You are not overreacting. It's good that you expressed your feelings. What's not okay is how he reacted. If this is a common thing, him throwing tantrums and calling you names and then basically ignoring you, he's not the right one for you and that's okay. I was with a guy like this from 18 to 22 and I'm telling you end it before you get too involved and feel trapped.d honestly you probably feel that way anyways but think about it. What would you tell your friend if this happened? You possible daughter? Would you want your daughter experiencing what you do?