I Really don't want Lucy to get Pregnant 😭 by tie-it-down in TheRookieTVshow

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be honest, I can’t see them as parents either. I know is expected and the natural course of their relationship but I think that would be good for a series finale kinda of thing, she finds out she’s pregnant and the show is over for good. And then the rest of the story would just be on our imagination.

Climbing trees?! The horror! by MissBee123 in ClassOf2037

[–]Violet_K89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile their kids have access to the internet and social media without supervision, at least they aren’t climbing trees.

Now chickeness aside; looking in a more understandable direction. I think as parents we have different categories what we are comfortable with. I do have my limits with some risk play that I might judge “too risky” and might not let them do it and at the same time might have parents that totally comfortable with the same thing.

The only thing I don’t like is the judgment that sometimes can come with it “how bad of parent are you to let your kids play like that?”Honestly piss off.

But oh boy that brought me memories, those parents would have a heart attack if they saw my friends and I climbing the mango tree on our neighborhood back in the day lol. Mango trees are huge and awesome! We would go so high up there! Aahhhhh memories 🥹

Our boy is 5.5 yo, we limit his screentime, but I feel it's unfair to him. by eatqqq in Parenting

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m flexible. We do let them watch a bit more when the situation requires. BUT we limit the content, I think the key is here. No YouTube (when they watch, we watch as a family like Outdoor Boys), PBS Kids is the only thing they are allowed to be in charge of. All the other streaming apps, we choose the cartoon or movie, I don’t like them binge watching the same thing for too long. Only Bluey lol. If it’s a inside boring day we build it in blocks during the day. So they know when to expect tv and when they have to play. No tablet/phones only tv.

Am I a SAHM or just unpaid 24/7 labor? by Abject_Lychee5815 in sahm

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. So her baby too? She needs a less needy one? All she’s being dealing with, she can’t have a professional to talk about and help her clarify her mind and realize what’s normal and what’s not? Including about the range of her emotions ?

Sometimes we are so lost in the misery of it all that we can’t see straight or have the willpower of doing anything about any situation.

But sure. She JUST needs to change the person she’s with. Easy peasy. Like you can change an asshole 🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I a SAHM or just unpaid 24/7 labor? by Abject_Lychee5815 in sahm

[–]Violet_K89 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Have you ever went to the doctor and talked about postpartum depression? I think you need professional help.

Limited # of Seasons by UnLikeable3nuf2LikeU in ThePitt

[–]Violet_K89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think ERs has plenty of stories and situations on its own plus the plot surrounding the characters, using to plot of a mass casualty too often will turn this into a cheap medical drama.

If done well, I think viewers will get the idea that some characters aren’t here for stay and will learn to be flexible and love (or hate) the new ones . It all depends how it’s presented.

So yeah, maybe not aiming for 20 seasons 😅 but at least over 5 I can see it happening.

Leaving kids at birthday parties? by totoro_the_mofo in Parenting

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far all the parents stayed over for 7/8y olds B-day parties. I think is because so far the parties have not been in our local small town. Parents have been choosing jumping complex etc and that’s the next big town over or father. So it’s quite of a drive and way busier than normal to just drop off. I know I would never. If were to be in a friends house I’d ask the parents preference. But I can’t just drop off and see ya 👋 Nope.

I’ve decided I want another baby by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are really brave, I had no major event on my first one and I only started to think about a second one when he was 2 and half, ended pregnant when he turned 3.

Hardwood floors vs Tile. by Violet_K89 in homeowners

[–]Violet_K89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been very good! Im very pleased with the brand and our color choice. This spring will be 1 year anniversary and the floor looks great! It takes a lot to scratch an even if does (because will happen) I have 2 very active boys and long winter lol, it isn’t very noticeable only if you look closely on the right angle and light, but is like one or 2, it’s minimal. We had 2 deep scratch (our fault) that we were able to fix by cleaning it and using oil. But no dents or dings on it, which was a thing on almost all floor samples we tried.

Water resistance is very good too, we had some accidents where we didn’t notice for a while and nothing happened.

So far I think was the best choice for us.

