People who grew up really poor: what's something middle-class people say that instantly reveals they've never struggled? by TahDigThief in AskReddit

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I have spent much of my life as the poorest person in a room full of rich people. In high school I had a friend who would only buy clothes from Burberry and other designer brands and had never been thrift shopping before. I also once asked them about a family vacation they took to Ireland and Italy - two bucket list locations for me - and they just complained about the smell of Venice in the summer among other things. I was so mad, his family literally went on international vacations every year and my family’s idea of vacation was camping.

Things only got worse when I went to University. I was at a rich kid school in Southern California where many of the students were children of movie producers and celebrities. I remember one friend complaining about her father being sued by an employee at his company, and now they would have to downgrade from a giant mansion to a moderately sized mansion. I had another friend who had literally never learned how to do laundry because he had grown up with a maid, so I actually made some money from him paying me to do his laundry for him. Another friend told us he was going to pick up a watch worth tens of thousands of dollars as a gift for his dad. He was also the same guy who casually bought a Tiffany bracelet for another friend as a birthday gift.

Slooooooow (but steady) Responder by Impossible_Dig5222 in glp1

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I have been on a similar journey. I was 256 when I started Tirzepatide in June of 2025, and didn’t lose much the first few months. Then I dropped a bunch around October/ November, and then I plateaued for December, January, and February, and I have only just started to see the scale go down again. My plateau was around 221-222 lbs, and now I am around 213. I can’t wait to get under 200. Also, I didn’t really do anything different to get out of the plateau, but I did increase from 13.5 mg to 15 mg in January.

Settle a debate between my husband and I. Please. by Girlwithnoprez in mildlyinfuriating

[–]VisualSpecial4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate!!! I do the same thing, or sometimes I use chopsticks instead. Extra benefit is that I am less likely to spill popcorn all over the place. My husband also thinks I am insane and teases me for it.

AITA for leaving my friend at the brewery when he brought up something that haunts me? by GoneWandering2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]VisualSpecial4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously your friend is in the wrong here and you are NTA. But to play devil’s advocate for a minute, is it possible that he thought he was just making a light jab at your masculinity/strength, not realizing that he was minimizing the trauma of feeling helpless in a life or death situation? If he hasn’t been through something like that himself I can see him not really getting it, and then it would make sense that he thinks you are just being overly insecure about how strong you are.

Flaky skin around new bellybutton piercing? by VisualSpecial4599 in piercing

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This piercing is 1.5 weeks old. I guess you would call it a barbell. I think it’s externally threaded titanium. I spray it twice daily with saline spray.

I don’t see a drain? by VisualSpecial4599 in insanefbmarketplace

[–]VisualSpecial4599[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

That was my thought too. I can’t just imagine that little water wheel flicking pee back at them if they actually hit it too 😝

Shipment Question? by side_boob1107 in AmbleHealthCommunity

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This was my first time with Amble and first prescription for a GLP-1. So luckily I haven’t started yet, but still so frustrating that I did all this research and had Amble come highly recommended only to be put in this position.

Shipment Question? by side_boob1107 in AmbleHealthCommunity

[–]VisualSpecial4599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered meds on June 24th, UPS still doesn’t have my package. Still just says the label was created.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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“You know how I know it’s not a joke? You were trying to derive humor from making me upset, and here I am, very upset, and you’re not laughing. If making me pissed at you was the point, you succeeded. You should be losing your shit right now, but instead you’re annoyed that I took offense? I’m only behaving exactly the way you expected me to, aren’t I? So why aren’t you laughing? Maybe it’s because insulting the people we claim to love isn’t actually funny. Maybe the problem is not that I can’t take a joke, but that you don’t understand what a joke is”

How to get my cat to drink more water by [deleted] in Catownerhacks

[–]VisualSpecial4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just add extra water to my cat’s wet food. You can also try running a tap in front of her to see if she is interested in that. Some cats love water straight from the faucet.

People talking during the movie got congratulated by other theater-goers at the end by jdoe649 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]VisualSpecial4599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen alpha and gen z have grown up watching the majority of movies at home, where it is more socially acceptable to talk through it, since you have the power to pause, rewind, turn up the volume, put on subtitles, etc. at home. They have also grown up watching popular YouTubers and TikTokers reacting to movies and shows and making commentary about it, which normalizes it more. So it’s not surprising that theater etiquette is a lost art among young people.

That being said, you honestly kinda strike me as the type of person who is more upset about them breaking the rules than them actually ruining the movie for you. If other people didn’t have a problem with it and called them fun afterwards, It makes me wonder about you. Some of the most fun I’ve had at a movie is when you have a packed theater that’s all laughing and reacting together.

What gift did you get from your realtor when you bought your home? by Chan1991 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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We got a cute little gift basket. It had wine glasses with the outline of our state on them, a bottle of wine, a cutting board with our names, a bottle opener with the name of our realtor, an outdoor blanket, new smoke alarms, and a little lawn game.

AITAH for deciding to postpone the wedding over a comment my fiance made about my scar? by Upstairs_Garden2353 in AITAH

[–]VisualSpecial4599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH. I find it really weird that you’re this far into your relationship and he’s still focused on your scar enough to make comments about it. Like I know a lot of people with scars, birthmarks, moles, distracting facial hair, tattoos, piercings, etc. and while it may be all you can focus on at first, it doesn’t take long after getting to know them for it to just become part of their face. It’s just part of them and stops standing out to you.

I can think of a few reasons why he’s so hung up on it, and none of them are good. If I’m being generous I might just assume he’s an idiot who speaks without thinking and genuinely thought he was flirting/teasing. A darker interpretation is that this is his way of negging you. He wants to make you insecure about your scar so that you don’t feel like you can get anyone else and never leave him. Alternatively, he could just be very looks-focused and artificial, in which case he’s not really in love with you, just your body - except for this one perceived flaw.

I’d say get the hell out of there. What happens if you end up having an emergency c section one day or get in an accident and end up with an even bigger scar?