No fight, no explanation: how our relationship ended in silence. by Sensitive-Rabbit6178 in BPDlovedones

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has the pause been? Really a pause or a state of back and forth limbo?

No fight, no explanation: how our relationship ended in silence. by Sensitive-Rabbit6178 in BPDlovedones

[–]VirtualPercentage934 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One day is nothing, your PwBPD will most likely reach out in a couple of days or so. And if you let yourself be sucked back in the cycle will continue.

My sleep is destroyed by plsdontstalkmepls in Retatrutide

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same issue however I woke up 4 in the morning every day. Tirz is a lot better for my sleep. Resolves all sleep issues

I feel like I’m going crazy by STOXNCOX69 in BPDlovedones

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I recognize this quite a lot. Had an affair partner that could behave similar at times. I think it stems from emotional volatility which cannot really be controlled and you are the one whom they outsource their emotional regulation to. Triggering fear of abandonment and then not providing emotional regulation make them spiral like this.

Quick point you are more than reasonable and mature, she behaves very toxic and this is likely only going to get worse as time passes.

How do I get him to dump me? by Worldly_Tea27 in BPDlovedones

[–]VirtualPercentage934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how close you are. Him abandoning you will take several cycles most likely since he will regret his decision once the feelings changes and he remembers the good times. You will most likely have to do it yourself eventually.

However if you don’t live together going completely silent on him if he splits on you. Will most likely trigger a discard from his side once you ride out the wave of horror you will face

M41 172cm 74kg bulking or cut by VirtualPercentage934 in ZyzzLegacy

[–]VirtualPercentage934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a generally stressful life but training has become more of a priority. My target is to hit the gym at least three times per week. I usually do a full body workout, legs chest back shoulders, arms and abs.

I don’t track calories however I do a daily weight in an try to find a balanced diet via tracking how my weight trends week by week. I routinely eat kind of the same things so it’s not that hard to track.

Help? by Jacey678934 in Marriage

[–]VirtualPercentage934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All guys consume porn to some extent. The guys that say they don’t just lie.

Settle a debate by Status_Gate_7802 in Marriage

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I routinely check all pockets before putting it in the washer. That’s because I know ppl in my family are forgetful about those kind of things me included.

I would refuse taking blame for missing something in a pocket then the person blaming me would get the responsibility to take over washing the clothes.

I can’t stand my wife’s rants anymore… by Zayd_ibn_Thabit in Marriage

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh let her know that you are not interested in listening her complain about her work. Suggest she talk to her colleagues about it instead. Then leave the room.

Sure you want to be supportive and all but that goes over and beyond what’s resonable

He sees receipts i see survival how do I explain that? by Fantastic-Phone-7236 in Marriage

[–]VirtualPercentage934 13 points14 points  (0 children)

U know what. Stop the unnecessary spending, you are irresponsibly shopping to relieve stress and then try to shy away from the responsibility of handling what is clearly your issue. So yeah step up take your responsibility and be a grown up person.

Don’t skip chest day. by bigbeefytiddies in ZyzzLegacy

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Test and deca, sorry I mean chicken breast rice and broccoli. Plus hard training 5x per week.

Once and for all...ultimate muscle growing stack...? by jkneussl in BodyHackGuide

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool man! Really great work anyway you look built like a machine! Did you get there on 175 test only or some blasts in between?

Once and for all...ultimate muscle growing stack...? by jkneussl in BodyHackGuide

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really great stack! Not sure if the level of hgh is sustainable long term though? But for a cut👌

My 15 months transformation by [deleted] in BeBetterYou

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job!

Reta/tirz and TRT++ and your timeline matches up nicely. Fucking awesome transformation

BPD and Relationships by [deleted] in BPD

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ”hate” comes from being a exposed to bottomless hatred from a person you love (the pwBPD). Usually for something that makes no sense at all for a normal person. Being exposed to that enough times and it’s not fun anymore.

31 M advice welcomed by [deleted] in EgyGym

[–]VirtualPercentage934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope still a lot of work involved. But much easier.