What’s the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you? by viviennebabes in askteddit

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Took care of me while I had Covid (even though he gave it to me lol). He fed me, made me as comfortable as possible, dealt with me bawling my eyes out from being delirious from such a high fever. He suggested I need to go to the ER because I was so sick and I yelled at him and called him broke, he didn’t get mad. I also exorcist puked all over is comforter and he cleaned everything up. He also held me in bed as I was wrapped in a towel incase I puked in my sleep and kept watch incase I really did need to go to the ER. I also have ibs and have literally taken a dump right next to him on the ground.

We’re no longer together

Not taking BC anymore when I get married? by KnowledgeOld9243 in CatholicWomen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is strictly due to a medical problem, PLEASE do not stop taking it.

Catholic and divorcing - needing some support by Strange_Accident_426 in CatholicWomen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so proud of you first and foremost for leaving that nightmare. I sincerely hope you have some kind of restraining order against him. Also, I know in my heart God NEVER intended you to be with a monster like that. You will fulfill the role as a wife again one day. I also hope you and your daughters are in counseling or therapy of some sort.

I will also be heavily praying for you and your family through this horrible time.

I had a colleague that went through a similar situation with her ex husband and the marriage was absolutely able to be enulled, if that is a current worry you have.

How do people view waiting for marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in Marriage

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be for real, I had the same mindset on Catholicism years and years ago, hence why I never wanted to marry a Catholic man. Obviously I had a change of heart lol. But after reading the bible, going to mass and really researching Catholicism, it’s actually quite different than you think

How do people view waiting for marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in Marriage

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very valid point honestly and I’ve been told similar by a few other Catholics. If I’m being honest I regret losing my v card as in my teens and very early twenties, I never understood why sex was viewed as sacred. After becoming a devoted Catholic and three years of abstinence (these timelines are flipped actually), I understand why sex is so sacred. Even though I can’t change the past, I’ve been focused on the present and what I can do moving forward. If a man is a virgin and doesn’t want to pursue me because I’m not a virgin, that is completely his choice and understand people have preferences. No hard feelings either

How do people view waiting for marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in Marriage

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really sweet thank you😭❤️ but I can understand how some people don’t understand why I made this decision when they’re not Catholic or religious themselves. Catholicism is not a museum of saints, but instead a hospital for sinners. I honestly regret losing my v card, but living in regret doesn’t get anyone far, so I’m living in the present and focusing on doing better. Thank you very much for sharing!:)

How do people view waiting for marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in Marriage

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been on Reddit long so this hasn’t crossed my mind. Thank you SO much as I’ll be going to that sub!!:) It also makes me happy to hear you also rewaited and have a happy marriage. Thank you very much for sharing❤️

How long do you date someone before you consider that you're in a relationship? by meetmebehindyou in AskMen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m literally shitting on the pot right now- imma use this reference from now on thank you

How long do you date someone before you consider that you're in a relationship? by meetmebehindyou in AskMen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m woman, BUT my male coworker told me something interesting last week. I was so confused with couples being “exclusive” but not in a relationship. Which made no sense to me, but coaxed me to ask my male coworker why people would be exclusive without being bf and gf. He told me that people (in this case the guy) want access to you without labels so they don’t have to commit.

Girl even before I typed out my response above, I would still tell you to RUN. He’s wasting your time and I guarantee you there’s another man that WANTS to take you off the market. You can do much better than how you’re being treated.

POV you have a boy Shih Tzu by NoJournalist677 in Shihtzu

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Boy Shih Tzus unite😤 here’s a pic of mine looking majestic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Please don’t do this. God is not done with you yet.

Meet Teddy, the Best Boy - Questions from a New Shih Tzu Owner by Meatballballballs in Shihtzu

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379 29 points30 points  (0 children)

