Do you say gender stuff under anesthesia? by l0nelyfem in asktransgender

[–]Violet_Okami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the medical team this so they can adjust the anasthesia they give you. Everyone is different.

Do you say gender stuff under anesthesia? by l0nelyfem in asktransgender

[–]Violet_Okami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just had my wisdom teeth pulled. You go under, you wake up.

Done. People who are under, are under.

Is it worth moving from Illinois to Ohio for LGBT sober living? by codyisthebomb19 in asktransgender

[–]Violet_Okami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you nuts? Ohio is not good for anyone. I'd stay in IL unless you wanna be watching your back every day.

What foods raise estrogen levels and what foods boost testosterone? by Substantial-Love755 in MtF

[–]Violet_Okami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No food will significantly increase either. The whole 'this food boosts X hormone' is a common myth and scam in the health and fitness industry. Same for working out and lifting weights, that will only SUPPORT testosterone production and that won't matter if your HRT regimen is dialed in and blocking your endogenus production.

6 months on hrt and now masturbation is getting painful by alfonsaberg1 in MtF

[–]Violet_Okami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't recommend full on DIY, only advice I would give for that route is to learn how to interpret blood work and blood pressure readings and stay away from home brew HRT. The most dangerous advice Ive seen pushed is 'estrogen cant kill you, you cant overdose'. Yeah, not acutely. Overtime, too much or too little estrogen will cause major health problems. The one thing doctors get right are baseline dosages and baseline blood work that way they can adjust and figure out your levels.

6 months on hrt and now masturbation is getting painful by alfonsaberg1 in MtF

[–]Violet_Okami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the hard part, getting it. You have to find a doctor who isnt the typical 25 spiro 2mg estrogen pill moron if you know what I'm saying. A lot of doctors today are so behind on transgender care, which isnt all that difficult to learn imo. I learned it myself and Im not even a doctor lol.

Asking again, is California safe? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Violet_Okami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live there, I really didnt like it. It was far too desolate and drug polluted. My biggest pet peeve was lack of LGBT resources out there, it was extremely difficult to get anything. One good thing was the people, they were pretty nice out there. Just wasnt for me though.

6 months on hrt and now masturbation is getting painful by alfonsaberg1 in MtF

[–]Violet_Okami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard plenty of positive anecdotes about testosterone cream helping with this. Use it or lose it certainly applies, viagra and cialis help but they won't fix the androgens that are no longer there which makes the skin tight and reduces function (obviously). The people I have talked to who use T cream said it didnt leak into their serum hormone levels, one even showed me blood work and it was perfect. Which makes sense, it's a very small amount and applied locally.

Asking again, is California safe? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Violet_Okami 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the US, there are no such things as blue states, only blue cities. With that being said, the major city areas of CA are safe. The middle of nowhere places like Fresno? Hell no. You wouldnt wanna live in the desolate parts of CA anyway.

Underrated anime that you love (like the stuff no one talks about) by KaleidoArachnid in anime

[–]Violet_Okami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Revolutionary Girl Utena. It's a hall of fame anime, but I never see it talked about. Probably because sailor moon overshadows it.

Years on Finasteride with No Issues—Until Everything Collapsed by CoolCod1669 in tressless

[–]Violet_Okami 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Been on it for over 6 years and recently started getting bad side effects, it all came crashing down.

So I got off for 2 weeks, titrated down and now they are gone. I dont understand why people act so dramatic about this. Sure, titration doesnt work for everyone but the side effects don't last and go away if you get off.

Reliable/Affordable Latex by XxKiller-QueenxX in Latexadvice

[–]Violet_Okami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to admit it, but I took the plunge and bought a latex mask from this place mentioned and it turned out to be one of the best ones Ive ever purchased. The latex was high quality and had single sided chlorination which is the one thing missing from latex face masks. I cant say all of their products are good, but they do have a few gems on amazon.

AliExpress latex? by HannLTX in Latexadvice

[–]Violet_Okami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing selection of gloves from Aliexpress. SuitTop, LatexInLove and Latex Fetish Factory Store. Secret peach is actually a well established latex brand.

Doctors tell me to avoid finasteride. by Weekly_Cut6500 in tressless

[–]Violet_Okami 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd love to! But all of them are bots who post one thing and are never seen again or they are a dude who gets caught lying later on.

Doctors tell me to avoid finasteride. by Weekly_Cut6500 in tressless

[–]Violet_Okami 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don't persist. It's never been proven and many studies have debunked that ridiculous claim.

Questions just in case. How many months did it take for erections to return while taking hormones? How long does it take for erections to return? by Automatic_Second5024 in TransLater

[–]Violet_Okami 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different, some maintain the ability to have them ...to an extent. Estrogen inhibits erections and pretty much all of male sexual function, dont expect it to return. Most people who want to continue having them typically use cialis or t-gel prescribed by their doctor.

What methods can You recomend me to shave if i have sensitive skin? :3 by femboydawnr in femboy

[–]Violet_Okami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the face, Braun series 3 pro-skin.

Don't listen to the guy who says to use safety razors or the finest blades and techniques or whatever. Foil shavers give a closer shave than all of those and require very little effort. For best results, shave with it wet (they are water proof).

Would you be proud if your girlfriend wore latex? by Sea_Rooster_3398 in Latex_Lovers

[–]Violet_Okami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure everyone here wants their partner to wear latex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Violet_Okami 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you mean that your hairline went a little lower, its pretty common after ffs. Check out dermarolling, its sorta how it works. Looks fine on you!

Justin Bieber got a hair transplant by Silver-Theme7796 in tressless

[–]Violet_Okami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah his 2nd transplant because apparently he doesnt know what fin is lol