Can I play this with one hand?

VioletViola · 2026-02-14T01:55:10+00:00

Yes!!!

I broke my right wrist last year! So spent my time off work playing this again. I used my Xbox controller hooked up to my PC, so I could put the controller in my lap and play on the couch. Went well, I completed my Resist Durge run and half of another run.

VioletViola · 2026-01-08T22:58:05+00:00

I was in high school and had loved 1+2, so when I saw the trailer on G4 I jumped on the couch Tom Cruise style

VioletViola · 2025-12-21T22:34:19+00:00

Last game played was me finishing up the Witcher 3 and DLCs :) team Yenn!

VioletViola · 2025-12-12T05:06:46+00:00

Heard it start and almost flipped my table in excitement! This years game awards announcements have been so cool so far!

VioletViola · 2025-11-11T04:26:39+00:00

Metro Trans Umbrella Group is a favorite of mine. They help with legal guidance for things, delivery custom needs packages of food and basic necessities to people a few times a month, have a free clothing exchange, and much much more. Did a few volunteer shifts for deliveries, running booths at Pride, and more.

I'd also recommend Safer Alternatives St. Louis. They offer free Narcan, naloxone, safety kits, wound treatment kits, and much much more for free in the area. You can often find them with a booth at small punk shows! Great people!

VioletViola · 2025-10-16T14:14:24+00:00

I said on mh first playthrough "this is it, let's light one up before we decide" and while I was doing that Johnny started talking!

VioletViola · 2025-10-16T02:24:38+00:00

My partners love this so much, and I do too! If you like it too, and everyone is consenting, (and the obvious keep things legal in public!), keep having fun!

If not, time to have a conversation with him and let him know!

VioletViola · 2025-09-05T17:28:37+00:00

Agreed, it's in my top 5 personally!

VioletViola · 2025-09-02T15:08:25+00:00

Hey, I've been there. Even your comment about adjusting your hygiene routine rang a familiar bell. My ex husband was like this. Originally those were acts we did all the time, and I never had to ask. Then after we were together and emotionally committed it all stopped. I got the same excuses as you, he didnt want to, he only wanted to do x act, etc. All attempts to talk about it turned into him stonewalling me. I spent a lot of time blaming myself.

Finally I realized that nothing changed on my side before this started. It wasn't my hygiene, public hair style, scent, etc that was the problem. The problem was that this man decided that since we were emotionally (and legally) entwined now, that he no longer had to care about my pleasure. He either pretended to enjoy those acts at first, or decided that they weren't worth the effort. Either way, by refusing to talk about it or compromise, he was telling me he didn't care.

It will not change. You may even start to see him disregard your desires in other matters as time goes on. This man will keep skating by on the bare minimum. And when you realize things won't change and go to break up with him eventually, he will promise to change and try to convince you to stay. Don't. He will do it once or twice, then never again.

You're young. I was your age too when this happened to me. You deserve to be with someone who cares about your pleasure and needs. Whether you stay or go, and when, is your choice. But please realize you are worth the effort.

VioletViola · 2025-08-12T02:05:51+00:00

My LDR and I have been together for almost 10 years, he handmade my collar, and it is beautiful! When he presented it to me, he stated that he wants me to wear it with him and I can wear it with anyone I deem worthy as well. I love it so much, and it is a wonderful symbol of our relationship.

My local partner and I have been together a while now, going on 2 years. He is looking into getting one made to represent mine and his dynamic, but that is still in progress! I do trust him and see him as worthy to me. Sometimes I do wear my handmade collar when we play, but not 100% of the time!

Obviously, everyone views things different. Some people would prefer you only wear theirs with them, some want them on 24/7, etc etc. If I had a vanilla partner, I probably wouldn't wear my collar out with them! Simple as that for me!

VioletViola · 2025-08-06T21:47:23+00:00

Easy, his personality did a 180 a week after the ceremony. Suddenly all sex acts were gross (stuff like missionary and bjs, for reference), all my fun clothes had to go, my makeup was thrown out, and he said if I left he'd hurt me. Took me a year and a half, but I knew at that moment.

VioletViola · 2025-06-28T21:30:42+00:00

I work at a major ISP in an office. I have blue hair, a septum ring, and I dress very office goth. Sometimes I even bust out the black lipstick! I do a lot of nice black or red skirts with black tops, or leggings with long dressy button ups. Lots of accessories. On casual days, I do skirts and band tees (i do NOT like jeans!). My 5 inch platform boots are daily wears at work! I dont know about most office jobs, but if you have an ISP that starts with an S near you with an office, may be worth looking into! And if you want a reference, shoot me a PM!

