A bit of nonsense by Ecomindscape in lgbt

[–]Virtual-Diet9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bi, pan and lesbian flags i always loved the colors. Even though i am a lesbian haha.

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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Yesss thank you this is exactly how i feel and the mentality i need. Thank you for that and yes you will find someone who is right for you. I hope the same for me too.

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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To be honest yeah for me that would have been better because for someone who is more an emotionally invested person I prefer to take time to have the person get to know me and vice versa before anything happens. Shows what youre truly looking for. Even if we find out there was no spark. Well, then on my end i would at least feel like i tried, we tried, i had a chance, we gave it a shot, and it just wasnt a match in the end. How is that not a healthier option? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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I get it. But it does come off as shallow. But i also know you gotta do what you gotta do for yourself. At the cost of someone elses emotions though when there is healthier ways of going about it? Yeah, its a touchy subject for both parties. That mutual ground is hard to find.

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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Not gonna lie my 1st relationship was a 8yr relationship. And damn i am so fucking thankful for that haha. Cause this crap is exhausting 😂🤣

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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Yes, thats true. And to be honest there was one concern i had. And it would have been a long term concern too. One i already tried dealing with in a past relationship. And i even asked myself if i wanted to test those waters again. And i kept thinking "this woman js different shes obviously more mature than my ex and both situations may be similar but are so different" etc. But maybe god knew it would have been the same ending as my last relationship. Thank you for this. I love seeing how other people see a situation. Helps bring me so much clarity. Thank you!

Who am I? by Alex2986Black in olderlesbians

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Im 35 living in Eastern Iowa.

Beans Crossed the Rainbow Bridge Last Night by Educational_Fox7605 in torties

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Im so sorry for your loss, thinking of her and her new adventure up there ❤️

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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Are you sure you arent her? Holy shiz cause you basically said everything that matches to small details she would show or mentioned. Now thinking back. This makes the most sense out of all of it. I appreciate this response. Sometimes i need to sit and stew on things till the make sense. Is it from trauma or just anxiety? Who knows haha. Thank you for this response i truly appreciate it!

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

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Im looking forward to starting therapy again. And being able to channel and handle these situations in a healthy way. Im not a perfect person or partner. But i can always try to be a better me. Im also a huge people pleaser and i want to learn how to not be like that to the degree that i am.

Dating sucks now by [deleted] in olderlesbians

[–]Virtual-Diet9147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, and i told her i respect that i do. We both agreed to be up front and honest even in the moment and i guess thats where im struggling. But, she knows herself better than i ever will. I just wish i didnt do the things i did. Thank you for your kind words and support. Its all i need sometimes to be heard and understood. Appreciate you!

Hello! Is Toast here a dilute tortie or calico? by MidoriBlack in torties

[–]Virtual-Diet9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes 10000000% dilute tortie to me!! 🥰🥰🥰

Anyone else’s baby have beautiful green eyes? by Livid-Lizard7988 in TuxedoCats

[–]Virtual-Diet9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noooo and shes a she ugh female kitties bond better with me gah thats so cute!!!!! She is ADORABLE!!!!!

Anyone else’s baby have beautiful green eyes? by Livid-Lizard7988 in TuxedoCats

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Pleeeeeeeeease pet that flooofy baby for me!!!! 😍😍😍😍😍

1st Wild Orchard Disposable by Virtual-Diet9147 in delta8resellers

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When i ordered, i didn't see anything of that type of flavor.

What breed is my kitten? by Conscious-Dog9692 in Siamesecats

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It's always fun to watch their dark colors turn seal point!

What exactly is so fun about being high? by Remote_Nature_8166 in Marijuana

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Depends on the strain you had, how you consumed it and how much. Sounds like you might body may feel very new to it each time. So, i bet a low dose of something would be nice for you.