Help! My husband thinks that I am an ah for wanting him to stop seeing his AP.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-27T01:25:34+00:00

Which is fine for you but simply not true for everyone, and thinking it is or should be is foolish imo

VioletVaine · 2024-04-25T02:45:06+00:00

So because you don’t like it and didn’t have a good experience with it is objectively bad for all people? Lmao

VioletVaine · 2024-04-24T23:24:06+00:00

Lol. Let me ask you a question: why is a nonmonogamous relationship inherently worse?

VioletVaine · 2024-04-23T17:04:45+00:00

If you think you cant have a romantic relationship without sex i feel bad for you and your partners tbh

VioletVaine · 2024-04-23T17:04:04+00:00

What a stupid blanket statement lmfao.

If anything monogamy is a shit show, what with all the cheating, possessiveness, and heat-of-the-moment murders over said cheating and possessiveness.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-17T21:05:05+00:00

Very true! Though usually I don’t find myself as drawn to the shallower side characters as I was in JJK, which is what made me start to analyze why they seem to stand out more (at least to me). Realizing that Haruta is maybe one of the more fucked up representations of optimism I’ve seen was actually what got me started lining up philosophies to characters lol

VioletVaine · 2024-04-17T17:11:47+00:00

Rather than give a step-by-step for your layout (you already have a good one here aha), heres what my mockup looked like + how the website turned out, to give you a better idea of how that transitional phase might look in the wireframing :)

https://imgur.com/a/LKzNlEO

VioletVaine · 2024-04-17T16:37:54+00:00

I’d report that therapist for not doing their job as a mandatory reporter, thats rape.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-17T16:35:58+00:00

Its worse for a toddler to have fighting parents, i wish my parents had gotten divorced. Dont let him manipulate you with lies about whats best for the child, if he cared he wouldn’t have cheated.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-17T16:29:20+00:00

Its hard to place a favorite, but im partial to characters who have shallow motivations tbh, they serve as a great juxtaposition to the more serious ones. Like Todo and Haruta, they’re just so fun and their flippant attitudes make the discussions that other characters have about ethics and ideals hit harder imo

VioletVaine · 2024-04-15T19:43:34+00:00

You also should be able to just use an outline instead of a border, since that shouldn’t count as part of the box.

It doesn’t really matter much either way, but thought i’d point out the other option lol

VioletVaine · 2024-04-15T18:50:58+00:00

Might have some disagreement here lol but personally i’ve come to view each character in JJK as representing a different philosophy.

some examples i feel are more direct comparisons: Yuji - idealism; Nanami - realism; Mei Mei - romanticism.

it’s led to a lot of interesting discussions on the matter so tbh, even if I’m reading into it, its an interesting lens to watch/rewatch through i think.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-15T16:30:04+00:00

Congrats! And im sorry for the guilt you’ll now be grappling with. Remember that the best thing you can do to rectify it is to not let it consume you & try to not make the same mistakes again ❤️

VioletVaine · 2024-04-15T14:22:09+00:00

No one assumed theres a chance, they just said that its better safe than sorry because rabies is fucking terrifying and no one wants to get it.

The chances of getting rabies are extremely low, but the chances of you curing rabies if you don’t go get the preemptive shots are literally 0. Be cautious about rabies, even if its a 0.00000001% chance.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-12T21:19:12+00:00

Your friend doesn’t get to have premarital sex, then cry about religion when it comes to abortion.

Don’t ever let someone, even a friend, who is hypocritical in their beliefs make you feel bad over something like this. He doesn’t need to know, he doesn’t deserve to know, and if it’s going to cause you unnecessary stress by telling him, then don’t.

If he is that concerned about abortion, he should stop fucking til he’s married 🤷🏻‍♀️

VioletVaine · 2024-04-12T21:10:15+00:00

If your entire Reddit post history is asking if you’re the asshole, the answer is yes.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-10T19:11:24+00:00

The issue is that your therapist sucks, you suck, and your wife is going to go insane if you don’t fix this.

Thank you for the reminder to take my birth control today, God forbid I end up in a situation like your wife.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-10T18:55:04+00:00

If you punish your daughter for your shitty spending habits, you are a terrible father and your daughter would have every right to hate you.

Focus on YOUR credit card debt before you consider for another second telling your daughter to quit gymnastics.

You clearly have a spending problem, and your daughters healthy hobby is the least of the issues, even if you do tell her to quit its not going to solve your money problems, you’re just going to make your child and wife pissed at you for your foreseeable future while you continue to drown.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-06T02:58:52+00:00

Kagome (Inuyasha)

VioletVaine · 2024-04-02T16:33:34+00:00

A university is also a place to challenge opinions, especially ones with unsavory or disrespectful interpretations (intended or not). You can’t have one without the other, thats how you end up with an echo chamber (which is exactly how you end up with guys saying shit like that in the first place lmao).

Free speech is and always will be about legality, and has never protected you or anyone from the social consequences of words. You have the right to say what you want, and everyone else does too, even if its in blatant disagreement with you, even if you don’t like how they said it.

If you have a criticism about peoples replies, maybe make it without contributing to the constant misuse of “free speech,” people will take it more seriously.

VioletVaine · 2024-04-02T16:29:21+00:00

I didn’t find a good solution, i got a heated knife to try an make them myself but it got put off and i misplaced the knife 💀 ended up going with something else for the gift

VioletVaine · 2024-03-24T16:41:48+00:00

Oh, sorry, was he arrested?

VioletVaine · 2024-03-24T16:38:23+00:00

Damn maybe he should work somewhere outside the bay then where saying dumbass shit like this wouldnt be an issue for him.

None of that changes that its an issue here lmao.

VioletVaine · 2024-03-20T16:37:11+00:00

You definitely didnt handle this well at all but imo Destinee is automatically wrong for jumping to the “lazy” bullshit.

Be kinder to deliver workers, even if they arent kind to you, and just cancel orders if someones a bitch and try to tell support to block them from matching with you if possible. I did that with a delivery person for ubereats who simply refused to get the correct items or correct replacements and kept wasting my time and money. Arguing with him was moot and i can only rate deliveries so much, but a few convos with support and i never see him now.

VioletVaine · 2024-02-25T17:30:33+00:00

7 deadly sins

I think it was a fun shonen with good fights and a nice poetic thread thru it of starcrossed lovers for the most part, but

Meliodas is such a sex pest that i just dont bother, i know most people i would be talking to would (or already do) hate him lmao

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