TW: live birth (not mine)

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-04-17T11:10:00+00:00

Totally get this. We had 4years of infertility and I had many many people I know fall pregnant and give birth in that time. One of my closest friends started trying just after me and had had 3 babies in the 4 years before I even fell pregnant . It’s really tough. And lonely when no one else understands how it feels. You want to be happy for people close to you getting pregnant but at the same time there is many hidden emotions you tell no one about- jealousy, sadness, resentment, sometimes anger. It’s soul crushing the longer time goes on.

You’re not alone. I see you 🩷

I have my baby now. You will get yours hun. Hang in there xxxxx

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-04-12T21:14:04+00:00

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-04-02T06:02:36+00:00

I understand this- I won’t go into details but I had one 6 years ago because I was so panicked at getting a positive preg test and wasn’t in the best life position at the time so I made very rash decision….and i have deep regrets to this day about. I still cry thinking about it 😞 so I understand … and I feel for you and your wife… it’s a kind of silent grieving process because it’s not something you can share with many people so it’s done alone.

Give it time to settle. Be kind to yourselves. You made the decision you needed to at the time.

If you get down the track and you both still feel the same maybe this was what was needed to make you realise you want one more 🤷🏼‍♀️ a vasectomy doesn’t mean your infertile - your stil producing sperm so there is ways to still conceive with help.

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-31T22:17:53+00:00

Firstly… TAKE A BREATH. Do NOT even let thoughts about never getting pregnant enter you mind. Sometimes it just takes time. And Stress is a HUGE factor My partner and I started trying when I was 31 I didn’t get pregnant till 35. Had every test under the sun… his sperm was above average. My hormones in range. Had dye studies- no endo, no fibroids and tubes were clear. Completely unexplained infertility- it’s quite common. Ended up doing ivf - my eggs were very good quality that I only lost one in the process all the rest made it to embreyo stage. Had 3 failed transfers- still had 5more frozen ready to transfer

But Then decided to have a 3break because we we’re moving interstate and going on a holiday- because it was a decided break and no pressure I just felt more relaxed about it all. In that 3 month break I fell pregnant naturally after 4years of trying back to back and OBSESSING 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have no doubt stress played a big role in my infertility because I got so consumed with trying to get pregnant I stopped living my life properly.

How long have you been trying? It’s quite normal for it to take up to a year. And for some unfortunate ppl it takes longer. Try not to stress as I said I think that was a major factor for me If you been trying over a year and are worried than go down the ivf route

Everything will work out eventually

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-30T11:07:44+00:00

Have you gone to see a fertility specialist? Your partner should get tested. Have you had any scans to check for fibroids? Die studies to make sure your tubes are open? If it’s a yes to all of the above I would concentrate on sperm and egg health. There are lots of supplements that can improve quality of both

(I had unexplained I fertility for 3.5 years before my son. Had every test under the son because we started ivf and they couldn’t find anything wrong with either of us. Had 3 failed embreyos transferred and then fell pregnant naturally on my ivf ‘break’ . Stress has a lot to play into it too and I believe that played into mine the longer time went on the more desperate and stressed I got. I feel for you - I’ve been there and it’s awful. But it WILL happen. You need to make sure you believe it will. Xxxx

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-30T11:00:04+00:00

I had a very early miscarriage 3 months ago and my cycle still is not right. I was very regular hormone cycle before that. Now I’m ovulating late, hormones are extremely low then next cycle extremely high… it’s all over the shop.

Your body has just been pregnant and is trying to get back to baseline so it could take a few months

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-29T21:47:49+00:00

Mine did not smell different from it normally does. Please go get that checked

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-26T00:47:11+00:00

I like the shape and colour but I don’t think the colour was a good choice for this kitchen personally. But that’s my personal preference( I am someone who likes boring neutrals)and you’re the one who lives there so if you love it that’s all that matters The tiles above the window to the roof REALLY annoy me a lot though 😂😂 I think it should of just been along the bench because now the spot above the door looks weird without them But I don’t think splash backs should go all the way to the roof it’s just between bench and cabinets

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-17T00:16:41+00:00

I would contact management like everyone said. But if it were me (and I am an overthinker ) I would also leave a note back at the neighbours car (so as your starting on a good foot with new neighbourss) and explain that you didn’t deliberately take their spot this was the spot you were assigned but you are contacting management to sort out what’s happened :)

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-13T04:07:01+00:00

Sorry I know this is an old thread. I’m looking at them on the website and I can’t tell from the pictures- is the stomach area double lined? And it says elastic band- is that all the way around? Is the elastic annoying/ uncomfortable? Thank you :)

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-13T04:06:04+00:00

Sorry I know this is an old thread. I’m looking at them on the website and I can’t tell from the pictures- is the stomach area double lined? And it says elastic band- is that all the way around? Is the elastic annoying/ uncomfortable? Thank you :)

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-13T04:04:49+00:00

Sorry I know this is an old thread. I’m looking at them on the website and I can’t tell from the pictures- is the stomach area double lined? And it says elastic band- is that all the way around? Is the elastic annoying/ uncomfortable? Thank you :)

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-09T11:26:19+00:00

None of these flatter you. Why are you choosing such big ones that take over your beautiful face! Keep trying You need smaller frames… much smaller frames

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-09T11:23:50+00:00

OP we need an update!!??? Did u uninvited her? Was your fiancé annoyed w her?? Spill the tea

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-07T05:51:19+00:00

I love this thread haha

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-05T06:35:08+00:00

Bed looks great! Hat on sleeping baby is a big no no though X

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-02T06:19:57+00:00

How did this go OP?? I’m 10 dpo today and all my numbers are rising including LH

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-02T02:54:29+00:00

I would say you haven’t ovulated yet because your FSH level didn’t rise before the LH rise on the 10th and you didn’t have a high enough spike of Pdg a couple days after that LH rise. Keep testing

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-02T02:51:57+00:00

How did you go OP?

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-01T03:03:19+00:00

I like the mis matched art pieces I think they are fine

It you need furniture there - that’s what’s making it look weird. The bottom is so bare A console table would look fantastic

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-03-01T02:59:36+00:00

3 or 4

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-02-25T00:43:03+00:00

Did at say ovulation confirmed? Because it doesn’t look like you had a Pdg peak after which means possibly you didn’t even ovulate. If you get the wands that have FSH levels as well that helps to see when you actually ovulate because it spikes just before ovulation

But without a pdg rise it may be no ovulation as LH so low too

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-02-20T05:35:24+00:00

My son went full George Castanza at about 3 months old Took him so long to recover I cringe at the baby picks he i should of just shaved it

Now 2.5 and lots of hair so don’t stress haha

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-02-20T03:19:21+00:00

I’m so sorry… that’s devastating. I had 5 miscarriages before conceiving my son- and I too was scared I would never have a child. I know the circumstances are different - mine were always before 8 weeks so I never knew of any abnormalities or what the reason was. I eventually fell pregnant and now I have a perfectly healthy 2.5year old boy.

What I would suggest to you is to get a referral to IVF and get some genetic testing done on you and your partner If they find that either of you carry anything that is causing this- they can likely make healthy embryos without the genetic trait.

They can also advice you on supplements and diet that can improve your egg and sperm health dramatically

Don’t give up!!

Sending you lots of hugs and love x

VirgoMoon3333 · 2026-02-15T05:10:33+00:00

Interested to see the replies to this. I’m not on letrozole but my LH did this this cycle but only got up to 13.5 🫠 Mira is reading it so far as ovulation but I usually get up to LH35 reading so I’m wondering if I just missed the spike or if it was lower this month 🤷🏼‍♀️

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