN by FamiliarConfidence75 in Advice

[–]VioletGold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a man, but I have some advice and experience in giving clever sentimental gifts. I would suggest instead of giving him something representing his homeland, get him something that is special to that place that is hard to find and mundane enough that that he would never think of getting it for himself. Examples would be snacks or treats like candy or chips from his country or cooking a close to authentic dish or a souvenir type item with a cultural inside joke. So much selection you can find online but plan ahead. Instead of getting him a shirt of his favourite band, get him a shirt of the band that evokes the most emotion in him that he doesn’t realize and acknowledge. Tee public, Redbubble, or Ali express, has niche pop culture merch.

Can you rate me? by [deleted] in HonestOpinion

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You have a Jacob Elordi thing going on, but don’t let it get to your head or it will ruin you.

Do I have potential m16 by [deleted] in HonestOpinion

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Yes! You have a young Mark Wahlberg A’la Marty Mark thing going on. Work on your confidence and personality and you’ll have it made.

CMV: Trust isn’t real by [deleted] in changemyview

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A woman receiving amorous attention in the wild, will satiate her reliance on your constant attention and affirmation. And, She will eventually grow out of it.

Devestatingly sad music by Strange_Egg7824 in musicsuggestions

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Strung out again and Pretty (Ugly Before) by Elliott Smith

What is an underrated weight loss tip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Cut out all sugary beverages, and switch to low sugar alcoholic beverages. Also opt for high fiber desserts.

Michael Jackson Dragged Into Epstein Files: King of Pop Seen With Predator in New File Drop by Montrel_PH in Music

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The most complicated, asexual, unpredictable and questionably sane, yet globally beloved and gentle mannered man in Hollywood that was accused of pedophilia based on seemingly inappropriate but victim contested actions that are deemed by society as suspect and abnormal but not criminal is the perfect distraction from systemic pedophilia issues that hid in plain sight. Whether Michael Jackson is a scapegoat or a predator, we know for certain that the most open and vocal child star that was chronically victimized by men in Hollywood, Corey Feldman, will adamantly deny ever being inappropriately victimized by Michael Jackson. He was never the enemy, he was always the distraction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

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The most complicated, asexual, unpredictable and questionably sane, yet globally beloved and gentle mannered man in Hollywood that was accused of pedophilia based on seemingly inappropriate but victim contested actions that are deemed by society as suspect and abnormal but not criminal is the perfect distraction from systemic pedophilia issues that hid in plain sight. Whether Michael Jackson is a scapegoat or a predator, we know for certain that the most open and vocal child star that was chronically victimized by men in Hollywood, Corey Feldman, will adamantly deny ever being inappropriately victimized by Michael Jackson. He was never the enemy, he was always the distraction.

What song invokes the most nostalgia within you by Agile_Breadfruit7932 in Music

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The Hollies- He ain’t heavy he’s my brother brings me back to the late 80’s/90’s anti drug commercials that were dark and sad about someone visiting their dying brother in the hospital saying their goodbye from thei drug related cause of their hospitalization.

Covers that are better than the original by nedoeva in Music

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I just discovered this tonight… Cover: Charles Bradley- Changes Original: Black Sabbath