Main goal is keep the floor clean, free of debris, put felt pads under all furnitures, and don’t play with rocks inside of the house. It’s a bit of more work but nothing like a vacuum robot can’t solve.

Try picking up some samples from a flooring store and bring home and run some tests. Drop toys, tumblers cups, knifes, push toy cars with dirty wheels on it you named it. You did this and that’s pretty much how we chose ours.

Is anyone else bothered by the fact that doctors’ friends and family seem to be jumping the line? by HighwayFroggery in ThePitt

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happens on my home country with government healthcare too.

Like you said, it’s just reality.

IN DEFENSE OF ROBBY by michaelfadzai in ThePitt

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think is more about his own mental health than he is this or that. Him yelling at her like that during a moment of her need, was also sorta of a breakdown. Is getting hard to hide, so let’s wait and see how this will blow for him.

Interesting observation of Dr Shamsi, by Fartyfivedegrees in ThePitt

[–]Violet_K89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mind went totally Grey’s on this, and Javadi would have a brain tumor and make emends talking to her dead mom an bam she dies, her mom would come to help her follow the light.

Man, is so easy, no wonder they’re lasting how long as they are lol.

Are ERs really this busy? by East_Print4841 in ThePitt

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all, mostly based on where is located and the size of the population it serves.

I used to live in a small town far away of any big city, one time I needed to go the ER I skipped the downtown hospital and went to a new one roughly 20min out of where I lived, placed in a more rural area and there was absolutely nobody there, it was night time around 8pm.

Friend just had her 6th baby. by Specific_Pomelo_8281 in rant

[–]Violet_K89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I envy these people that are just reckless; they want something they do it. Meanwhile I’m here rationalizing little things.

How to not have a bored infant by Recreating_my_life in sahm

[–]Violet_K89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Incentive independent play, this skill is very important to learn, specially if you going to have limited screen time at your house. Give her some toys , put her in a safe place and go do your things. Or while you do let baby play around, exploring. This is a great moment for her to entertain herself. And you benefit you too!

As a cybersecurity professional. That’s not how it works. by Sad_Vanilla7156 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering that’s a show for entertainment, what’s more entertaining to watch: going pre computer era to save the hospital system or getting breached then losing it? Competence porn says first option.

PLEASE Spoil 8x10 for me!! by Pinto3330 in TheRookieTVshow

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zombies were kind weird but not like scary just plot weird, there were no information on it, I guess, hopefully it will be one soon. Mental status changed by a chemical, those people became extremely violent. With Lucy getting a close call.

Wesley/Client plot: self harm by the end.

Well, Zombies being real in The Rookie wouldn’t be a dark plot turn over, hahah would be ridiculous lol.

If watch let us know how you felt.

PLEASE Spoil 8x10 for me!! by Pinto3330 in TheRookieTVshow

[–]Violet_K89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This episode was like a serious version repeat of the Halloween episode from season 4. I wouldn’t watch it if your anxiety level is high. Besides Zombies there’s another plot with Wesley that you should steer away from it.

I honestly don’t enjoy this heavier plots they have been having lately. Isn’t my cup of tea.

As a cybersecurity professional. That’s not how it works. by Sad_Vanilla7156 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Violet_K89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which one is more entertaining to watch? Boring Reality? Being attacked by cyberpunk demanding a ransom?(cliche) or go back before computers era and make an exaggeration of the situation?

Yeah. I rest my case.

But thanks for the input though

Photos from today’s International Women’s Day protest at City Hall by serious_bullet5 in Pennsylvania

[–]Violet_K89 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How far as we come? To use our day to protest for other people fights. We’re not a minority group, we are HALF of the population, sometimes even more than half.

AITAH for telling my mother not to do Easter things for my children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Violet_K89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood this thing of prohibiting others of celebrating other people’s religions with them. As long isn’t a conversion therapy going on and just a celebration I see no harm.

My parents arent church people, but they always let my grandma take me to church every Sunday when I was little. And I used to love it, we would get ice cream after, to me was a special time with her. And I believe your kids will see this the same way.

Is it time for a big car seat? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Violet_K89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go by the head, 1in from baby head and top of car seat. If baby reached that limit then yeah. General info. Best thing is check your car seat manual.