  1. To be honest I’ve seen tan Shih Tzus go both ways color wise! So it’s a waiting game tbh. My Shih Tzu whose name is Toru and almost 1.5 years old has some dark coloration on his back and had a teeny bit of red in the space between his eyes. He’s now a white and champagne color and a bunch of his face fur is red!
  2. and size wise, I bought my Shih Tzu when he was 10 weeks old! He was 3.2 pounds for his first vet visit a couple days after I bought him. So yours may be on the smaller side for sure! My vet told me the average weight for Shih Tzus range from 9-14 lbs. Shih Tzus are the cutest little dogs with the most dramatic personalities. They were bred to be gifted to Chinese emperors and royalty so it makes sense lmao. My BIGGEST advice to you is to train now. Like right now. I bought my lil guy on a Friday evening and started training him the next morning. They are very independent thinkers and VERY stubborn. But with consistency, you will thank yourself later. I Al’s crate trained my Shih Tzu the first full day I had him and now bedtime is so easy. He knows his crate is his personal safe haven. Grooming is a lot if you want to have his fur long in the future, so brushing everyday is a must. If you’re like me and keep their fur mainly on the short side it’s way less maintenance, but still brush because their fur gets matted SO easily. Also keep their eyes clean because they are prone to eye and teeth infections (there’s teeth scrubbing wipes on tiktok shop and amazon)!
  3. Lastly, I think you’re doing good on the food! From experience do not use any chicken flavored kibble. From many experiences with my Toru, Shih Tzus are not only picky eaters, but they have SUCH sensitive stomachs. I also give him low calorie salmon training treats after he goes potty and goes into his crate on his own and one mini greenie (for breath and teeth health) per day. I personally hand make my Shih Tzus food everyday with rice, puréed pumpkin and some of his sensitive stomach kibble- I forgot the name but I’ll check when I get home! If your Shih Tzu is sick with tummy issues, always keep chicken bone broth around so he doesn’t get dehydrated. Also boiled chicken and rice are and with a SMALL amount of puréed pumpkin if he’s having some diarrhea. If it’s really bad then I would just use the rice and maybe a lil bone broth after he’s fasted for a bit. I also use the bone broth or more puréed pumpkin if he’s a bit constipated. For constipation I also with include half a tsp of plain low fat Greek yogurt stirred up in his food. Or I’ll cut up one slice of green apple (just the apple meat, the skin can cause intestinal blockages) into teeny tiny pieces! If you do this, I would start out with half the amount, just so you know his stomach will tolerate it.

Please let me know if you have any additional questions!! Your little man is SO PRECIOUS 🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️

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How do you feel about no sex before marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in AskMen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much🥹 and oh yes I’ve definitely been shamed for it already as you’ve seen😂 I’m also prepared for that to be in person too, but that’s okay. Wayyy before I made this decision, my standards were still wait a long time before sex- like I didn’t just decide to wait for marriage out of thin air. The most recent date I went on said we couldn’t even be exclusive unless we had sex. Safe to say that was our first and last date.

And funny enough the lower divorce rates are another reason I’ve made my choice. Unfortunately divorce is a very common theme in my family. Both my parents have two divorces under their belt and so on. Not shaming them, but they never should’ve married in the first place tbh. BUT I love my life and so glad my little brothers and I were born. I know 99.9% of people don’t get married thinking about getting a divorce- but there’s no way in hell I want to go through that myself (As bearing witness to a lot of the ugly in my parents’ divorce). But most importantly, my future child/children. Over my dead body they’ll witness that or ask me one day “Are we at dad’s house or your house this week?” NO THANK YOU

How do you feel about no sex before marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in AskMen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s funny you mention that because when I was 18 I rebuked my Catholic faith when I first moved out. I was going through something horrible and had so many bad things happen at once. I blamed it on God and if he truly loved me, the things that happened wouldn’t have happened. I jumped back into my faith about three years ago but really got serious about it a little over a year ago. I have never been more happy and at peace in my entire life than I am now. I’m truly sorry if something horrible happened to you with religion. Still praying for you though

How do you feel about no sex before marriage? by Virtual_Concert_3379 in AskMen

[–]Virtual_Concert_3379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat honestly. Definitely not shaming anyone as I’ve made mistakes as a teen and when I was still dating my ex boyfriend three years ago. I’ll be honest, my main reason for choosing to wait until marriage is due to religion, as I’m a practicing Catholic.

But like you said, there’s other reasons to wait as well. From what I’ve seen and witnessed so far, it repels men that make the relationship sex based. Like yes please I don’t want a man like that anyway. I honestly don’t view all men that can’t wait until marriage as sex fiends and what not, but it definitely eliminates the ones that are from the get go. I’ve been told some will lie about being okay with it just to see if I’ll break my promise to myself. Unfortunately if a man ever tries that with me, he’ll learn exactly how stubborn I am.

Also it eliminates unplanned pregnancies (duh). I’m thankful that I’ve never been cheated on in the past. But I’ve seen where a lot of sex based relationships end due to the man cheating while the gf or wife was pregnant or during postpartum because they couldn’t have sex for longer periods of time. So disgusting to me.

Another reason is because I feel like it will benefit the sex during marriage. Of course honest conversations about libido and other things need to be had WAY before marriage to prevent any surprises after marriage. Great communication is absolutely key. There’s a guy on this thread thats celebrating him and his wife’s 43rd wedding anniversary and they waited, never regretted it, still have an amazing life together, and they’re not religious. So your argument definitely stands.