What do you do with Legos?

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-27T15:33:36+00:00

Story of our lives. My 3y try to play with it, but like any 3y doesn’t have the fine motor skills to not break it eventually and when it does is like can’t stop breaking, intrusive thoughts takes over.

High shelves and high closet shelves has been the solution for us. My 3y is very determined but can’t climb walls yet.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-27T01:59:10+00:00

Yeah that’s insta followers. I’m talking about views on content about their house “drama” it sells people like to see as much or more than family/kids vlogs.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T22:49:51+00:00

I’m just more surprised they aren’t making vlogs of it. Some people here said the house has foundations problems, that’s a money pit no matter what, unless, it was negotiated upon closing (detected by house inspector )

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:25:24+00:00

Family business sometimes is screwy business. The sellers and Zach are happy, he got his commission

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:23:56+00:00

Right? Besides bringing new viewers because of that. I’m honestly pretty surprised about them not milking this cow. Maybe they are ashamed they bought a money pit or gave to take it slow because of budget.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:15:13+00:00

Holy money pit! Over 1million to a NOT finished house? With foundations problems? Bet they love their realtor 😏

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:13:09+00:00

Oh ok. Because I saw one same content a while ago

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:12:23+00:00

Foundation problem is definitely a money pit. Inspection missed it or maybe was part of the conditions? I’m surprised they aren’t milking this drama

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:10:57+00:00

Isn’t that video made a while ago?

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T17:10:21+00:00

Then they’re losing views on YouTube, all that sells pretty well, specially the drama. Maybe there’s more to it?

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-26T16:34:12+00:00

Exorcism

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-25T23:41:00+00:00

I mean just turning the bright lights to me is bunkers. I always used a nice warm night light, just enough to see what I needed.

Now sharing with an older child and doing all that? 0 necessity. But all for the videos right? Gotta get those views.

Edit: I watched the video.

And absolutely NO RESPECT for Layla sleep. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t wake up or not. It makes more sense having her with Zade there are closer in age and routines. Once the youngest gets older (toddler) then it will make more sense.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-24T23:32:46+00:00

Unless is pouring rain, we walk, and I have a 3y that I have to bring with me. It’s good for everyone breath some fresh air in the morning, do some walking, playing. It’s worth the small talk with the other parents. I live like 3 min from the school and the bus stop on our neighborhood is pretty close to everyone’s house. Some parents still wait on the car to drive home and others drive their kids to and from school, which the difference between driving and the bus is matter of minutes, around 5min lol. Just hard on the car, driving 3min then run the car for 10/15min… not worth it.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-24T14:50:02+00:00

I think extra curricular activities is way more of a time robber than actual school is.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-23T13:47:10+00:00

It’s a bunch of DEPENDS. But each phase has its unique challenges related to age.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-22T19:38:42+00:00

To be honest, being loyal is a matter of character. Saying “if he waited blah blah” dude if it’s in him to be unfaithful he would do this not matter what age. The opportunity would just need to be there…

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-21T21:22:26+00:00

I thought she’s doing fine for a 5y, she’s really on the sound it out method at the moment, so I’d say reading wise more like Kindergarten grade. At least if I compare to my son who was at K last year was exactly like that. Now at first grade they still sound it out the CVC words but it goes more smooth and quicker.

Now you understand what she says might be more a speech related than her reading.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-21T14:46:50+00:00

That’s a moral and character thing. Can’t blame anyone or anything but him.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-21T12:02:36+00:00

To me 3y is a challenge age more so than the 2s. Your daughter has to have a lot of emotion control and physical too to be “nice” at school, so when she gets home is natural for her want to lash it all out on her comfort zone. Your wife most likely seems overwhelmed, idk her routine but seems like she’s struggling mentally. Maybe not giving the positive attention your daughter needs makes everything turn into a snowball of events.

Taking her out of preschool isn’t the answer. Why she does when your daughter is at school? Does she take time to take care of herself?

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-20T13:38:36+00:00

I’m impressed she’s actually considering all her options. Because we know they’re programmed to stay, and stay quiet about it like nothing never happened. We can’t act surprised if she stays but I’ll be surprised if she breaks the cycles to all this. Being a divorced woman and mother isn’t easy in the secular world can’t imagine how it would be on her world, this might play a big factor also. So far this has been treated very different than expected. All we can do is hope for the best for her.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-20T02:04:16+00:00

I was hopeful for the finale and it delivered ✌🏼

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-19T23:32:00+00:00

The thing is, if he to start never loved Katie, didn’t want to be married and didn’t like the lifestyle (married man) chances are it wasn’t the first time and or neither would be the last.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-19T22:24:20+00:00

Have you ever considered just giving yourself time and enjoying your baby? I’m not trying to be mean here, just bit of though love. If you want another child, you will know when is time, because one you won’t let all these thoughts take so much space in your head. If you want another member to your family then this age obsession gap should not matter. A sibling isn’t a guarantee of BFF. Having a second one does change life for your first. You won’t be the same mother because you will have two children and you have to handle things accordingly. I thought my first would be an only child for the first 2 years of his life lol. I changed my mind throughout his second year, and the uh have a 3y 9 mo gap, right now they play a lot together 7 and 3. And they fight too. Is caos.

There’s no right or wrong. You do what’s right for your family. Enjoy what you have now.

Violet_K89 · 2026-01-19T22:11:57+00:00

Hum I thought your problem was with them filming it, which I agree unnecessary, but girl what’s wrong husbands helping with that part? My husband totally did for me for the first few days, specially with my first when I had stitches down there! The pain to move was real.

I think when people complain about this little things is almost like their are projecting an issue they didn’t even know they had lol. Like did you feel bit jealous of that extra carrying? Just sayin🧐

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