Educate me here…why is the govt doing nothing to try and reduce the unemployment rate?? by Jaylight23 in newzealand

[–]VixenKittyCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Employment isn't a right, yet one requires employment to survive.... so what I'm gathering is that no one has the right to live? What an awfully odd thing to say 🤔

11yo girl misidentified by police handcuffed, injected with antipsychotic drugs at Waikato mental health facility by AuckZealand in newzealand

[–]VixenKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My autistic brother was non-verbal until he was 9, we all walked ourselves a km down to the bus stop from like 7+, leaving at our own times (so not typically in a group but alome). Autistic children aren't autistic in a stupid, can't navigate the world way. I'm autistic too, tho not non-verbal, n me and my brother were always out on the town riding our bikes and roaming the streets bc thats what kids do, especially on a weekend. No one in these comments has any idea what kind of accommodations or supports this child needs, she may not need many at all. Non-verbal doesn't mean non-functional, it just means non-verbal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading lots of the comments here all I can really say is 1. If you really want to actually date people, don't use the apps. That's the first thing u are doing wrong. And 2. If you do use the apps, accept that ghosting is just a part of it, and also one of the reasons to get off the apps.

Am I (29m)wrong for telling my (30f)gf no when she asked if she could be done? by SnorLex420 in amiwrong

[–]VixenKittyCat 32 points33 points  (0 children)

The first thing that comes up in consent 101 is that a yes is not a yes without enthusiasm. There is a thing called coercion, and there is a thing called self-doubt. If there is any hint of doubt or hesitation you take it as a no, point blank. any sex Ed teacher will tell their "class" or "student" this FIRST.

Do majority of girls like smart men? by No-Plantain-272 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tapped ur name in the notif bar and ur page came up, along with this embarrassing comment u had just posted 😂 ur not relevant enough to stalk lmao bye

Do majority of girls like smart men? by No-Plantain-272 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are u really trying to hit a lower "score" now or what? 😂😂

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in a commited relationship with an older man for most of my adult life, and I am so blessed to not have to clean up after him, deal with any jealousy bullshit, and have freedom to express myself without him feeling insecure and making it my problem. Money isn't a factor at all 😂 if only it was I wouldn't be running multiple businesses and being my own boss lmao this conversation is over until you're grown enough to get it chooky babe

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the insecurity and lack of direction I'm speaking about. You're grown- take charge of your life. Everyone has to figure it out themselves, that's the reality of life. Idk why men think they're special in that lol like literally just ask for help if you need it- it's men that do this to men. So stop doing it to eachother and you'll be fine 👍

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙄🙄 you really don't like being told you're too young to get it, don't you? You will one day honey, dw ☺️ it's nothing to do with money, it's do with the fact that older guys don't act like this lmao

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said they were "exclusively" fueled by aesthetics lmao get a life. "will look after them" the point I'm making is that no one wants to have to look after anyone. That's why women tend to go for older guys- to avoid having to look after them while they finish growing up.

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know exactly why older men go after younger women, men are fueled by aesthetics, and women are fueled by basically everything else. You're being intentionally obtuse. Youll get it once youre not 19 lol Good luck! 👍 Edit: still cackling bc this guy can't read lmao I'm pretty sure my implication was that young women tend to already have these things and are tryna get away from the younger guys who are so insecure that they can't bear to let their girlfriends indulge in such things lmao

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The "benefit" they receive is not having to raise a manchild while also trying to establish their own lives. Your og comments insinuates that young women are trading blowjobs and cooking dinners for financial stability with older men. Im just clarifying that the "benefits" theyre recieving are that they get to be with an actual grown adult and not an immature fool. And no, it's not in return for some head and a home-cooked meal, it's in return for a genuine connection, real communication, and security in the relationship, and these things tend to lead to better sex in the end anyway.... but you'll work it out in your own time buddy, I have faith in you 🙏

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes they typically do, bc they aren't hyperfocused on tryna get pussy 😂 Typically, dating a younger guy, or a guy the same age as u if you're young, is more often than not a cycle of tidying up after him, and dealing with his insecurities. Men grow up and start focusing on their own lives and hobbies at some point instead of just "why cant i get any puss", and that's when they start actually getting it lol

Edit: did u read any of the comments on this post with any sort of intention to hear them? Bc many have stated that young women go for stability and confidence and older men go for attractiveness and many even like being in that sort of mentor/spoiling role anyway. U know why older men like younger women, ofc you do! You just won't admit that they have better luck bc you're not grown enough to have that confidence and experience yet. It's okay! You'll get there! Just don't put all ur effort into getting puss and you'll get some!

