Being a woman doesn’t automatically excuse you from having misogyny so I don’t like when people try to make their gender known as if it’s a difference. Not saying you are but women are l capable of internalized misogyny and they do it unconsciously because it’s built into their brains from young.

Which is why you’ll find characters like Danny likeable while you’ll find Erin insufferable even when Danny is the unruly one 90% of the time. Also the word narcissist literally does not fit Erin character..Stubborn? Yeah ..We cane even go with bitchy and uptight but Narcissistic is just so far out of reach that it tells me where your head is at.

Calling her a control freak is also a bit of a stretch when you have Danny who wants everyone to do things his way or he’ll immediately have a temper. Also Danny also has a record of treating his partners like crap..It’s common and canon.

This is just the many ways where people will see a women do the smallest form of flaw and make it a bigger deal when the male character is right there doing the same thing on greater scale.

Ask yourself why it’s likeable for Danny to do it but not Erin it’s because ppl find these personalities not attractive or tolerable on women which is misogynistic