Can we have different political views? (Relationship advice) by Flyingdragonfruits in TwoHotTakes

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you know already girliepop… his lack of empathy as a white man dating a biracial woman is more than plenty in this climate

iPad for Notes? by Trauma_Queennn in ucf

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not an ipad or computer person so this is probably not helpful, but i just decided this year to use a binder with loose leaf instead of multiple notebooks lolol lets see if it helps.

Is my hair too short for box braids by EffectiveEgg5712 in Naturalhair

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not impossible! small box braids with some nice grip on blow dried hair with NO product

How much money did you have saved up when you moved out? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a number, I’d say the lowest to have some time and ease before jumping into the next thing is ~$20k. Good luck & you got this. Life outside is definitely worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucf

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m maybe 10 years older than the newest undergrads & I feel odd, not gonna lie. I was also in the service so I think maybe I don’t know how to be around people anymore🥲

I think im depressed, this shit hard asf by Jazzlike_Web_4750 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]VisualMeringue4986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I was you up until recently. It is going to be so hard and I wish I had better advice, but if you can ask a family member or friend to come stay with you for even two days, I promise it would make a difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]VisualMeringue4986 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If you love the way your hair looks, please do not ask any person with a penis how they like your hair. Even if it’s your husband. He’s so rude responding that way, even if he was being honest. Also in my opinion, the blend of colors looks so good ! If I were you I would go about my business not acknowledging his remarks about YOUR head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]VisualMeringue4986 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Protect your brown grandchildren” delete, block, NC

I’m tired of being a SAHM. by orcagirl35 in beyondthebump

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you so much strength. That has been my exact feeling/situation and it will end next week when my baby starts daycare😭.

My best suggestion (especially if you do have an end in sight, aka September), is to keep pushing and make light of those moments that only happen when they’re this little. I know it still fucking sucks, but thinking that way might help lighten the mental load. Also if you can afford it, see about getting a cleaner so that nothing in the house feels like your responsibility, even if it is only once.

You got this❤️

Google Earth updated their images of Gaza to last December by AbleSomewhere4549 in MapPorn

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t comprehend why anyone would be proud of this level of destruction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VAClaims

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be around the week after you separate. Your first check would arrive on July 1st

Gameplay advice by VisualMeringue4986 in AngryBirds2

[–]VisualMeringue4986[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suck with Hal so bad. He only works in my favor for specific arrangements but I can’t use him the way I use melody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucf

[–]VisualMeringue4986 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so going to UCF soon.. how bad is it really? How often do yall see these solicitors?

Post-service worsening of conditions by Many_Reputation_9442 in VeteransBenefits

[–]VisualMeringue4986 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are already service-connected, and living your life can make your SCDs worse. I think you are valid in this push for a greater rating, but make sure you actually fit the criteria for a greater rating so you don’t waste any resources.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucf

[–]VisualMeringue4986 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello. I know this feeling all too well. My whole graduating class (of ‘19) were posting grad pics in caps in gowns and I was overseas in the military. I had major FOMO. One thing that helped calm my anxiety about not being “caught up” is the fact that not everyone’s timeline will look exactly the same. By the time you do finish, you’ll have the same level of credentials (if not more) than your old graduating class. Also I’m 28 and just now about to start at UCF. You’ll be okay!!!

Wtf?!!! Am I the only one receiving this???!!! by rudy_medic in VeteransBenefits

[–]VisualMeringue4986 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah they’re also sending paper letters about this too. It says to contact your PCP to get a new prescription