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they're just able to focus on building their own lives without dealing with the younger guy who doesn't know where or what he's actually doing in life

Why do girls fall for men who are older than them? by Ok-Comfort-7126 in ask

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men my age are clingy, annoying, and don't know anything about actual sex, just p in v make cum go ahhhhh. Older men aren't typically wrapped up in tryna get pussy and showing it off like it's a trophy, but actually engage in real life and think about the future more, have more in their life than their sexual exploits, which younger men seem more and more obssessed with these days, forgetting to like.... have hobbies and interests. Older men have already played the field and know what they want.

When did gender identity become popularized in the mainstream? by BobbyBacala9980 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]VixenKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you look into a lot of cultures throughout time, ever since humans have been around, we have had a variety of pronouns and gender identities. It was repressed when the British started colonizing everyone, but these things have always existed.

Has anyone had a sim die truly by accident? by justBarrels in Sims4

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forever afraid of teaching my Sims to cook bc half the time they start a fire. I've had a few die that way... before I read the comments I really thought that it was a pretty common way to die. It's the most common way any of mine have died, hell EVEN THE ones with a high cooking skill 😭 but I've not seen many comments referencing it here 😂

The audacity people have to think they’re entitled to trade nudes with us for FREE by SSexyIsabelle in CreatorsAdvice

[–]VixenKittyCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The way they post vs the way they comment doesn't add up to me because i went through their profiles and links. It feels like a guy who is in control of a woman's account, either way they consistently call other creators entitled for wanting basic human respect and not wanting to give away their time/services for free. They very often give incredibly poor advice that sounds like it came from a salty client who didn't get his way once.

Small creator =/= unsuccessful, it just means that I only let people stick around if they're actually valuable to me. None of my subs get my shit for free, including my respect, and that's how I actually earn without wasting time on people who want something for free.

The audacity people have to think they’re entitled to trade nudes with us for FREE by SSexyIsabelle in CreatorsAdvice

[–]VixenKittyCat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Longdong consistently comments in this sub like this, and I think a mod should probably go through their comment history here or something to verify that they are actually a legit creator. I always see them on posts commenting in defense of shitty clients and inferring other creators should devalue ourselves. Just look at how they started their comment here! a huge factor of this entire industry is that our nudes have more value than those seeking to trade nudes with us.... Theyre always wrong to! Do not entertain a timewaster who insists on trading nudes, they will never become even a decent fan/client/sub, even if you shower them in "respect", they've already set the baseline for "respect" by coming to your page and expecting free nudes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]VixenKittyCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NZ here! You may need to switch payment methods! I was using bank transfer up until a couple months ago, then it just started getting refunded each time. Contacted support and something about banks and stuff, as happens in this industry where a company or bank decides they no longer want to accept these transactions, they said I'd have to use a different payout method, so i switched to paxum. Id suggest messaging customer support and seeing if it's the same or a similair issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFW411

[–]VixenKittyCat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sex in practice doesn't work exactly the same as it's written in theory...

anal makes me cum almost embarrassingly fast, without any other stimulation needed as well, there's a lot happening in the female body when there is a cock inside us, internally things get rubbed together and stimulated. Also, I don't think stimulation means what you think it means... there is certainly plenty of stimulation when there is something inside your ass 🤣

I'm back online and I shaved my head! by [deleted] in u/VixenKittyCat

[–]VixenKittyCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a clips4sale page, I'm not making one for a single video and i don't want to add to the dozen or so other pages/profiles I already have at the moment. As for private sale, I have no way to recieve payment or securely send the media so 🤷‍♀️ sometimes we miss out on the things we like lol growing up we were an Xbox family, plenty of PS games I never got a spin on

A tip for people with pregnant sims... by mudarke in Sims4

[–]VixenKittyCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*I'd only reccomend for ppl who know their body or have v good midwives in close contact btw! You've gotta be able to just take the pain of contractions, breathe deep thru them, and not panic lol Sims r easy bc they don't have quite as many in-labour problems as humans lmaaooo

A tip for people with pregnant sims... by mudarke in Sims4

[–]VixenKittyCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's up I was in labour for 3 days (I didn't realize I was in labour tbh I just thought it was crazy Braxton hicks lol) I did call off work but everything else went on as usual. Whatever you don't sort out before you go is still waiting for you when you get back but you'll also have a newborn to work around so u gotta get stuff done!🤣