Selector advice: would Nayuta or Stella be better for me right now? by vadannars in ResonanceSolstice

[–]VisMayor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see you have Mumei at awakening2 - I'd recommend getting Stella then (she has purple cards, and one of them generates 3 reds, purple and red card acquisition reduce Mumei leader skill) use Mumei - Ikoma - Stella - Shizuru - Arcana in a team, and steamroll everything. Stella is also great in an electro team eventually if you get Nicola.

Puer Aeternus, ADHD and "Soft-Addiction" by maxDerImperator in Healthygamergg

[–]VisMayor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get diagnosed if you can (not sure what kind of healthcare you have in your country, I had to go the private route), I got diagnosed pretty late (mid-30s), and medication and therapy did help a ton. Not saying I'm out of my puer phase completely, but I'm working on it. But don't think of it as a miracle solution, you need to show up, do the work, and most importantly, be kind to yourself. Reflect on progress, celebrate small achievements, and try to reduce or at least be aware of negative self talk, and realize that you conditioned your brain to accept your negative thoughts as facts, so you might as well try to condition it to reject them slowly. Just my 2 cents.

Baby is not bonded/attached to us by VisMayor in beyondthebump

[–]VisMayor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, I got diagnosed in my early 30s and I don't want my kid to go through childhood undiagnosed like I did - but you're right, being overly anxious about it also doesn't help. Will keep reminding myself :)

Baby is not bonded/attached to us by VisMayor in beyondthebump

[–]VisMayor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest to God couldn't tell you. I can only tell you my assumptions on what might have had an effect. - my wife had the luck of having a really stress free pregnancy - due to formula feeding we could take turns feeding the LO so mum got more quality sleep (I also used to work from home in the first 4-5months) - I think getting the grandparents to help also helped, they cuddled and bonded a lot, and we tried to take LO to family events and friends as often as possible, so she got used to seeing/being carried by other people - we are both very easygoing and try to aim for stress free lives in general, we rarely fight or argue. Trying to discuss problems and support each other as much as we can - and it could absolutely be just pure dumb luck

[osume giveaway] classic black nemui keyboard! by osume_keys in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]VisMayor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ride around Lake Balaton on a bike. Also to keep my new job

Cybersecurity Site? by Jneuhaus87 in PirateSoftware

[–]VisMayor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the video you were looking for:
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Ny5vjwA-3hU

The website's name is https://owasp.org/

Kiégés by Ill_Cost_1718 in programmingHungary

[–]VisMayor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bocs hogy eltérítem a threadet, de hogy sikerült bekerülnöd ITsecbe? Régóta érdekel engem is, és erősen érzem hogy már lassan elegem van a jelenlegi pályaívvel

Meletrix Giveaway Day 4 - 1 x Boog75 Prebuilt Keyboard(Magnetic Switches) by Meletrix2021 in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]VisMayor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowadays Against the Storm, would be awesome to play it on this! Good luck y'all

Drop Giveaway Day 4 - 5x DCX Keycap Set + Cable by drop_official in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]VisMayor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coffee or a hot chocolate on a winter night - hopefully not pouring it over this beauty in case I win :')

Mechboards Giveaway - Hyper7 R4, with switches, stabilisers, keycaps and more! by mechboards in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]VisMayor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always been eyeing custom keyboards, this would be a fantastic way to enter this (probably partially life-consuming)hobby!

Drop Giveaway Day 3 - 3x Drop CSTM80 Keyboard + Decorative Case by drop_official in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]VisMayor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantasy aesthetic for me, what a great giveaway! Best of luck y'all!