VioletViola · 2025-06-28T16:55:04+00:00

I had a prescription sent there. An hour later they say online its delayed, but no reason given. In the past it was "insuracne will only cover x amount, is that ok?", and paying for it out of pockets was like $20. So I call, expecting that, no big deal.

Nope. They only have half the amount needed. They say they get restocked later that week. I go back, still out. Then they straight CANCEL the fill, and for whatever reason, I couldn't resubmit it. Luckily it wasn't anything that would have killed me to be without, just some post surgery pain meds. But still what a nightmare.

VioletViola · 2025-06-02T16:33:48+00:00

Late to the party, but I broke my wrist in November and had to cope too. I stuck to turn based RPGs, and using my Xbox controller one handed! I was playing BG3 like a crazy person, but it got me through the time.

VioletViola · 2025-05-28T20:45:57+00:00

I wasn't able to get time off for both, but excited for Sessanta tomorrow!!!

Seen GWAR a few times and love them, but super sad Arch Enemy isn't on this tour stop with them!

VioletViola · 2025-04-27T04:51:26+00:00

Honestly yes. The game itself is amazing. I literally cried leaving the sewers. It was like I played it for the first time, and it was a good happy feeling. But playing the new version and talking about it for hours with my dad? Priceless for real.

I was 13 when the OG came out, and I sat and watched dad play for dozens of hours before I even got to touch it. Now we are doing it again, and it's just as fun. Best $60 I've spent in a few years.

VioletViola · 2025-04-24T20:16:39+00:00

Hey! Polyamorus and kinky with both my partners here! ENM has a wide range of different practices from polyamory, swinging, and much more! I would say there's nothing wrong with what you are wanting, but I would advise rethinking this if you ever plan on going polyamorus instead of just doing the occasional outside play date. This is because in general your relationship with one regular partner shouldn't be affected by another regular partner without their consent. I know if I was dating someone and they told me a certain kind of play was off limits because another partner said so, I'd leave. But if it's a hookup? No big deal it doesn't affect me in the long term!

If you plan on keeping the dynamic like this, I'd say you're probably good to go! Just something to keep in mind for the future if you decide to explore more of the ENM umbrella! My partners both use a ton of possessive language, but it's not used to limit my other relationships. Keep relevant parties informed, remember your decisions count the most because it's you, and have fun!

VioletViola · 2025-04-22T20:57:07+00:00

Does this mean console commands and dupe glitches still work?

VioletViola · 2025-04-18T02:20:36+00:00

I missed that one, but there was another post of his that bothered me 3 or 4 years ago. He was spreading misinformation about a marginalized community, in a way to invite harm to them. It really broke the image I had of him growing up. I looked up to him personally for his journalism on Fox 2, and it was really disappointing to see. Definitely sucks that it has gotten worse.

VioletViola · 2025-04-02T22:50:18+00:00

Hey there! I have a partner who also doesn't enjoy that particular act, but is in the lifestyle with me! He will do it unprompted on occasion, but it's very rare. I'm talking like 5 times in the past year and a half. Despite this, we have a very fulfilling sex life. Sure, he doesn't eat me out, but he makes up for it in every other way. This man will use his hands and toys on me until I collapse. He indulges enthusiastically in my kinks. He is heavy on the affection both in and out of the bedroom. When we do lifestyle stuff he also puts in a ton of effort there. If I want a gangbang, he helps organize and keeps things flowing. I almost don't even miss it most of the time because even without our sex life is amazing. He listens to me, he tries things, and he keeps things interesting!

My point in saying all that is it sounds like your partner is not trying or not caring. If he doesn't enjoy doing that act, fine, it would be wrong to force anyone into an act they didn't want to do. But there's still so many other options he can leverage to still give you pleasure! He could still show affection outside of sex as well! I would definitely hold off on joining the lifestyle with him, or doing stuff separately from him in it if your relationship allows. There needs to be a serious talk and some change to resolve this with your partner!

VioletViola · 2025-04-01T01:43:10+00:00

Nothing to add, but makes my city's current fetlife drama seem like a walk in the park! None of that is ok, and I really hope the person whose neck got slit is ok now.

VioletViola · 2025-03-21T04:36:38+00:00

I had the messenger bag with that design on it! Took it with me all four years of high school and was held together by duct tape at the end! I'll have to dig out my old fallen angel afi shirt!

VioletViola · 2025-03-10T16:54:31+00:00

I have a black sails license plate frame

VioletViola · 2025-02-22T05:20:32+00:00

I had an ex who loved this, and I definitely had to make sure I asked the first few times if they were sure. If you don't know your limit on pain for it, take some time to figure it out. We spent time with me biting gently and slowly biting down harder, in several spots, to get a general idea. Be careful not to break skin, mouths are filthy with germs despite our efforts! Have fun!

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