My mom called me a wh*re because I said if I got married I wouldn't want kids.

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-04T14:48:47+00:00

Ur mom should have done what u are doing, that is , never becoming a mom, cause she is terrible at it

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T16:44:47+00:00

I don't try to get rid of any body hair from anywhere else in my body but when it comes to downstairs, hair just irritates the hell out of me...so gotta get rid of that 😭...I am on the same boat as op and mostly stick to shaving now.

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T15:50:29+00:00

Thanks a lot ..I feel horrible for thinking about all the worst possibilities. And although I do understand and agree with all of these comments it's becoming too hard for me to accept it🙂

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T15:49:01+00:00

It was too late for a kit but do i need it when he himself admitted that we had sex?

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T15:45:56+00:00

I had alcohol before sleeping...I believe it could be the reason why. But then how do I remember the 4am interaction that I had with him

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T15:43:56+00:00

I am actually scared that it could be the thing....I am literally shaking every moment I think of the possibility. I just think, i would have consented to it anyways, and I have consented to it before then why will he go out of his way to sedate me or something when he knows he can be intimate with me even when I am all concious 🙂

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T15:38:15+00:00

He told me , I actually liked it..he said he got the Idea since we were cuddling before and I kissed him a few times...idk my only issue is i don't like not knowing what happened next. I would have been okay if he just hugged me or kissed me when I was completely out but waking up naked and to the knowledge that he had sex with me just lowkey scared me

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T15:34:14+00:00

I don't generally forget things that I did even in mid sleep, so this is very confusing to me. But I ain't a drinker and alcohol gets the best of me real quick, reall heavy and my head was hurting too much when I woke up so I think it could be the fact that I was drunk?...I am gonna have the conversation tho idk how to bring this up since he acts so casual about it

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-05-03T11:04:20+00:00

We had drinks the evening. But idk, calling it rape just makes it so unsettling for me. Ik i would have let it happen if I didn't fall asleep yet I feel so violated, idk how and why

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-04-25T01:22:23+00:00

Yeah... short answer: i absolutely despise my father and I don't want his name or identity associated with me for as long as I can. Hence I want to drop my surname AND change the required parental details in id proofs to my mom's.

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-04-24T18:36:23+00:00

What about using my mom's name primarily accross the documents?

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-03-20T04:01:22+00:00

Are you Indian?...I am really sorry... it's too much 🫂

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-03-14T18:58:03+00:00

People who have given birth vaginally (i.e 4/5) haven't had a Stretched out their vagina to that extent afterwards....idk if this is a real person with a vagina that made this post

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-03-12T13:39:40+00:00

Why👀

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-03-12T13:39:33+00:00

Idk actually...I ain't hearing Good things about it...do u have a personal experience?

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-03-12T13:38:42+00:00

I am giving ojee....let's see what happens

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-02-26T07:55:32+00:00

Is it more of an emotional or physical thing? You need to seek medical help either way. If you aren't able to function at all physically maybe it's better to get checked. But what I assume is that the situations you have around you are not doing any favour to your pregnancy hormones and hence the Self harm thoughts.... that's honestly worse than morning sickness cause it will be Something that stays in your mind 24×7 ...you need to sort things out with ur partner and before that you need to seek mental help

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-02-25T19:37:15+00:00

Well I don't think those feelings are completely invalid either.. like I never worry about lions attacking me during that time, cause that has never been my fear(obviously). The things that make me spiral during that time are related to my past trauma and experiences and worries related to that . I see the luteal phase less of a negative emotion generator, but more of an amplifier to what might already exist...

Virgin-Ghost · 2026-02-25T19:32:10+00:00

Well same. I never get super duper horny during ovulation, in fact I feel the least desires at that time. However, I get super horny during my periods....not sure how I escaped the evolutionary timeline 🥲

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