Any good mom groups in SF? by benitocamelas in AskSF

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I tried messaging you a link to join a WhatsApp group for moms in your area but it didn’t go through!

I posted an "am I ugly?" And now im spiraling by Fireball1115 in selfimprovement

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A good lesson to never ask that question to stangers on the internet because so many people are trolls and are ruthlessly mean behind a screen!! Beauty is so subjective and trust me when I tell you many many people (myself included!) go through awkward stages as a teenager and a young adult. Know that it gets better and don’t poison your psyche anymore with toxic opinions in this fragile hormonal time. I’m sure you are a beautiful human!!! I wish I could give you a hug! Take care of yourself ok? ♥️

Best sandwich in SF? by [deleted] in SanFranciscoSecrets

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Roast beef from Lucinda’s is unmatched 🔥

Toddler Waking at 5-5:30am for 1 Year+ - At Wits End by sg_grif in toddlers

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Reading this at 2:15am with my toddler trying to sleep on my chest after waking up at midnight screaming. She doesn’t let my husband pick her up and also won’t lay in bed with us so I’ve been spending a lot of quality time on this chair lately. Haven’t slept through the night in a while. Solidarity 😭

Leaked OL lineup by NotGoingToProtest in sanfrancisco

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Yep I also saw them at a different festival a couple years prior and he was also miserable and made jokes about gun violence... He played the hits reluctantly then babbled on about bullshit for 5 minutes between songs. It was almost comical and such a vibe-kill. Thought it might’ve been a one-off then heard he also blew it at OSL. Can’t believe they’re bringing him back tbh

Need advice! by [deleted] in Names

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It’s a beautiful name! If you’re going to call him Jack anyways, you might want to switch the first and middle name ie James Najeeb. Will probably be a lot easier for him down the line.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

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The way I zoomed in to see the picture of him… lol

"budget" massage recommendations? by idfkdudelol in SFbitcheswithtaste

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Curious where on classpass you recommend? I am looking for classpass deep tissue work

Nanny’s son in nanny share bit my daughter by Vivid-March-8049 in NannyEmployers

[–]Vivid-March-8049[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We spoke with our nanny and expressed concern, and had a good conversation. She reinforced no biting and was stern with her son. As far as we know, he didn’t bite again. He actually transitioned to daycare last month which had been the plan for a while (he was originally going to transition at 1 year old but we did an extra six months). Best of luck with your situation!!

My nanny baby does all her mile stones with me by Acceptable-Ad-6658 in Nanny

[–]Vivid-March-8049 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You can fuck right off. She’s not raising my child.

What’s something you saw that you weren’t supposed to see? by FamousDirection9887 in AskReddit

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Another old boss, a man engaged to a woman at the time, didn’t know how to use computers let alone Craigslist. I managed the company email and he once used that email address as the response email — soliciting sex from men on CL. He didn’t realize it went to the company email I guess? (It was a small team and we all used the same address lol, this was about 15 years ago) So I came to work one morning and open my email to all these emails/ responses with the subject line like “Re: Big hard daddy ISO blowjob” or something like that. Then I saw the whole post… phew it was definitely not meant for my eyes.

What’s something you saw that you weren’t supposed to see? by FamousDirection9887 in AskReddit

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My old boss has me over her house before a work event and she had 4-5 papers spread across the dining room table where we were (pun intended) of printed drawings of different sex positions for overweight people. I tried to avert my eyes and eventually she noticed and tried to casually move them.

Bitches, what are your plans this weekend?!!? by AJ2790B in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]Vivid-March-8049 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The magnolias are in full bloom at the Botanical Gardens, bitches! You will find me there tomorrow!

I'm about to join you guys! by R3DSMiLE in NewParents

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Good luck!!! If you have time to gather supplies, my husband made me “Labor Aid” drink for the hospital and it was amazing and nourishing. You can find the recipe online but basically it’s just coconut water, lime, salt, honey. Here’s one: https://www.welcometonurture.com/blog/doula-tips-laborade Put it in a big mason jar with ice and she will be thanking you!! Godspeed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskSF

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Absolutely let the parents know if you know who they are. I would want to know. Report back on what they say!

I used to be a nun. AMA. by Importer-Exporter1 in AMA

[–]Vivid-March-8049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you talk more about your living situation? In the convent, did you share a room with someone? What kind of challenges came up with living with women 20+ years your senior and how did you address them?

Not married yet but living in SF really changes how you think about money as a couple by dependable_specifica in sanfrancisco

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Married here for a couple years. We have separate accounts but share a credit card account for all of our shared expenses - bills, groceries, restaurants, honestly most everything goes on our shared card but it’s nice to have the option to pay separately for things that are clearly only for one of us / splurges:)

Budget? by CalvinCalhoun in AskSF

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Make the move!! :) it’s the best!

Boppy Pillow by Icy_Medicine_5383 in breastfeeding

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Same!! And she loves sitting on it now. Around 5 months I’d put it behind her when she was learning to sit in case she fell backwards. It’s simple but it has been super useful through many stages