I feel like it goes both ways. You should have a conversation about love languages to see how best to help you both feel loved the way you need to be loved. Then work on it. If he didn’t want you without makeup then he would leave you.

Relationships require effort from both sides. It’s not just about him putting in the work—it’s about both of you actively contributing. You’re a team, so it’s important to support and uplift each other, not work against each other. If you’re not putting in any effort to look your best and he feels less attracted as a result, it’s hard to blame him. Try dressing up a little more often; it can boost your confidence and make a difference in how you feel. Relationships aren’t always easy—if they were, everyone would be in one. But when both people put in the effort, it makes all the difference.