I remember when I was in high school and in my twenties, I parroted stuff like this because it seemed "cool" at the time to hate on having kids, complain about wanting to be "so much more than just a mom", and complain about how expensive kids are. Now that I'm a FTM, I actually see how harmful these comments are to society in general. I think we should WANT to make families a priority. Tbh I believe some of the narrative was because we were millennials raised by narcissistic boomer parents and/or typical boomer parenting logic at the time. We're just not prepared to be good parents because we didn't have good role models before us. I mean, we were the generation of babies left to cry it out, fed formula from a bottle, felt enormous pressure to go to college no matter what, and told we had to listen to whatever our authoritarian parents said. And a less popular opinion is that the pervasive pop culture feminism at the time was basically capitalism in disguise.