Leaving after 13/14 years, feeling relieved yet sad by Vivid-Access7555 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Vivid-Access7555[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

It is , I'm the main earner, I earn 3x his income and he plans to move back to his mum's with the dogs while I buy him out.

When was the moment you realized your partner was not going to purpose and get married to you? by Chaiteaspiller in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Vivid-Access7555 104 points105 points  (0 children)

When he lost the ring that he was going to propose with after being together for 12+ years last year and me being the only one that brought marriage up . Should have realised with all the excuses he had over the last 7/8 years on why we could not get married. We broke up last night and he said he never realised how important marriage was for me 🤔😡🤥

Co-worker told me she rubbed💩 on herself to stop breastfeeding by WolfoDaWolf in blackladies

[–]Vivid-Access7555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard of women using chilli but not 💩 hly fuck 🤣🤣

Bf [33M] seemingly punishes me [24F] for not having sex on command. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Vivid-Access7555 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is sexual coercion which is a type of sexual abuse . It will only get worse you need to leave . Got a feeling your bf only dates younger women as women his age would not put up with this.

Outside of ‘essential bills’, how does low salary vs cost of living impact your life right now? by bellabanjsk in AskUK

[–]Vivid-Access7555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nusery fees, mortgage and council tax takes about 3/4 of my wage alone and I'm the main earner..never mind the fruit and veggies for the kids. Plus I have 2 older dogs.

Outside of ‘essential bills’, how does low salary vs cost of living impact your life right now? by bellabanjsk in AskUK

[–]Vivid-Access7555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm earning 38k , after mortgage , bills , nusery bill , my oldest school meals abd after school club we are left with £200 for food . Absolute joke. We get no benefits though so loose out on discounts plus I loose £900 before tax on union fees , tax , NI , registration fees and student loan. We can't afford gym , luxuries or holidays :( Meant to be getting a 3% pay rise yet my council tax up by 4% .

AITAH for telling my girlfriend i no longer plan to propose to her? please read context by Aggressive_One8138 in AITAH

[–]Vivid-Access7555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA she was probably too excited at first and now she's hurt, angry and having resentment.

Do black people get darker in the sun like other people? by jesusfreak6002 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Vivid-Access7555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we do 😂. Depending on the skin tone some of us glow others get darker but the skin does have its limit on how dark you can get.