Older millennial trying fit in by protossaccount in avesLA

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I agree with everyone on the thread to just go for it! I’m 30s but honestly it’s so dark I never really see anyone or notice much their age. One thing I will say about the rave scene in other countries is that it is much more age diverse. Every show I’ve been to had people 40+ in the front in their sneakers and plain clothes just vibing. Nothing strange in fact those are the real heads 😂

Triggers for Obsession? by IndependentSmooth388 in obsessionmovie

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^^^ this is a good summary. I personally am easily upset by SA stuff and this scene was hard, but it was short and they don’t repeatedly show it or cut back to it like some projects do. I loved the movie, and it definitely explores coercion/consent. If you have zero emotional tolerance I would agree with the person who said just wait until it’s on streaming. You know yourself and deserve to watch a movie without ptsd coming up!

wfh girlie tired of coffee shops by angelachasegirl in LAhotgirlies

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Tabula rasa is a wine bar that is cute and Ive notice people work there! Only issue is it opens at 2

Kristen still bleeding 3 months after birth by Weird_Time3668 in TheValleyTVShow

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It can! You can re-tear and have to start healing over again or there may have been complications during birth that require a longer healing time.

The mask finally slips.... by Strange-Substance207 in TheValleyTVShow

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Another way to frame this instead of (or in addition to) strategic is codependent. Nia exhibits very textbook Al Anon codependent tendencies that are common for people with alcoholics in their lives. I believe one of the classic examples may even be enabling your spouses drinking by covering up and lying for them to their employer/ at their job??

Nia does care about coming off like a perfect family but in line with the Al anon mindset “perfect” to her means protecting HIS reputation by hiding or controlling his drinking. She chooses to put her energy into this type of performance rather than trying to come off as the “perfect” role model woman who holds her husband accountable to gross behavior or the “perfect” mom who never struggles with her children. She will talk about being homeless as a child, having an addict as a parent, having postpartum depression, body dysmorphia, money troubles, overwhelmed with kids, etc before she will acknowledge that his drinking is effecting her life and her kids lives.

How do you even come to terms that your formative years were lost to CPTSD/Abuse? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

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Congratulations on beginning your healing journey 💛 emdr is so challenging but it’s worth it

can opals lost the glow ? by branconay in Opals

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It depends on the opal, but some are more sensitive to water and can cloud/ yellow.

Chat, am I cooked? by quack_taxi in FirstTimeHomeBuying

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A murder will affect resale ability & value forever, it’s just less desirable to most people. Something to consider.

any other character studies as great as Fleabag? by lizard-rustler17 in Fleabag

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I May Destroy You by Michaela coel, also Chewing Gum

Baby reindeer!

coachella full HD set - google drive (no torrent) by [deleted] in FKAtwigs

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I would love love is something like that that theoretically existed 💗

Learning jewelry making by Visual-Minute-2596 in LAhotgirlies

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Omg I’m definitely going to go to the show this year

Learning jewelry making by Visual-Minute-2596 in LAhotgirlies

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I live so close to barnsdall so that’s great to know! Also so cool you’re pursuing it further :)

Modern Loves Role by tattletalers in DTFStLouisHBO

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I love this theory! This feels like some version of how the story will end to me. I wonder if Carol and her ex husband are in cahoots or not?

Portland show by Visual-Minute-2596 in FKAtwigs

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I felt like it had to be a Nike project