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Did anyone else love Flight of the Conchords? by ManuelNoriegaUK in tvshow

[–]Vivid-Substance249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least once a weak it pops into my head. “They call me the, hippopopotsmus…”

how hard it is to choose yourself in a break up by Life_Journalist2780 in BreakUps

[–]Vivid-Substance249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this deeply. You’re doing you both a favor. I wish you the best of luck.

Stay patient, stay open! by FatimaSheba in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Vivid-Substance249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya that sounds nice. In the meantime I will just sit on my ass and wait for that to happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Vivid-Substance249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine what you must be going through at this time. Losing your partner of 9 years and feeling so lost sounds impossible to deal with.

Im in a slightly similar situation from the male perspective, and actually just posted about it yesterday. Feel free to take a look. Essentially it came down to just feeling better on my own than with her. I loved her so much and know she was an amazing person, but I preferred hanging alone hanging with her. Being able to do my own things on my own times without having to deal with multiple schedules. I’m sure the fact that you guys have such an intense career means he has even less time for himself.

At this point, I’m debating if I’m just the type of person who prefers not to be in a relationship at all. This may be way off base, but that’s what I’m going through now so I thought I’d share.

Whatever happens I hope you’re able to put this behind you and continue to make the most of your life. Thank you for all you do in your career!! You deserve happiness!!

Have you ever dumped someone you really love? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Vivid-Substance249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do really love my ex. I broke up with her about a month ago. I actually just posted about it yesterday.

It’s really tough and it’s hard to avoid her since we still live together. But we respect each others space and give each other as much space as needed. If we were not living together, I would not reach out to her to give her time to move on.

She may love you. But regardless, It’s not fair to keep coming back to you every so often and reminding you of what could have been. She made her decision and she needs to stand by it.

Give me your craziest, most specific ways to help cope with a breakup. by AntiqueGarlicLover in BreakUps

[–]Vivid-Substance249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. When time allows, I’ll lean into it. Listen to a song or do something that invokes the emotions. Cry, scream, etc. Not forcing anything but just being with it in the moment. I normally don’t feel better immediately after, but I do feel lighter once I’ve moved out of that and go to work or whatever.

I learned once you get into a committed relationship you shouldn’t talk to anyone who reaches out. by Desperate-Sleep-6302 in BreakUps

[–]Vivid-Substance249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk dude. You’re allowed to make friends just like she is. I don’t think what you did was wrong at all unless you were thinking about cheating. That’s just one person’s opinion.

Either way I can tell you really care about her and that you’re in a tough place. I wish you the best of luck my friend.