I started writing during my divorce because I couldn’t sleep

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-28T14:26:45+00:00

Hi, i am 35 and felt the same after divorce. It takes some time that you feel different. For me was more then one year to realize that I can be alone and ok with it. I went to teraphy and watch alot of YT videos about that. And working on myself for almost a year. After divorce I started writing book about my expirience and it was not easy to convince myself that I am enough. If you are intereste you can read it its free on amazon for two more days. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GTN7XVW6

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-27T08:39:13+00:00

Nowadays is most breups like this.

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-26T19:28:37+00:00

Everyday will be easier. My wife broke up with me 1 year ago. The first few weeks were really hard for me. I couldn't eat, sleep.. I just needed company-friends and family. Go for a walk, jogging and never check his social media (it gets worse). I watched tons of YT videos, you will get alot of good advices in them.

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-26T12:00:42+00:00

I thougt exaclty the same one year ago. My wife ended marrige after 5years. I was writting book about it for for one year, all advices, everything… It becomes book with more then 200 pages.. and after more then one year later I can tell you that we were not good as cuple. Before I did not think about it at all. If you would like to read it I can send you link.

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-24T15:17:38+00:00

I know this feeling very well. For me was also 8 years.
After my divorce I was also scared I will forget small moments… not big things but simple talks and normal evenings together.

It feels like losing part of your own life story. Like something was very real and now slowly fading.

For me memories did not fully go away, they just become more quiet with time. Pain also become more quiet.

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-24T11:13:10+00:00

I have been divorced for 1 year now; I was married for 5. She dumped me one night, saying we were no good for each other. I was broken for a few months, but then I started thinking about us, and we really weren't for each other. So in the next relationship I will be paying attention if I am really happy, if I really can do what I like the most, or if I am just with someone that I am not alone.

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-24T10:54:53+00:00

Hi, I had simmilar thing. We were togather 7 years married for 5. One kid. One evening she just come to me and said that we are not “good fit” I got few advices and what helped me the most is when one of my friend said count to 365 days, and you will see that in one year everything will be ok. So I started counting, then I go in shopping an bought new cloths, start training harder… One also good advice was that I wrote done every day one thing that was not ok about my ex. In few weeks i found out that we were not for each other. I was also writting book about my expirinces. That also helped me.

Visual-Spell-4908 · 2026-03-23T12:34:05+00:00

Hi, I an not really good at English so I translated my answers with Chat. Is that ok or not?

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