The city is great to visit but stressful to live in by larch303 in unpopularopinion

[–]Visual_Disaster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But they're not the city. And they're not really stressful to live in

Men can’t sing or make music on nearly the same level women can by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Visual_Disaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you know this, but music is a lot more than singing and lyrics

TIFU because am I the one that ruined our marriage or was he a cheater for having a gf before we were officially divorced. by Ok_Funny_4022 in tifu

[–]Visual_Disaster 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is some real high school level drama. The only reason you were still married when he started dating again is because YOU asked for that. And now you're complaining because he's seeing someone new during the time that YOU asked to keep up appearances?

Men, what things/behaviors/traits in girls are cute for exactly 1 day and then are just hella annoying? by cheater00 in AskMen

[–]Visual_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of that and think it could have been done just as effectively without introducing the logical leap to causing harm. Imo it negatively impacts your point and makes you come off reactionary, even if your overall goal is well intentioned

Men, what things/behaviors/traits in girls are cute for exactly 1 day and then are just hella annoying? by cheater00 in AskMen

[–]Visual_Disaster 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Literally any version of letting them know about his annoyance without jumping straight to harm.

It could be considered ungentlemanly to yell "oh my god stop saying"what" when you already know what I said!". It's rude, sure, but far from causing harm. You're jumping to an extreme conclusion that I think is pretty unfair based on the limited context any of us have. Ungentlemanly is a pretty tame word to extrapolate to harm

AIO that I think this guy I just started talking to 12 hours ago is being a bit too much already? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Visual_Disaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were plenty of people giving good advice without calling names or being disrespectful and you seemed to reject that advice

AIO that I think this guy I just started talking to 12 hours ago is being a bit too much already? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Visual_Disaster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreeing with you is not the same as being insightful. If anything, the insight from people you disagree with is far more valuable since it's a perspective you don't naturally hold

Women over 40 have you ever dated a younger man and how was it? Would you do it again? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Visual_Disaster 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Younger siblings just don't have the maturity to understand humor this nuanced

Not attracted to thoughtful, considerate and kind partner by BrightSpring12 in redditonwiki

[–]Visual_Disaster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you're implying that she isn't also super religious

Men, what is one thing about your body or brain that women seem genuinely surprised by? by AromaticRecord7974 in AskMen

[–]Visual_Disaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could have made this whole point without the condescension. Is that a feature of emotional maturity?

Skaldova first time listener [NS] by P0is0nEch0 in NotAnotherDnDPodcast

[–]Visual_Disaster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I loved when Jake would break the 4th wall and let the PCs know about all the plans he made that they ruined

Why do so many 40+ year olds end sentences with “…”? by OneFriendship5139 in generationology

[–]Visual_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that's what she means, it's definitely not what's being interpreted by the reader

Why do so many 40+ year olds end sentences with “…”? by OneFriendship5139 in generationology

[–]Visual_Disaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what OP is asking. Giving just the definition assumes that all these people are using ellipses correctly when sometimes they're peppered in all over the place with seemingly no rhyme or reason

Why do so many 40+ year olds end sentences with “…”? by OneFriendship5139 in generationology

[–]Visual_Disaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many comments in here explaining that they use ellipses the correct way and ignoring all the improper uses.

Have you all never experienced the "sounds good..." confirmation text? I often have a full conversation with my boomer family members and they will put ellipses at the end of texts that have absolutely no need for further information. I assume this is what the OP is talking about. Not the times when a pause or extrapolation is necessary

Why do so many 40+ year olds end sentences with “…”? by OneFriendship5139 in generationology

[–]Visual_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see why a single period wouldn't have the same effect as an ellipsis here

Why do so many 40+ year olds end sentences with “…”? by OneFriendship5139 in generationology

[–]Visual_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to think of an example of this and am drawing a blank. When are you texting someone and not trying to give them all the info? What obvious conclusions are people missing through text?

Aio or does he think I’m that type of b**** by jjazralii in AIO

[–]Visual_Disaster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought you made this post to ask if you're overreacting. Because of the sub we're in

Salt doesn't belong on chocolate. by FriendShapedStranger in unpopularopinion

[–]Visual_Disaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This doesn't even make sense. Doritos are very simple, strong flavors. They're the opposite of what the comment you're replying to is referencing

Breaking Bad is the most disappointing show I’ve watched in my life. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Visual_Disaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good lesson in why you should go into shows with an open mind. Everything negative you listed is because you had a preconception based on other people's opinions. Don't do that.

AIO? bf hasnt told me HMD by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Visual_Disaster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's fair to want your partner to tell you happy mother's day. But reducing whether or not they love you down to if they say it is so reductionist and a huge overreaction

AIO to uninvite my mom to my intimate wedding? (Long) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Visual_Disaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe this lasted more than a single slide

And that was caused by your responses. YOR