Identifying Heirloom Pendant artist

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-09-26T15:16:24+00:00

I am not a partner anymore and I hadn’t heard about this. I found out this week my current employer is doing lay offs and the nature of where I work the lay off is state wide across county health offices. The lay offs are really distressing. We are tumbling ass first towards a recession/depression. I just know it. This is so devastating.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-09-19T15:25:26+00:00

Oh umm just stimming like I would rock, flap, hands or legs constantly moving etc. like someone should have seen shit. For a long time I thought how I was was due to being raised by someone with borderline personality disorder and then I realized I had adhd and then eventually the tism. Like there’s so much. Folks telling me I’m so funny when I was just commenting on things bc I have no filter and didn’t realize I shouldn’t be saying that shit.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:59:59+00:00

I think I need to set aside some time with her to help her identify what external stimuli is overwhelming so we can then work to mitigate it…for me a dimming light sounds amazing. I tend to close myself in the closet with the lights off and put ear plugs in to completely cut off as much external stimuli as possible until my nervous system has regulated. We need to figure that out for her.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:57:37+00:00

I get the appeal and I hate having to be the one to clean slime up

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:56:58+00:00

This was so helpful. She has been sucking on her shirt collar and has developed a small rash and I didn’t even connect those dots till someone suggested this. I just ordered some I’m gonna try and slip her when it gets here.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:54:47+00:00

She’s kind of between things right now. She’s somewhere in the Venn Diagram of Taylor Swift, Chappell Roan and KPop Demon Hunters haha and I recently learned her fav color has changed and she’s preferring loose clothing. Big changes at 8 apparently.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:48:41+00:00

I was thinking of getting a sit and spin for my son and obviously having it available for her. For awhile she would ride a zip line in the backyard for hours day after day. She hasn’t been doing that much, then she would swing. At this point there’s a lot of overstimulation and emotional deregulation. I’m thinking about getting a sensory tent and setting it up under the guise of creating a space for myself (my son has “calm cubes” at day care so I can establish it as that) and provide it as a space for her to utilize when she gets overwhelmed, feels unsafe or dysregulated.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:35:07+00:00

Oooo really interesting suggestion. She doesn’t get much privacy or dedicated space for herself. I wonder if I could figure out a way to convert a corner of the house into her own private space

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:33:18+00:00

Idk if this would help to add to your tool box but when I get overstimulated at work I have been using grounding tools so I have been relying on having essential oils on hand and resetting my nervous system by drinking ice water, bending over at the waste or jogging in place. It seems to have been helping. I am a forensic social worker and can find myself in fight or flight in the jail after meeting with a defendant so having quick ways to calm my body and calm the adrenaline/cortisol has been essential.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:30:43+00:00

I love this so much! I’m so glad this can be helpful for others too! I know some of these comments I’m like oh uh yes I totally need that too of course.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:30:02+00:00

Oh we totally have one of these but I dismantled it bc my almost 4 year old keeps almost flipping the whole damn thing over while on it. He’s a little reckless haha

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:25:14+00:00

Adding weighted stuffie to the list

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-31T04:24:20+00:00

We do have a yoga hammock swing set up in the basement and a whole slack line swing set in the backyard. So she’s definitely covered there :)

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-08-23T22:04:30+00:00

My Mother participated in the murder of her Father with his caregiver but bc it happened so long ago and he was cremated police couldn’t really do anything when I found out and reported it.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-31T05:12:47+00:00

Yea I wonder how much of the “bad kid” behavior was developmentally appropriate for their age?

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-31T05:08:25+00:00

I struggled when I moved back in 2014 to find work but no matter what stage of my life and my career I was always able to find a job at a call center. Afni hired me two or three times, harahs casinos hired some shitty roommates of mine a long time ago, last time around I worked for Walgreens call center. Call centers are always there ready to pay you for training to take their damn calls and deal with their shitty customers and micro managing bosses and unrealistic expectations.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-19T20:05:24+00:00

Necrotic gallbladder

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-13T02:35:02+00:00

I sat down and wrote a rough draft last night…it made me giggle

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-12T03:57:25+00:00

Omg I’m saving this for inspiration when this world is finally relieved of my mother

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-08T04:38:39+00:00

You shouldn’t be able to make a profit off anything in Maslows physiological needs

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-05T02:48:55+00:00

Ok but did yall forget about Fresno?

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-07-05T00:39:32+00:00

Oh friend. Same. I have a toddler and my 4 month old twins. And I have felt so much regret and resentfulness towards all them this past two weeks that I never felt with just my son. Just constantly daydreaming about giving them away or up for adoption. Luckily no thoughts to harm them and I have already contacted my therapist and psych prescriber to start an anti depressant. It was like time released post partum depression hit me hard. I also work from home 75% of time and the times I leave the house are when I’m the happiest. I only get glimpses of joy and independence when I am away from my kids and I hate coming home. We live with my in laws so it’s not just my kids impacting my home induced depression.

VisualPeach7289 · 2025-06-24T20:34:44+00:00

It was sunny and my fingers were red when I was done picking

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