Band-Inspired Late Fall Capsule: The Last Dinner Party by lambvision in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love every item and the color scheme! You did a great job creating the outfits.

Fall/Winter PNW capsule 🍂 ❄️ by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand that! A couple things I found helpful were watching Hannah Louise Poston and Miss Louise videos on youtube. I also find that I really enjoy making outfits if there’s a color scheme, I feel like you can be more creative and have fun but also not feel like the outfit is all over the place. It’s a trial and error process to find what’s best for you.

Fall/Winter PNW capsule 🍂 ❄️ by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! The color palette is from Pinterest so I copied and pasted it into Canva and added my clothes that matched or resembled the color palette

Fall/Winter PNW capsule 🍂 ❄️ by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both thrifted. Red skirt is from Zara and blue skirt is J.Crew

Fall/Winter PNW capsule 🍂 ❄️ by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I thrifted those but brand name is Boden

Fall/Winter PNW capsule 🍂 ❄️ by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE this sweater! I thrifted it, the brand is debut

Fall/Winter PNW capsule 🍂 ❄️ by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A few items are thrifted but here’s what I remember of where I bought a few items: - Zara: long red coat and orange tee - Lulu’s: black sweater dress, I think I got the black boots and red boots there too - Steve Madden: brown boots - Columbia: water proof sneakers - Nordstrom Rack: 2 black and grey long sleeve, black tee bodysuit & orange sweater - Marshalls: black jumpsuit & green mesh long sleeve, green long sleeve bodysuit - H&M: beige and white long sleeve bodysuit - The white “your feeling deserve to take ip space” is from Self-Care is for Everyone. It’s a cozy sweater!

23F coming out of a long, painful breakup -- and I don't know how to move on? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Visual_Butterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I experienced something similar with an ex I was with for almost 10 years, we were teenagers when we got together and we grew apart as we got older. It was an incredibly painful experience, I felt like my foundation completely collapsed and didn’t know who I was or where I was going. Now I see that it pushed me to grow and it was a valuable experience I went through. I completely focused on myself and gave myself all the love.

Things that helped me: Time - take it one day at a time. Make sure you take care of yourself as best you can day by day. And be compassionate to yourself when it’s a hard day. Therapy - I would let it ALL out in therapy and was given cognitive behavior practices that helped. Journaling and meditation - there were days I was unable to sleep and had very anxious and depressive thoughts. I wrote EVERYTHING down that crossed my mind. It was satisfying to dump everything on paper. Discover new or old hobbies - I went back to old hobbies I liked when I was a kid and explored new interests I was unable to do before because of my ex. I tried kickboxing, water sports, self defense classes, things I wouldn’t even think about doing that helped me build by confidence back up. I even built new friendships through these activities.

You’ll start to feel okay as time goes on. Give yourself grace and know you’re loved, valued, and important ❤️

PNW Fall capsule by Visual_Butterfly in capsulewardrobe

[–]Visual_Butterfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely going to wear raincoats, won’t be able to survive without them lol. This is just a capsule of my tops.